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ParticipantAgree, San Diego is definitely in high demand. Glad to see our city booming in every way.
Have lots of friends who have relocated here over the years. Many considered FL, the Carolinas, etc. but I encouraged them to think twice about those choices.
Having spent time in FL with friends and family, and having had some properties there, we know we’d never want to move there for many reasons. For those who only live there for the few nice times of the year, and can live with the heat, humidity, pests, and many other issues, not the least of which are hurricanes and tornadoes, there are many beautiful places to live, as well as other perks, but it would never work for us year round. We know lots of people who feel that way, but it does seem to work for some people, since that state is also booming.
ParticipantCould be, TS. So much of what we are experiencing is uncharted territory due to the pandemic, and for some other reasons, so, imo, anything is possible.
Sadly, all of the volatility in many sectors, is most affecting those who can least afford it, which is a substantial portion of those in our country. We can only hope there will be some meaningful resolutions sooner rather than later.
ParticipantThings really are starting to get interesting. Not really looking for more rentals, but always open to new opportunities. Otoh, really don’t want to see the country continue to go through even more economic pain. Guess we’ll have to wait and see how it all goes.
ParticipantEP, as I’ve said before, the nice thing about your situation is that you did the SoCal thing longer than most people ever will, and now, I’m sure, you can probably live wherever you choose, anytime you choose, just as we can.
Along with many of our business interests, we have family and friends all over CA, and elsewhere, but the majority are in CA, including our kids, so, for us, continuing to live here most of the time makes the most sense.
I talk to people all of the time who, for numerous reasons, admit they are stuck wherever they are, and couldn’t make a change–even if their lives depended on it–even some in CA. Others dreamed of living in CA, but weren’t able to make their dreams a reality for many years, so they feel they missed out on living their dreams when they were young, which is really sad.
None of the above apply to you, so, you’ve already won, and even though SG is different, the fact that you have chosen where you want to be at this time in your life doesn’t need to be defended, but, simply, enjoyed.
ParticipantGlad to see these comments.
Everyone in our family, including my wife and myself have multiple degrees, including our daughter who is an MD, financed via a combo of sources, including the grandparents plan to put all of the kids in the family through college from the day they were born.
I realize not everyone has these options, and I’m all for those IN NEED receiving assistance in financing an education, or receiving full or partial rides for degrees that will pay off in real life, providing that’s the goal, but, imo, that’s not something you can adequately document when it comes to government handouts, and that’s where I have a problem.
ParticipantWe’ve gladly paid off various types of loans for many people we know, or who are affiliated with organizations we trust. Happy to do that.
Even though the people receiving the “Biden Bux” will actually be paying for them in the future in some way, shape or form, I’d rather pass on a government give away to people we don’t know.
ParticipantWe’re visiting my daughter’s family in Malibu, and, wow, it’s a busy 4th up here, as are most of the coastal towns.
Generally 34X36 (I’m 6’3″)for years, but varies, depending on the cut.
As far as making lifestyle changes, imo, it’s a good idea to try before you buy. During the last 10+ years of my flying career, due to seniority, I only flew about once a month, so we were free to check out lifestyles in various locations. Possibly, one of the original remote jobs, before that option became mainstream.
This way, we found what we liked, and didn’t like, and still spend extended periods of time at some of the locations every year for variety. Probably wise to find out if you really prefer another lifestyle long term before you go all in.
ParticipantExcellent points, scaredy. We’re driving up the coast for the 4th, so I’m waiting for my wife to get ready. Love driving at night with the top down, and less traffic.
As far as looks, we can only do the best we can with what we have, and it sounds like you are. Genetics do seem to play a big part. Illness too, for those who have been through those trials.
My dad and grandpa looked 20 years younger than they were until they died, both at around 90–and, according to their wives–still tall, dark, and handsome.
Everyone will age, whether they like it or not, unless, of course, they die first. The fact that we’ve lived long enough to get older puts us ahead in the game of life, and that is definitely something to be proud of.
As far as the link–setup to prove a point. Just Google it. You’ll see.
Happy 4th to all!
ParticipantLol. Haven’t been to that beach, but, yes, age can be a sad thing, if you don’t take care of yourself–and especially if you weren’t good looking to begin with.
We know quite a few people who are complaining about aging–even some in their 40’s. Of course, there is always plastic surgery for those who need it, but it generally doesn’t seem to come out too well.
ParticipantThere are great beaches in lots of locations–public and private–and not just in CA. If you go at certain times to run, walk, or do whatever you want to do, you can avoid the crowds at beaches like Del Mar and Torrey Pines which are close to us, and yes, some military beaches are great.
Same with hiking, biking, and other outdoor activities. From the desert to the mountains to the ocean–loads of great places to enjoy life outside, and, of course, you have to take precautions wrt your skin, etc.
ParticipantActually, there is a lot of scientific evidence that living near or visiting the water often has immense physical and mental health benefits. I know we’d never want to be far from the ocean–it’s part of our daily life.
As far as other markets declining for a variety of reasons. Imo, if the locations meet the needs of those who moved there for long-term reasons–then they probably don’t care–since they are living the lives they want to live.
If others moved for other reasons, or are investors, they may get burned, but only time will tell how it all plays out.
Not everyone can or want to live in CA, and I give people credit who honestly evaluate their life goals, and make changes accordingly. Better to be honest with yourself than trying to survive in a place you and your kids know you can’t afford long-term, with little hope of an early or stable retirement.
ParticipantThat is so true. Probably why we’re happy exactly where we are.
ParticipantTotally agree, Hobie. I have always felt that everyone should do what’s best for their particular situation. There is no one-size-fits-all in life.
ParticipantThere are a lot of places in CA I wouldn’t want to live either–so I understand that–but if you just don’t care for CA in general, I’d definitely try to find a place that has more of what appeals to you. Life is too short to live in a place you hate.
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