OT/ ” I Have The Pu–y, I Make The Rules”

[NotCranky]

[quote=briansd1][quote=scaredycat]forget “salesmanship”. women want ALPHAS. regardless of what they say, acing like the dominant male — messing with her, acting like you don’t care whether you get her, being interested but aloof — ALWAYS gets the girl.[/quote]

That is correct.[/quote]

So which is it?
A. most men today are sissies being whipped by women .
B. men that are arrogant, self centered and rude have the upper hand in pairing up?

Guys these generalizations just don’t work. Certainly it can’t be both at the same time. It makes it sound like you guys just feel left out or got on the wrong boat and don’t take responsibility for it. In other words, sour grapes.

[briansd1]

[quote=Casca]I never thought that I’d feel bad for Brian, but… the foreign bride route is for those who can’t compete, or don’t want to, in their own culture. On the other hand, I spent three years with a Russian gal, who I found here[/quote]

No need to feel bad for me.

Look at the successful Americans who married foreign brides.

Jeb Bush
Donald Trump
John Kerry
Joseph Albright
Averell Harriman, etc…

Mark Sanford fell in love with an Argentine. But the American puritans won’t let him be happy.

[briansd1]

[quote=Casca]I never thought that I’d feel bad for Brian, but… the foreign bride route is for those who can’t compete, or don’t want to, in their own culture. On the other hand, I spent three years with a Russian gal, who I found here[/quote]

No need to feel bad for me.

Look at the successful Americans who married foreign brides.

Jeb Bush
Donald Trump
John Kerry
Joseph Albright
Averell Harriman, etc…

Mark Sanford fell in love with an Argentine. But the American puritans won’t let him be happy.

[briansd1]

[quote=Casca]I never thought that I’d feel bad for Brian, but… the foreign bride route is for those who can’t compete, or don’t want to, in their own culture. On the other hand, I spent three years with a Russian gal, who I found here[/quote]

No need to feel bad for me.

Look at the successful Americans who married foreign brides.

Jeb Bush
Donald Trump
John Kerry
Joseph Albright
Averell Harriman, etc…

Mark Sanford fell in love with an Argentine. But the American puritans won’t let him be happy.

[briansd1]

[quote=Casca]I never thought that I’d feel bad for Brian, but… the foreign bride route is for those who can’t compete, or don’t want to, in their own culture. On the other hand, I spent three years with a Russian gal, who I found here[/quote]

No need to feel bad for me.

Look at the successful Americans who married foreign brides.

Jeb Bush
Donald Trump
John Kerry
Joseph Albright
Averell Harriman, etc…

Mark Sanford fell in love with an Argentine. But the American puritans won’t let him be happy.

[briansd1]

[quote=Casca]I never thought that I’d feel bad for Brian, but… the foreign bride route is for those who can’t compete, or don’t want to, in their own culture. On the other hand, I spent three years with a Russian gal, who I found here[/quote]

No need to feel bad for me.

Look at the successful Americans who married foreign brides.

Jeb Bush
Donald Trump
John Kerry
Joseph Albright
Averell Harriman, etc…

Mark Sanford fell in love with an Argentine. But the American puritans won’t let him be happy.

[Anonymous]

I was married for 22 years….My wife filed for divorce…It was awful having my life being controlled by my ex-wife, her lawyer, and the courts…I really don’t see any reason to go through that again….Post divorce: My life has never been better….I now have plenty of money even after paying child support and alimony….It is a lot cheaper than being married to her….I come and go as I want, I don’t have to ask permission for anything, and I don’t have to worry about her threatening to divorce me if I don’t buy her a bigger home, new car, etc. I got so tired of her threatening to take my business, my child and my home …..Well she got the home, the child and a lump sum of money for her 1/2 share of my business…..I’m divorced now and I don’t have to listen to that “f”ing “b”-tch…By the way I know a woman who is forty three, owns her own home, is thin and attractive, drives a Lexus SUV and is looking for an understanding man to marry….Any takers?

[Anonymous]

I was married for 22 years….My wife filed for divorce…It was awful having my life being controlled by my ex-wife, her lawyer, and the courts…I really don’t see any reason to go through that again….Post divorce: My life has never been better….I now have plenty of money even after paying child support and alimony….It is a lot cheaper than being married to her….I come and go as I want, I don’t have to ask permission for anything, and I don’t have to worry about her threatening to divorce me if I don’t buy her a bigger home, new car, etc. I got so tired of her threatening to take my business, my child and my home …..Well she got the home, the child and a lump sum of money for her 1/2 share of my business…..I’m divorced now and I don’t have to listen to that “f”ing “b”-tch…By the way I know a woman who is forty three, owns her own home, is thin and attractive, drives a Lexus SUV and is looking for an understanding man to marry….Any takers?

