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JustLurking
ParticipantCA Renter –
I have two children – a biological child and an adopted child. I can say unequivocally that there is NO difference in my feelings for my children. To say that women have a special bond with children BECAUSE they gave birth is incredibly insulting to women who adopt children. The maternal feelings are identical.
I find many of your posts on this topic to be extremely judgemental. Anyone who has chosen a different life path than you is wrong, or at least less right than you are. As a working mother, I find flip remarks like “stay home to raise your own children” offensive. I do raise my own children. And I work. Despite what you say, the two things are NOT mutually exclusive. Perhaps for you they are, but do not assume that everyone is like you. I do not judge you for your choices. Do not judge me.
JustLurking
ParticipantCA Renter –
I have two children – a biological child and an adopted child. I can say unequivocally that there is NO difference in my feelings for my children. To say that women have a special bond with children BECAUSE they gave birth is incredibly insulting to women who adopt children. The maternal feelings are identical.
I find many of your posts on this topic to be extremely judgemental. Anyone who has chosen a different life path than you is wrong, or at least less right than you are. As a working mother, I find flip remarks like “stay home to raise your own children” offensive. I do raise my own children. And I work. Despite what you say, the two things are NOT mutually exclusive. Perhaps for you they are, but do not assume that everyone is like you. I do not judge you for your choices. Do not judge me.
JustLurking
ParticipantCA Renter –
I have two children – a biological child and an adopted child. I can say unequivocally that there is NO difference in my feelings for my children. To say that women have a special bond with children BECAUSE they gave birth is incredibly insulting to women who adopt children. The maternal feelings are identical.
I find many of your posts on this topic to be extremely judgemental. Anyone who has chosen a different life path than you is wrong, or at least less right than you are. As a working mother, I find flip remarks like “stay home to raise your own children” offensive. I do raise my own children. And I work. Despite what you say, the two things are NOT mutually exclusive. Perhaps for you they are, but do not assume that everyone is like you. I do not judge you for your choices. Do not judge me.
JustLurking
ParticipantCA Renter –
I have two children – a biological child and an adopted child. I can say unequivocally that there is NO difference in my feelings for my children. To say that women have a special bond with children BECAUSE they gave birth is incredibly insulting to women who adopt children. The maternal feelings are identical.
I find many of your posts on this topic to be extremely judgemental. Anyone who has chosen a different life path than you is wrong, or at least less right than you are. As a working mother, I find flip remarks like “stay home to raise your own children” offensive. I do raise my own children. And I work. Despite what you say, the two things are NOT mutually exclusive. Perhaps for you they are, but do not assume that everyone is like you. I do not judge you for your choices. Do not judge me.
JustLurking
ParticipantI have seen disrespect go both ways in marriage. People with low self esteem will put up with a lot of things. It is sad when any relationship turns into a power struggle.
I have to disagree with the comment that the divorce laws favor women. The laws favor the lower/non-earning spouse. I know more than one woman who has to pay alimony to her ex-husband.
In my household, I am the breadwinner. I also manage the finances. The idea that I would give my husband an allowance is a joke. How incredibly condescending would that be? I am his wife, not his mother. Any person, man or woman, who allows themselves to be financially controlled by their partner is being treated like a child.
JustLurking
ParticipantI have seen disrespect go both ways in marriage. People with low self esteem will put up with a lot of things. It is sad when any relationship turns into a power struggle.
I have to disagree with the comment that the divorce laws favor women. The laws favor the lower/non-earning spouse. I know more than one woman who has to pay alimony to her ex-husband.
In my household, I am the breadwinner. I also manage the finances. The idea that I would give my husband an allowance is a joke. How incredibly condescending would that be? I am his wife, not his mother. Any person, man or woman, who allows themselves to be financially controlled by their partner is being treated like a child.
JustLurking
ParticipantI have seen disrespect go both ways in marriage. People with low self esteem will put up with a lot of things. It is sad when any relationship turns into a power struggle.
I have to disagree with the comment that the divorce laws favor women. The laws favor the lower/non-earning spouse. I know more than one woman who has to pay alimony to her ex-husband.
In my household, I am the breadwinner. I also manage the finances. The idea that I would give my husband an allowance is a joke. How incredibly condescending would that be? I am his wife, not his mother. Any person, man or woman, who allows themselves to be financially controlled by their partner is being treated like a child.
JustLurking
ParticipantI have seen disrespect go both ways in marriage. People with low self esteem will put up with a lot of things. It is sad when any relationship turns into a power struggle.
I have to disagree with the comment that the divorce laws favor women. The laws favor the lower/non-earning spouse. I know more than one woman who has to pay alimony to her ex-husband.
In my household, I am the breadwinner. I also manage the finances. The idea that I would give my husband an allowance is a joke. How incredibly condescending would that be? I am his wife, not his mother. Any person, man or woman, who allows themselves to be financially controlled by their partner is being treated like a child.
JustLurking
ParticipantI have seen disrespect go both ways in marriage. People with low self esteem will put up with a lot of things. It is sad when any relationship turns into a power struggle.
I have to disagree with the comment that the divorce laws favor women. The laws favor the lower/non-earning spouse. I know more than one woman who has to pay alimony to her ex-husband.
In my household, I am the breadwinner. I also manage the finances. The idea that I would give my husband an allowance is a joke. How incredibly condescending would that be? I am his wife, not his mother. Any person, man or woman, who allows themselves to be financially controlled by their partner is being treated like a child.
JustLurking
ParticipantYou can do a search on the Recon Trust website for the TS#. If it shows your address along with a date and time for the courthouse sale…
I agree that a scammer would not spend the money to send a certified letter. What would they have to gain?
JustLurking
ParticipantYou can do a search on the Recon Trust website for the TS#. If it shows your address along with a date and time for the courthouse sale…
I agree that a scammer would not spend the money to send a certified letter. What would they have to gain?
JustLurking
ParticipantYou can do a search on the Recon Trust website for the TS#. If it shows your address along with a date and time for the courthouse sale…
I agree that a scammer would not spend the money to send a certified letter. What would they have to gain?
JustLurking
ParticipantYou can do a search on the Recon Trust website for the TS#. If it shows your address along with a date and time for the courthouse sale…
I agree that a scammer would not spend the money to send a certified letter. What would they have to gain?
JustLurking
ParticipantYou can do a search on the Recon Trust website for the TS#. If it shows your address along with a date and time for the courthouse sale…
I agree that a scammer would not spend the money to send a certified letter. What would they have to gain?
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