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May 19, 2011 at 4:15 PM #698239May 19, 2011 at 4:54 PM #697081
jpinpb
ParticipantAnd this is why divorce attorneys are in business. Marriage is not only an emotional factor, but also you could say a contract, vows to be devoted to one another.
I can understand that some men are not interested in being faithful and respect them for being single. And I know some people that have open marriages. If they are okay w/that arrangement, then great.
But for those who like the stability of marriage, but also want to enjoy being single while being married, that’s a nice recipe for divorce.
May 19, 2011 at 4:54 PM #697170ParticipantAnd this is why divorce attorneys are in business. Marriage is not only an emotional factor, but also you could say a contract, vows to be devoted to one another.
I can understand that some men are not interested in being faithful and respect them for being single. And I know some people that have open marriages. If they are okay w/that arrangement, then great.
But for those who like the stability of marriage, but also want to enjoy being single while being married, that’s a nice recipe for divorce.
May 19, 2011 at 4:54 PM #697767ParticipantAnd this is why divorce attorneys are in business. Marriage is not only an emotional factor, but also you could say a contract, vows to be devoted to one another.
I can understand that some men are not interested in being faithful and respect them for being single. And I know some people that have open marriages. If they are okay w/that arrangement, then great.
But for those who like the stability of marriage, but also want to enjoy being single while being married, that’s a nice recipe for divorce.
May 19, 2011 at 4:54 PM #697913ParticipantAnd this is why divorce attorneys are in business. Marriage is not only an emotional factor, but also you could say a contract, vows to be devoted to one another.
I can understand that some men are not interested in being faithful and respect them for being single. And I know some people that have open marriages. If they are okay w/that arrangement, then great.
But for those who like the stability of marriage, but also want to enjoy being single while being married, that’s a nice recipe for divorce.
May 19, 2011 at 4:54 PM #698269ParticipantAnd this is why divorce attorneys are in business. Marriage is not only an emotional factor, but also you could say a contract, vows to be devoted to one another.
I can understand that some men are not interested in being faithful and respect them for being single. And I know some people that have open marriages. If they are okay w/that arrangement, then great.
But for those who like the stability of marriage, but also want to enjoy being single while being married, that’s a nice recipe for divorce.
May 19, 2011 at 5:53 PM #697141Anonymous
Guest[quote=davelj][quote=walterwhite]I like cake but it’s also good to have a spare Twinkie. Why not at least try to have your cake and eat it too. You might get away with it. Nothing ventured nothing gained.[/quote]
And therein lies one big problem. Many men (and women – but I’m going to focus on men here) want to have their cake and eat it too. They enter into marriage because they want kids and the stability of a wife-partner. But they have no intention of being faithful. They view the whole arrangement as just being part of life – you have your wife and kids, and then you have your affairs on the side. A large proportion of men enter into marriage with the belief that this is just how men are supposed to lead their lives. I’m not saying it’s right – I’m just saying it’s prevalent. I have many married male friends that, if we were in a bar somewhere and they started trying to pick up a woman and I reminded them of their marriage… they would break up in laughter at the comment, assuming it was a joke.[/quote]
Clearly Dave you are not married.
May 19, 2011 at 5:53 PM #697230Guest[quote=davelj][quote=walterwhite]I like cake but it’s also good to have a spare Twinkie. Why not at least try to have your cake and eat it too. You might get away with it. Nothing ventured nothing gained.[/quote]
And therein lies one big problem. Many men (and women – but I’m going to focus on men here) want to have their cake and eat it too. They enter into marriage because they want kids and the stability of a wife-partner. But they have no intention of being faithful. They view the whole arrangement as just being part of life – you have your wife and kids, and then you have your affairs on the side. A large proportion of men enter into marriage with the belief that this is just how men are supposed to lead their lives. I’m not saying it’s right – I’m just saying it’s prevalent. I have many married male friends that, if we were in a bar somewhere and they started trying to pick up a woman and I reminded them of their marriage… they would break up in laughter at the comment, assuming it was a joke.[/quote]
Clearly Dave you are not married.
May 19, 2011 at 5:53 PM #697827Guest[quote=davelj][quote=walterwhite]I like cake but it’s also good to have a spare Twinkie. Why not at least try to have your cake and eat it too. You might get away with it. Nothing ventured nothing gained.[/quote]
And therein lies one big problem. Many men (and women – but I’m going to focus on men here) want to have their cake and eat it too. They enter into marriage because they want kids and the stability of a wife-partner. But they have no intention of being faithful. They view the whole arrangement as just being part of life – you have your wife and kids, and then you have your affairs on the side. A large proportion of men enter into marriage with the belief that this is just how men are supposed to lead their lives. I’m not saying it’s right – I’m just saying it’s prevalent. I have many married male friends that, if we were in a bar somewhere and they started trying to pick up a woman and I reminded them of their marriage… they would break up in laughter at the comment, assuming it was a joke.[/quote]
Clearly Dave you are not married.