[Anonymous]

I was married for 22 years….My wife filed for divorce…It was awful having my life being controlled by my ex-wife, her lawyer, and the courts…I really don’t see any reason to go through that again….Post divorce: My life has never been better….I now have plenty of money even after paying child support and alimony….It is a lot cheaper than being married to her….I come and go as I want, I don’t have to ask permission for anything, and I don’t have to worry about her threatening to divorce me if I don’t buy her a bigger home, new car, etc. I got so tired of her threatening to take my business, my child and my home …..Well she got the home, the child and a lump sum of money for her 1/2 share of my business…..I’m divorced now and I don’t have to listen to that “f”ing “b”-tch…By the way I know a woman who is forty three, owns her own home, is thin and attractive, drives a Lexus SUV and is looking for an understanding man to marry….Any takers?

[Anonymous]

I was married for 22 years….My wife filed for divorce…It was awful having my life being controlled by my ex-wife, her lawyer, and the courts…I really don’t see any reason to go through that again….Post divorce: My life has never been better….I now have plenty of money even after paying child support and alimony….It is a lot cheaper than being married to her….I come and go as I want, I don’t have to ask permission for anything, and I don’t have to worry about her threatening to divorce me if I don’t buy her a bigger home, new car, etc. I got so tired of her threatening to take my business, my child and my home …..Well she got the home, the child and a lump sum of money for her 1/2 share of my business…..I’m divorced now and I don’t have to listen to that “f”ing “b”-tch…By the way I know a woman who is forty three, owns her own home, is thin and attractive, drives a Lexus SUV and is looking for an understanding man to marry….Any takers?

[Anonymous]

I was married for 22 years….My wife filed for divorce…It was awful having my life being controlled by my ex-wife, her lawyer, and the courts…I really don’t see any reason to go through that again….Post divorce: My life has never been better….I now have plenty of money even after paying child support and alimony….It is a lot cheaper than being married to her….I come and go as I want, I don’t have to ask permission for anything, and I don’t have to worry about her threatening to divorce me if I don’t buy her a bigger home, new car, etc. I got so tired of her threatening to take my business, my child and my home …..Well she got the home, the child and a lump sum of money for her 1/2 share of my business…..I’m divorced now and I don’t have to listen to that “f”ing “b”-tch…By the way I know a woman who is forty three, owns her own home, is thin and attractive, drives a Lexus SUV and is looking for an understanding man to marry….Any takers?

[CardiffBaseball]

Sam Kinison was the one who said “I don’t condone wife beating… BUT I UNDERSTAND IT…I HATE TO BE THE DECIDING MEMBER ON A JURY!!

Sounds like Chris Rock did some joke piking with OJ?

I don’t get all these whining from men saying we must hate women. I guarantee you my wife dislikes women more than I ever could. I honestly don’t understand why but it’s ruined any chance of ever having a meaningful MFF. grin

Now, apparently some of us guys have to be little pu$%ies like the guy in Minnesota or whatever.. I guess I can thank my wife for not being that way, because since I am not that guy and never could be that guy, it would lead to bad things. (Divorce, fighting, drinking who knows).

I have made a concerted effort to control my spouses domineering tendencies and it seems to be working. I had to be because in my mind it was fvcking up my boys. I am old enough to understand the lack of consistency, and illogical ranting, but they were not, so I put down my foot and said it stops right now. Doesn’t make me a badass it makes me a good father and by creating some peace, a possible lasting marriage (18 years and counting). It took her fighting her primal urge, and getting her to admit it was a slow painful process. And it had ZERO to do with me or my “misogynistic” ways.

And whoever made the comment about settling for foreign women being an admission of losing or not competing for Americans, I am not so sure I disagree with you. If that is, you are talking about the mail-order bride stuff. Now my favorite thai girl cuts my hair, works very hard on building a business, and has been here probably 15 years or so. She is very pampering at least to me, and I assume to most of the guys, and who doesn’t like that once in a while. I would totally recommend her to a non-asshole male friend, but I don’t think she would classify as putting a guy into loserville. So when I said Thai, I was probably getting a little Freudian there I didn’t mean going over and dragging one back, subconsciously I was thinking of the one in front of me.

[CardiffBaseball]

Sam Kinison was the one who said “I don’t condone wife beating… BUT I UNDERSTAND IT…I HATE TO BE THE DECIDING MEMBER ON A JURY!!

Sounds like Chris Rock did some joke piking with OJ?

I don’t get all these whining from men saying we must hate women. I guarantee you my wife dislikes women more than I ever could. I honestly don’t understand why but it’s ruined any chance of ever having a meaningful MFF. grin

Now, apparently some of us guys have to be little pu$%ies like the guy in Minnesota or whatever.. I guess I can thank my wife for not being that way, because since I am not that guy and never could be that guy, it would lead to bad things. (Divorce, fighting, drinking who knows).

