Wife is turning on me.

[mydogsarelazy]

Hi Desmond,

Seriously, she said she wants a divorce?

You need to speak to attorney immediately and find out how divorce would affect your assets including the money you took from the sale of your home.

Four years ago, when I was in the middle of chemotherapy for cancer my wife filed for divorce and I was stunned and unprepared to say the least. When a woman says to you that she wants a divorce don’t ignore her. Maybe you want one too given how she feels about you.

Can I also mention that I am now very happily re-married, and I met my new wife on Yahoo! so she doesn’t think the internet is evil at all. To top it off, my new wife is very clever with money and real estate and together we have made up for my financial setbacks during divorce many times over.

Sorry for your trouble, but get some legal counsel TODAY.

JS

[BikeRider]

Desmond, I’ve been married 22+ years. The first year of marriage the only fights we had were over money. Then we worked it out. Three checking accounts….a joint account for bills, and our own accounts. We both work, so we have a percentage automatically deposited to the joint account from our checks, the remainder of our checks goes into our own accounts. We’re DINKS, double income, no kids. Any large purchase we talk about. It works fine. We both have our own money and the bills (food, utilities, etc) get paid from the joint account. Our house is paid for, so the bills don’t amount to much anymore, which is nice and another factor that tends to cut down on fights. We live a rather simple life, but are happy. We have money allotted for an emergency fund in a money market account that we don’t touch (so far no big emergency). Currently we each have 15% of our before tax pay taken out for 401K and are doing some other investing. A marriage is a partnership and you share everything. You talk about everything and you should be friends and lovers. If you don’t have that kind of relationship and you don’t think it will ever be that way, end it. Life is too short. I’d give it a good shot at trying to make it work first and if it didn’t work, I’d divide everything up fairly and move on. But that’s just me.

[Anonymous]

Man. I’m glad I’m gay.

Seek help, my friend – marriage counseling or something. That’s no way to live.

[kewp]

Sell your current wife and rent a new one.

Why is everyone looking at me like that?

[VCJIM]

Kewp, that’s exactly what I was thinking!

[PerryChase]

I wonder if gays have less marital problem than straights. How do gays work out their housing/real estate and financial situation?

My brother is getting a divorce from his wife. He was nice and gave her the house even though it tripled in value. But she’s still not happy. She’s pissed because brother is perfectly happy getting her out of his hair (even though he’s poorer). She’s miserable so she wants him to be sad too. I admire my brother because he was generous and he’s moving on with his life trying to make himself happy. He said that, money wise, he can make it again.

I hate to say it but I think that women tend to be insecure and constantly need re-assurance. They constantly try to find little ways to control their husbands. I don’t think it’s cute and I don’t understand how people can deal with all this drama.

I have a feeling that gays have a better quality of life (aside the the descrimination).

[desmond]

Thanks for all the help, I called a Therapist and made an appoinment, enough about me.

[VCJIM]

I have been around many homosexuals; IMHO they have roughly the same amount of relationship problems as heterosexuals. It comes down to commitment, love, responsibility, etc…not orientation. IMHO.

[novice1027]

Perry, Perry, Perry,

After all the uproar of generalizations, and you had to go down that road. Geeez, I would of figured you would have been smart enough to stay away from that topic!!

And for the record, let’s just say that men aren’t always a picnic to live with either!

[waiting hawk]

lol sell the wife and rent a new one.. I can’t wait to tell my wife that one when she gets home!

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[CardiffBaseball]

I don’t know how real the pics are on Yahoo, but there are some incredible free women from 28-45 range. Upgrades across the board.

I’d be more scared that such a great looking gal was free because she had these insecurity issues and some guy couldn’t take it anymore.

[VCJIM]

As long as the rental rate = wife purchase price / 8 (or less), how can you go wrong?

[(former)FormerSanDiegan]

wife ratio …

I would hold off until the wife purchase-to-rental reaches 16. That’s a 50% drop compared to the peak (1962, when Father Knows Best went off the air). But don’t forget to account for the hidden costs(expensive dinners, flowers, jewelry, etc).

[VCJIM]

And perhaps find a newer model, with more user conveniences while at the same time occupying less real estate.

[waiting hawk]

“But don’t forget to account for the hidden costs(expensive dinners, flowers, jewelry, etc).”

Crap I forgtot about that. Maybe you can pay less in a cheaper area? location location location. Hemet chicks cost less than one from Del Mar!

Edit: Except for the montly meth payment

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