OT/ ” I Have The Pu–y, I Make The Rules”

[fredo4]

Not this tired old debate again. Didn’t we just do this like two weeks ago?
How about this.. if you don’t want to get married- don’t get married.

[justme]

[quote=scaredycat]the emotional damage to women from withholding child visits will exceed the damage to men; men will probably be able to extract greater financial concessions from women if they control the kids since women’s hormones will make the price of regular visitation (without bogus interruptions) higher. It will be difficult to truly get to gender fairness without taking into account intrinsic biological differences…[/quote]

Please note that nobody said anything about withholding visitations by the mother in the first place. You just pulled that one out of nowhere.

Now, you want to “take into account intrinsic biological differences” to achieve gender fairness?

Isn’t that what the problem is in the first place, when women are favored over men in divorce court?

Scaredycat, I’m a bit of a fan of some of your writings elsewhere, but I think you are wrong on this one.

[justme]

[quote=scaredycat]the emotional damage to women from withholding child visits will exceed the damage to men; men will probably be able to extract greater financial concessions from women if they control the kids since women’s hormones will make the price of regular visitation (without bogus interruptions) higher. It will be difficult to truly get to gender fairness without taking into account intrinsic biological differences…[/quote]

Please note that nobody said anything about withholding visitations by the mother in the first place. You just pulled that one out of nowhere.

Now, you want to “take into account intrinsic biological differences” to achieve gender fairness?

Isn’t that what the problem is in the first place, when women are favored over men in divorce court?

Scaredycat, I’m a bit of a fan of some of your writings elsewhere, but I think you are wrong on this one.

[justme]

[quote=scaredycat]the emotional damage to women from withholding child visits will exceed the damage to men; men will probably be able to extract greater financial concessions from women if they control the kids since women’s hormones will make the price of regular visitation (without bogus interruptions) higher. It will be difficult to truly get to gender fairness without taking into account intrinsic biological differences…[/quote]

Please note that nobody said anything about withholding visitations by the mother in the first place. You just pulled that one out of nowhere.

Now, you want to “take into account intrinsic biological differences” to achieve gender fairness?

Isn’t that what the problem is in the first place, when women are favored over men in divorce court?

Scaredycat, I’m a bit of a fan of some of your writings elsewhere, but I think you are wrong on this one.

[justme]

[quote=scaredycat]the emotional damage to women from withholding child visits will exceed the damage to men; men will probably be able to extract greater financial concessions from women if they control the kids since women’s hormones will make the price of regular visitation (without bogus interruptions) higher. It will be difficult to truly get to gender fairness without taking into account intrinsic biological differences…[/quote]

Please note that nobody said anything about withholding visitations by the mother in the first place. You just pulled that one out of nowhere.

Now, you want to “take into account intrinsic biological differences” to achieve gender fairness?

Isn’t that what the problem is in the first place, when women are favored over men in divorce court?

Scaredycat, I’m a bit of a fan of some of your writings elsewhere, but I think you are wrong on this one.

[justme]

[quote=scaredycat]the emotional damage to women from withholding child visits will exceed the damage to men; men will probably be able to extract greater financial concessions from women if they control the kids since women’s hormones will make the price of regular visitation (without bogus interruptions) higher. It will be difficult to truly get to gender fairness without taking into account intrinsic biological differences…[/quote]

Please note that nobody said anything about withholding visitations by the mother in the first place. You just pulled that one out of nowhere.

Now, you want to “take into account intrinsic biological differences” to achieve gender fairness?

Isn’t that what the problem is in the first place, when women are favored over men in divorce court?

Scaredycat, I’m a bit of a fan of some of your writings elsewhere, but I think you are wrong on this one.

[justme]

[quote=Russell]

The alimony and child support doesn’t scare everybody to the same extent.

[/quote]

Oh, yeah, the old just-be-a-man-about-it argument.

Alimony and child support is not about being “scared”. It is about the real damage that divorce court does to men.

It is the same tactic used when women say that men are “afraid” of commitment. What nonsense. It is just a cheap-trick tactic designed to manipulate men into making a commitment even when it is a bad deal for them.

[justme]

[quote=Russell]

The alimony and child support doesn’t scare everybody to the same extent.

[/quote]

Oh, yeah, the old just-be-a-man-about-it argument.

Alimony and child support is not about being “scared”. It is about the real damage that divorce court does to men.