I have made a concerted effort to control my spouses domineering tendencies and it seems to be working. I had to be because in my mind it was fvcking up my boys. I am old enough to understand the lack of consistency, and illogical ranting, but they were not, so I put down my foot and said it stops right now. Doesn’t make me a badass it makes me a good father and by creating some peace, a possible lasting marriage (18 years and counting). It took her fighting her primal urge, and getting her to admit it was a slow painful process. And it had ZERO to do with me or my “misogynistic” ways.

And whoever made the comment about settling for foreign women being an admission of losing or not competing for Americans, I am not so sure I disagree with you. If that is, you are talking about the mail-order bride stuff. Now my favorite thai girl cuts my hair, works very hard on building a business, and has been here probably 15 years or so. She is very pampering at least to me, and I assume to most of the guys, and who doesn’t like that once in a while. I would totally recommend her to a non-asshole male friend, but I don’t think she would classify as putting a guy into loserville. So when I said Thai, I was probably getting a little Freudian there I didn’t mean going over and dragging one back, subconsciously I was thinking of the one in front of me.

[CardiffBaseball]

Sam Kinison was the one who said “I don’t condone wife beating… BUT I UNDERSTAND IT…I HATE TO BE THE DECIDING MEMBER ON A JURY!!

Sounds like Chris Rock did some joke piking with OJ?

I don’t get all these whining from men saying we must hate women. I guarantee you my wife dislikes women more than I ever could. I honestly don’t understand why but it’s ruined any chance of ever having a meaningful MFF. grin

Now, apparently some of us guys have to be little pu$%ies like the guy in Minnesota or whatever.. I guess I can thank my wife for not being that way, because since I am not that guy and never could be that guy, it would lead to bad things. (Divorce, fighting, drinking who knows).

I have made a concerted effort to control my spouses domineering tendencies and it seems to be working. I had to be because in my mind it was fvcking up my boys. I am old enough to understand the lack of consistency, and illogical ranting, but they were not, so I put down my foot and said it stops right now. Doesn’t make me a badass it makes me a good father and by creating some peace, a possible lasting marriage (18 years and counting). It took her fighting her primal urge, and getting her to admit it was a slow painful process. And it had ZERO to do with me or my “misogynistic” ways.

And whoever made the comment about settling for foreign women being an admission of losing or not competing for Americans, I am not so sure I disagree with you. If that is, you are talking about the mail-order bride stuff. Now my favorite thai girl cuts my hair, works very hard on building a business, and has been here probably 15 years or so. She is very pampering at least to me, and I assume to most of the guys, and who doesn’t like that once in a while. I would totally recommend her to a non-asshole male friend, but I don’t think she would classify as putting a guy into loserville. So when I said Thai, I was probably getting a little Freudian there I didn’t mean going over and dragging one back, subconsciously I was thinking of the one in front of me.

[CardiffBaseball]

Sam Kinison was the one who said “I don’t condone wife beating… BUT I UNDERSTAND IT…I HATE TO BE THE DECIDING MEMBER ON A JURY!!

Sounds like Chris Rock did some joke piking with OJ?

I don’t get all these whining from men saying we must hate women. I guarantee you my wife dislikes women more than I ever could. I honestly don’t understand why but it’s ruined any chance of ever having a meaningful MFF. grin

Now, apparently some of us guys have to be little pu$%ies like the guy in Minnesota or whatever.. I guess I can thank my wife for not being that way, because since I am not that guy and never could be that guy, it would lead to bad things. (Divorce, fighting, drinking who knows).

I have made a concerted effort to control my spouses domineering tendencies and it seems to be working. I had to be because in my mind it was fvcking up my boys. I am old enough to understand the lack of consistency, and illogical ranting, but they were not, so I put down my foot and said it stops right now. Doesn’t make me a badass it makes me a good father and by creating some peace, a possible lasting marriage (18 years and counting). It took her fighting her primal urge, and getting her to admit it was a slow painful process. And it had ZERO to do with me or my “misogynistic” ways.

And whoever made the comment about settling for foreign women being an admission of losing or not competing for Americans, I am not so sure I disagree with you. If that is, you are talking about the mail-order bride stuff. Now my favorite thai girl cuts my hair, works very hard on building a business, and has been here probably 15 years or so. She is very pampering at least to me, and I assume to most of the guys, and who doesn’t like that once in a while. I would totally recommend her to a non-asshole male friend, but I don’t think she would classify as putting a guy into loserville. So when I said Thai, I was probably getting a little Freudian there I didn’t mean going over and dragging one back, subconsciously I was thinking of the one in front of me.

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