Forum Replies Created
-
AuthorPosts
-
flyer
ParticipantThe problem with trying to collect after an accident is always the looming possibility that the offenders don’t have much insurance, if any at all, and very little net worth.
When you look at the stats, the high percentage of low net worth people these days is really scary. Can only imagine how much worse it’s going to get in the future.
ParticipantAround San Diego, we rarely use any freeways but the I-5, and SR-56.
From what I’ve seen on those particular freeways, tailgaters, speeders, and my personal favorites–those who don’t know how to make a turn and finish it in the same lane–especially when entering or exiting a freeway ramp–seem to come in all varieties, so I can’t say I’ve noticed any particular group of offenders.
I’d like to see some stats on aggressive drivers and their net worth. Now, THAT would be interesting.
It definitely seems to be equal-opportunity idiocy on the roads, and other drivers, like the OP, have to suffer the consequences. BTW–Sorry to hear of your incident NP.
ParticipantSince this thread has been hijacked anyway, as a “Boomer” I couldn’t resist making a few comments.
Since none of us choose when we are born, IMO, the main thing is to make your life the best life it can be for you and your family.
I can only speak for myself and people I know, but most of our friends–especially those near our age (50’s)–have lived, and are living the lives they want to live every single day, with few financial concerns.
Most of us have done just about everything we want to do in the world, and we hope future generations have that same good fortune. I have no animosity toward younger generations–I’m glad to be in a position to pass everything along to my kids, so they can live life to the max also.
Sure, there is always the highly unlikely possibility that America could tank, but if that ever happens, I seriously doubt that any other location in the world will offer a completely safe haven, financially, or otherwise. Friends who live in other countries are far more concerned about their financial futures than we are.
Bottom line is that many people don’t even make it into their 50’s or beyond for health or other reasons–so enjoy life while you can–whatever your age, because you never really know what lies ahead.
ParticipantActually think tailgating may be more about ego than low IQ–perhaps a little of both. Driving is one place in the world where the playing field of life is leveled–and it seems some people use it as a place to “prove something.”
Tailgating proves nothing, since it doesn’t get you another million or one more minute of life, so, what’s the point? I just laugh when I see people doing things like that, but it’s sad when their stupidity evolves into an accident.
One thing that seems to be working for us when we see someone bearing down on us in our rear-view mirror–especially in heavy traffic on the freeways–is hitting the hazard lights–it’s amazing how people behind us really start slowing down. We believe doing this one simple thing at the right time has saved us from several accidents.
ParticipantPretty much agree with the spectrum of comments regarding AZ. Even though we kept our home in San Diego, we lived in Scottsdale for a few years, and have kept some rentals there.
IMO, Scottsdale, Paradise Valley, Cave Creek and Carefree are probably some of the best areas in which to live in AZ. As SK mentioned, very upscale, lots to do, great restaurants, shopping, golf, great medical facilities, etc., etc.
Loved traveling all over the state when we were there, with all of the natural beauty and various attractions–so it’s well worth a trip, at least once in your life.
After college, lots of our kids friends had to move to AZ–and other states–because they couldn’t find jobs in CA, or couldn’t afford to live here when they left their parent’s homes.
As I know I’ve said before, we always seem to gravitate back to San Diego, regardless of where else we’ve lived. Even when we spent 5 years in Hawaii, we couldn’t wait to get back here, and I’m sure others feel the same.
ParticipantTotally agree, flu.
Staying on topic per the OP’s parameters, and posting first-hand knowledge that might help the OP have always been my goal in all of my posts.
Each person has to find their “best place,” and that’s all that really matters. Hopefully, some of our targeted suggestions will help these folks find theirs.
ParticipantBased upon the additional information the OP has shared–I would again suggest Carmel Valley and Del Mar–especially considering the price range, schools, freeway access, and the Coronado connection. JMO.
We own rentals in both CV and DM, and a couple of the families who lease from us are from the East Coast, and love both locations.
Agree that Sunset Cliffs and parts of Point Loma could be great considerations for the OP with excellent proximity to Coronado. Several family members live in both, but I think other posters have covered the pros and cons that exist there, which should also be considered. University City is also a great option, as UCGal mentioned.
Although we’re San Diego natives, we’ve lived all over the country and the world, but always come back to San Diego–so that should tell you how much we love it, and I think you will too!
ParticipantAgree with checking out Rancho Santa Fe as well. I didn’t mention it, because I thought the interest was elsewhere, but we’ve lived in RSF for years, and love it.
At sdlookup.com, you can pull up the 92067 and 92091 zip codes to take a look at housing options in those areas.
ParticipantAs native San Diegans, my wife and I chose to send our kids to La Jolla Country Day School. My brother sent his four girls to The Bishop’s School in La Jolla, and, as others here have mentioned, there are definitely other excellent options.
Another area, near Del Mar, called Carmel Valley, (zip code 92130) has excellent public schools as well as two private Catholic schools I know
of–Notre Dame Academy and Cathedral High School.Depending on where you will be working, you might want to check out housing options by zip code in this and other areas at sdlookup.com.
With regard to particular areas of San Diego being family friendly–I would say that you should be fine in all of the areas you mentioned with regard to housing, schools, and building a wonderful life for you and your family in San Diego–but I would definitely check out Carmel Valley as another very strong option.
All the best!!
ParticipantWe’ve owned investment real estate in the San Diego area for almost 25 years–mostly in the coastal areas.
It seems like everyone wants to get in the game now, so there is a lot of competition for investment properties.
At this point in time, your investment options will be limited to areas within your budget, and it sounds like you’ve received some good suggestions from previous posts here.
You may also want to take a look at various zip codes at sdlookup.com, to get an idea of what’s out there, or work with a realtor who might be able to further assist you.
ParticipantLooking forward to watching both this weekend. Enjoy racing and golf even more than helos and Cessnas.
ParticipantI would drive around the areas you are interested in and get a feel for the neighborhoods. When you find the area that best suits you, based upon your own criteria–close to work, within budget, etc.–check out the zip codes at sdlookup.com, and see what’s available.
As many have mentioned, the construction issues in San Diego vary widely, and if you find something that fits your other criteria, and you get to the point of wanting to make an offer, a good inspection should reveal anything you need to know.
For many of us, it’s all about location, so I definitely would not minimize that element. I know I wouldn’t want to live any place other than where I do, and I think most people on this board feel the same about their respective locations.
The most perfectly constructed home in a location you can’t stand won’t bring much joy to your life, so that’s an important consideration. At least it was for us.
You could also work with one of the excellent realtors who post on this board, if you feel you could use some additional assistance.
Good Luck!
ParticipantIt’s great to remember all the great times youth gave us–and each of us will for the rest of lives. They become little snapshots in your memory, stored away forever.
No one likes to get older, but all of us will. I’m sure I never thought I’d be in my 50’s, but here I am, and grateful I made it this far–some don’t, you know.
Getting older isn’t great, but it isn’t all bad, either. Getting to the point of not having to worry about money, knowing the kids are pretty much settled in life, doing what you love, etc., etc., gives it a certain sheen to me.
The main thing is to try to enjoy each day, just as you mentioned.
ParticipantEmpathize with all of you, and wish your kids the best–wherever their paths may lead them!
-
AuthorPosts