It is the same tactic used when women say that men are “afraid” of commitment. What nonsense. It is just a cheap-trick tactic designed to manipulate men into making a commitment even when it is a bad deal for them.

[justme]

[quote=Russell]

The alimony and child support doesn’t scare everybody to the same extent.

[/quote]

Oh, yeah, the old just-be-a-man-about-it argument.

Alimony and child support is not about being “scared”. It is about the real damage that divorce court does to men.

It is the same tactic used when women say that men are “afraid” of commitment. What nonsense. It is just a cheap-trick tactic designed to manipulate men into making a commitment even when it is a bad deal for them.

[justme]

[quote=Russell]

The alimony and child support doesn’t scare everybody to the same extent.

[/quote]

Oh, yeah, the old just-be-a-man-about-it argument.

Alimony and child support is not about being “scared”. It is about the real damage that divorce court does to men.

It is the same tactic used when women say that men are “afraid” of commitment. What nonsense. It is just a cheap-trick tactic designed to manipulate men into making a commitment even when it is a bad deal for them.

[justme]

[quote=Russell]

The alimony and child support doesn’t scare everybody to the same extent.

[/quote]

Oh, yeah, the old just-be-a-man-about-it argument.

Alimony and child support is not about being “scared”. It is about the real damage that divorce court does to men.

It is the same tactic used when women say that men are “afraid” of commitment. What nonsense. It is just a cheap-trick tactic designed to manipulate men into making a commitment even when it is a bad deal for them.

[briansd1]

[quote=Russell]However, you really do seem like a little boy with this topic. Unless of course, you are still just taking your position,foriegn brides and all,for the fun of it.

Have a great day.[/quote]

I’m bored, my flight is delayed and I’m stuck at the airport. I won’t be back to SAN ’til the morning. Kinda sucks.

Yeah, I’m a little boy. I live and think much younger than my age, but with the benefit of experience and better intellect. My peers got chubby and married with children.

I tried to do like everybody else. I had a perfectly amicable divorce because my ex-wife is richer than me (no, I wasn’t a house husband). But I can tell you that I found marriage and life in the suburbs stale and boring. Will never do it again.

I think that my attitude keeps me young. I look at the fun side of life and live fairly stress free.

[briansd1]

[quote=Russell]However, you really do seem like a little boy with this topic. Unless of course, you are still just taking your position,foriegn brides and all,for the fun of it.

Have a great day.[/quote]

I’m bored, my flight is delayed and I’m stuck at the airport. I won’t be back to SAN ’til the morning. Kinda sucks.

Yeah, I’m a little boy. I live and think much younger than my age, but with the benefit of experience and better intellect. My peers got chubby and married with children.

I tried to do like everybody else. I had a perfectly amicable divorce because my ex-wife is richer than me (no, I wasn’t a house husband). But I can tell you that I found marriage and life in the suburbs stale and boring. Will never do it again.

I think that my attitude keeps me young. I look at the fun side of life and live fairly stress free.

[briansd1]

[quote=Russell]However, you really do seem like a little boy with this topic. Unless of course, you are still just taking your position,foriegn brides and all,for the fun of it.

Have a great day.[/quote]

I’m bored, my flight is delayed and I’m stuck at the airport. I won’t be back to SAN ’til the morning. Kinda sucks.

Yeah, I’m a little boy. I live and think much younger than my age, but with the benefit of experience and better intellect. My peers got chubby and married with children.

I tried to do like everybody else. I had a perfectly amicable divorce because my ex-wife is richer than me (no, I wasn’t a house husband). But I can tell you that I found marriage and life in the suburbs stale and boring. Will never do it again.

I think that my attitude keeps me young. I look at the fun side of life and live fairly stress free.

[briansd1]

[quote=Russell]However, you really do seem like a little boy with this topic. Unless of course, you are still just taking your position,foriegn brides and all,for the fun of it.

Have a great day.[/quote]

I’m bored, my flight is delayed and I’m stuck at the airport. I won’t be back to SAN ’til the morning. Kinda sucks.

Yeah, I’m a little boy. I live and think much younger than my age, but with the benefit of experience and better intellect. My peers got chubby and married with children.

I tried to do like everybody else. I had a perfectly amicable divorce because my ex-wife is richer than me (no, I wasn’t a house husband). But I can tell you that I found marriage and life in the suburbs stale and boring. Will never do it again.

I think that my attitude keeps me young. I look at the fun side of life and live fairly stress free.

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