May 19, 2011 at 5:53 PM #697973Guest[quote=davelj][quote=walterwhite]I like cake but it’s also good to have a spare Twinkie. Why not at least try to have your cake and eat it too. You might get away with it. Nothing ventured nothing gained.[/quote]
And therein lies one big problem. Many men (and women – but I’m going to focus on men here) want to have their cake and eat it too. They enter into marriage because they want kids and the stability of a wife-partner. But they have no intention of being faithful. They view the whole arrangement as just being part of life – you have your wife and kids, and then you have your affairs on the side. A large proportion of men enter into marriage with the belief that this is just how men are supposed to lead their lives. I’m not saying it’s right – I’m just saying it’s prevalent. I have many married male friends that, if we were in a bar somewhere and they started trying to pick up a woman and I reminded them of their marriage… they would break up in laughter at the comment, assuming it was a joke.[/quote]
Clearly Dave you are not married.
May 19, 2011 at 5:53 PM #698329Guest[quote=davelj][quote=walterwhite]I like cake but it’s also good to have a spare Twinkie. Why not at least try to have your cake and eat it too. You might get away with it. Nothing ventured nothing gained.[/quote]
And therein lies one big problem. Many men (and women – but I’m going to focus on men here) want to have their cake and eat it too. They enter into marriage because they want kids and the stability of a wife-partner. But they have no intention of being faithful. They view the whole arrangement as just being part of life – you have your wife and kids, and then you have your affairs on the side. A large proportion of men enter into marriage with the belief that this is just how men are supposed to lead their lives. I’m not saying it’s right – I’m just saying it’s prevalent. I have many married male friends that, if we were in a bar somewhere and they started trying to pick up a woman and I reminded them of their marriage… they would break up in laughter at the comment, assuming it was a joke.[/quote]
Clearly Dave you are not married.
May 19, 2011 at 5:53 PM #697146bearishgurl
Participant[quote=jpinpb]… Also, not discussed here, but men aren’t the only ones who corner the market on cheating. I imagine the maid could’ve been afraid of retaliation, losing her job, etc, but she could’ve said no. It would seem she had no problem being w/a married man. Vows sometimes mean nothing to women, either…[/quote]
My understanding from one of those online gossip rags was that the maid in this case was married to another while bearing the guvenator’s child. She even told the hospital her husband was the father. The gossip rag posted a copy of this child’s (redacted) LA County birth certificate with the father and mother’s names on it. It also stated she was not a live-in maid. She lived with her husband and children at the time in LA County. The guvenator and his family also lived in LA County at the time.
May 19, 2011 at 5:53 PM #697235Participant[quote=jpinpb]… Also, not discussed here, but men aren’t the only ones who corner the market on cheating. I imagine the maid could’ve been afraid of retaliation, losing her job, etc, but she could’ve said no. It would seem she had no problem being w/a married man. Vows sometimes mean nothing to women, either…[/quote]
My understanding from one of those online gossip rags was that the maid in this case was married to another while bearing the guvenator’s child. She even told the hospital her husband was the father. The gossip rag posted a copy of this child’s (redacted) LA County birth certificate with the father and mother’s names on it. It also stated she was not a live-in maid. She lived with her husband and children at the time in LA County. The guvenator and his family also lived in LA County at the time.
May 19, 2011 at 5:53 PM #697832Participant[quote=jpinpb]… Also, not discussed here, but men aren’t the only ones who corner the market on cheating. I imagine the maid could’ve been afraid of retaliation, losing her job, etc, but she could’ve said no. It would seem she had no problem being w/a married man. Vows sometimes mean nothing to women, either…[/quote]
My understanding from one of those online gossip rags was that the maid in this case was married to another while bearing the guvenator’s child. She even told the hospital her husband was the father. The gossip rag posted a copy of this child’s (redacted) LA County birth certificate with the father and mother’s names on it. It also stated she was not a live-in maid. She lived with her husband and children at the time in LA County. The guvenator and his family also lived in LA County at the time.
May 19, 2011 at 5:53 PM #697978Participant[quote=jpinpb]… Also, not discussed here, but men aren’t the only ones who corner the market on cheating. I imagine the maid could’ve been afraid of retaliation, losing her job, etc, but she could’ve said no. It would seem she had no problem being w/a married man. Vows sometimes mean nothing to women, either…[/quote]
My understanding from one of those online gossip rags was that the maid in this case was married to another while bearing the guvenator’s child. She even told the hospital her husband was the father. The gossip rag posted a copy of this child’s (redacted) LA County birth certificate with the father and mother’s names on it. It also stated she was not a live-in maid. She lived with her husband and children at the time in LA County. The guvenator and his family also lived in LA County at the time.
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