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October 28, 2009 at 7:41 AM #475432October 28, 2009 at 7:44 AM #474584NotCrankyParticipant
The title is unnecessarily vulgar for this forum.
I don’t see this as much as you(the OP) apparently do. I think a lot of problems come from a lack of adaptation to changing roles/expectations and the demands on women and men that come with them.
The person suffering from the syndrome you describe probably doesn’t know how to find a partner who can co-exist somewhere between the old style benefits and liabilities of being a Real Man and the new ways, which by necessity, need to be more egalitarian across a broader spectrum of behaviors than ever. Half of these people who are not keeping up are probably wife beaters and the other half fail by being dominated… or as FLU said, they are avoiding commitment.I suggest reading the Hite Report(not agreeing with it completely of course) and some of Dr. Warren Farrell’s books.
October 28, 2009 at 7:44 AM #474761NotCrankyParticipantThe title is unnecessarily vulgar for this forum.
I don’t see this as much as you(the OP) apparently do. I think a lot of problems come from a lack of adaptation to changing roles/expectations and the demands on women and men that come with them.
The person suffering from the syndrome you describe probably doesn’t know how to find a partner who can co-exist somewhere between the old style benefits and liabilities of being a Real Man and the new ways, which by necessity, need to be more egalitarian across a broader spectrum of behaviors than ever. Half of these people who are not keeping up are probably wife beaters and the other half fail by being dominated… or as FLU said, they are avoiding commitment.I suggest reading the Hite Report(not agreeing with it completely of course) and some of Dr. Warren Farrell’s books.
October 28, 2009 at 7:44 AM #475125NotCrankyParticipantThe title is unnecessarily vulgar for this forum.
I don’t see this as much as you(the OP) apparently do. I think a lot of problems come from a lack of adaptation to changing roles/expectations and the demands on women and men that come with them.
The person suffering from the syndrome you describe probably doesn’t know how to find a partner who can co-exist somewhere between the old style benefits and liabilities of being a Real Man and the new ways, which by necessity, need to be more egalitarian across a broader spectrum of behaviors than ever. Half of these people who are not keeping up are probably wife beaters and the other half fail by being dominated… or as FLU said, they are avoiding commitment.I suggest reading the Hite Report(not agreeing with it completely of course) and some of Dr. Warren Farrell’s books.
October 28, 2009 at 7:44 AM #475202NotCrankyParticipantThe title is unnecessarily vulgar for this forum.
I don’t see this as much as you(the OP) apparently do. I think a lot of problems come from a lack of adaptation to changing roles/expectations and the demands on women and men that come with them.
The person suffering from the syndrome you describe probably doesn’t know how to find a partner who can co-exist somewhere between the old style benefits and liabilities of being a Real Man and the new ways, which by necessity, need to be more egalitarian across a broader spectrum of behaviors than ever. Half of these people who are not keeping up are probably wife beaters and the other half fail by being dominated… or as FLU said, they are avoiding commitment.I suggest reading the Hite Report(not agreeing with it completely of course) and some of Dr. Warren Farrell’s books.
October 28, 2009 at 7:44 AM #475427NotCrankyParticipantThe title is unnecessarily vulgar for this forum.
I don’t see this as much as you(the OP) apparently do. I think a lot of problems come from a lack of adaptation to changing roles/expectations and the demands on women and men that come with them.
The person suffering from the syndrome you describe probably doesn’t know how to find a partner who can co-exist somewhere between the old style benefits and liabilities of being a Real Man and the new ways, which by necessity, need to be more egalitarian across a broader spectrum of behaviors than ever. Half of these people who are not keeping up are probably wife beaters and the other half fail by being dominated… or as FLU said, they are avoiding commitment.I suggest reading the Hite Report(not agreeing with it completely of course) and some of Dr. Warren Farrell’s books.
October 28, 2009 at 7:52 AM #474594AnonymousGuest[quote=Russell]The title is unnecessarily vulgar for this forum.
True, but I would be a liar if I said it didn’t catch my attention.
On topic and in the spirit of this forum: I prefer renting over buying when it comes to marriage. People live to long and life is to short.
October 28, 2009 at 7:52 AM #474771AnonymousGuest[quote=Russell]The title is unnecessarily vulgar for this forum.
True, but I would be a liar if I said it didn’t catch my attention.
On topic and in the spirit of this forum: I prefer renting over buying when it comes to marriage. People live to long and life is to short.
October 28, 2009 at 7:52 AM #475135AnonymousGuest[quote=Russell]The title is unnecessarily vulgar for this forum.
True, but I would be a liar if I said it didn’t catch my attention.
On topic and in the spirit of this forum: I prefer renting over buying when it comes to marriage. People live to long and life is to short.
October 28, 2009 at 7:52 AM #475211AnonymousGuest[quote=Russell]The title is unnecessarily vulgar for this forum.
True, but I would be a liar if I said it didn’t catch my attention.
On topic and in the spirit of this forum: I prefer renting over buying when it comes to marriage. People live to long and life is to short.
October 28, 2009 at 7:52 AM #475437AnonymousGuest[quote=Russell]The title is unnecessarily vulgar for this forum.
True, but I would be a liar if I said it didn’t catch my attention.
On topic and in the spirit of this forum: I prefer renting over buying when it comes to marriage. People live to long and life is to short.
October 28, 2009 at 8:04 AM #474614scaredyclassicParticipantit’s a national issue clearly in the national consciousness. The prior poster who says they don’t really see this much? I call BS. my proof. Jon and Kate. have you noticed people from all walks of life can discuss their issues for a long, long time.
October 28, 2009 at 8:04 AM #474791scaredyclassicParticipantit’s a national issue clearly in the national consciousness. The prior poster who says they don’t really see this much? I call BS. my proof. Jon and Kate. have you noticed people from all walks of life can discuss their issues for a long, long time.
October 28, 2009 at 8:04 AM #475155scaredyclassicParticipantit’s a national issue clearly in the national consciousness. The prior poster who says they don’t really see this much? I call BS. my proof. Jon and Kate. have you noticed people from all walks of life can discuss their issues for a long, long time.
October 28, 2009 at 8:04 AM #475231scaredyclassicParticipantit’s a national issue clearly in the national consciousness. The prior poster who says they don’t really see this much? I call BS. my proof. Jon and Kate. have you noticed people from all walks of life can discuss their issues for a long, long time.
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