Affairs of the heart…

[Anonymous]

meadandale: “Any woman that tells me that I have to spend money on her to show her that I care is being shown the door. How about I bring you breakfast in bed? Hide silly greeting cards in your purse to surprise you? Care for you when you are sick? Seems that those types of behaviors are more of a display of love and romance than buying you an expensive dinner.”

Ok, I really don’t see why I was thrown in the lion’s den. Yes, mead, you can bring me breakfast in bed…then take me out to a nice restaurant. 🙂

Seriously guys, I did state I wanted a nice date from this guy up front (near the beginning). I also believe I stated that when I’m dating someone, I don’t expect the man to pay all the time. Our expenses on eating out and vacations should and will be shared.

Maybe I had a tone of “entitlement” maybe that pissed some of you off. In any event, I do expect the guy to take me out somewhere nice when we start dating and that’s the way I am. I can be both old-fashioned and self-reliant. Some of you won’t agree, but it doesn’t mean I’m a gold-digger.

Nostr, more to you later on the Japanese dishes.

edited to add: nice doesn’t equate to expensive. Reasonably priced is fine with me, I said that too. And by upfront, I mean not the first date, but after we see each other a couple of times and decide we like each other enough to continue dating. He won’t pay all the time, I won’t pay all the time. We share costs. That’s what I meant.

[VoZangre]

Maid marion….

s’more musings ( be they bemusing or otherwise)

chivalry…?

She has always and will always have me open the car door for her, she receives flowers, both hand picked and bought, regularly. no, it’d not dead… and by your vague descriptions of what entails a nice date… my bride to be
had at least several while we got to know each other (ante-sex) and sorted out whether we were compatible as for lifestyle and our vision of what constitutes a healthy partnership. My deal about that is that i like to have a nice time w/o watching my wallet all the time. ( I spend too easily.) So when i am “dating” I spend my money and dont look back. Now that we are gonna be hitched, she will become privvy to the outlay involved in living the lifestyle she herself cannot afford. I like to cook, and to be a homebody at LEAST half the time. I think it’ll work out alright. She hasnt been short-shrifted and I dont feel taken advantage of.

I don’t hide my wallet or anything else for that matter. (She’s a PI and would find out whatever she wanted about me if she cared to look… its usually easier to just ask since my book is readily opened)

Someone earlier mentioned we are not really terribly evolved, and I agree ( I dont grunt like Tim the tool man and have agreed to let her shave my back… )

ciao for now…

Voz

ps- ” letting the days go by..”

[VoZangre]

Maid marion….

s’more musings ( be they bemusing or otherwise)

chivalry…?

She has always and will always have me open the car door for her, she receives flowers, both hand picked and bought, regularly. no, it’d not dead… and by your vague descriptions of what entails a nice date… my bride to be
had at least several while we got to know each other (ante-sex) and sorted out whether we were compatible as for lifestyle and our vision of what constitutes a healthy partnership. My deal about that is that i like to have a nice time w/o watching my wallet all the time. ( I spend too easily.) So when i am “dating” I spend my money and dont look back. Now that we are gonna be hitched, she will become privvy to the outlay involved in living the lifestyle she herself cannot afford. I like to cook, and to be a homebody at LEAST half the time. I think it’ll work out alright. She hasnt been short-shrifted and I dont feel taken advantage of.

I don’t hide my wallet or anything else for that matter. (She’s a PI and would find out whatever she wanted about me if she cared to look… its usually easier to just ask since my book is readily opened)

Someone earlier mentioned we are not really terribly evolved, and I agree ( I dont grunt like Tim the tool man and have agreed to let her shave my back… )

ciao for now…

Voz

ps- ” letting the days go by..”

[VoZangre]

Maid marion….

s’more musings ( be they bemusing or otherwise)

chivalry…?

She has always and will always have me open the car door for her, she receives flowers, both hand picked and bought, regularly. no, it’d not dead… and by your vague descriptions of what entails a nice date… my bride to be
had at least several while we got to know each other (ante-sex) and sorted out whether we were compatible as for lifestyle and our vision of what constitutes a healthy partnership. My deal about that is that i like to have a nice time w/o watching my wallet all the time. ( I spend too easily.) So when i am “dating” I spend my money and dont look back. Now that we are gonna be hitched, she will become privvy to the outlay involved in living the lifestyle she herself cannot afford. I like to cook, and to be a homebody at LEAST half the time. I think it’ll work out alright. She hasnt been short-shrifted and I dont feel taken advantage of.

I don’t hide my wallet or anything else for that matter. (She’s a PI and would find out whatever she wanted about me if she cared to look… its usually easier to just ask since my book is readily opened)

Someone earlier mentioned we are not really terribly evolved, and I agree ( I dont grunt like Tim the tool man and have agreed to let her shave my back… )

ciao for now…

Voz

ps- ” letting the days go by..”

[VoZangre]

Maid marion….

s’more musings ( be they bemusing or otherwise)

chivalry…?

She has always and will always have me open the car door for her, she receives flowers, both hand picked and bought, regularly. no, it’d not dead… and by your vague descriptions of what entails a nice date… my bride to be
had at least several while we got to know each other (ante-sex) and sorted out whether we were compatible as for lifestyle and our vision of what constitutes a healthy partnership. My deal about that is that i like to have a nice time w/o watching my wallet all the time. ( I spend too easily.) So when i am “dating” I spend my money and dont look back. Now that we are gonna be hitched, she will become privvy to the outlay involved in living the lifestyle she herself cannot afford. I like to cook, and to be a homebody at LEAST half the time. I think it’ll work out alright. She hasnt been short-shrifted and I dont feel taken advantage of.

I don’t hide my wallet or anything else for that matter. (She’s a PI and would find out whatever she wanted about me if she cared to look… its usually easier to just ask since my book is readily opened)

Someone earlier mentioned we are not really terribly evolved, and I agree ( I dont grunt like Tim the tool man and have agreed to let her shave my back… )

ciao for now…

Voz

ps- ” letting the days go by..”

[VoZangre]

Maid marion….

s’more musings ( be they bemusing or otherwise)

chivalry…?

She has always and will always have me open the car door for her, she receives flowers, both hand picked and bought, regularly. no, it’d not dead… and by your vague descriptions of what entails a nice date… my bride to be
had at least several while we got to know each other (ante-sex) and sorted out whether we were compatible as for lifestyle and our vision of what constitutes a healthy partnership. My deal about that is that i like to have a nice time w/o watching my wallet all the time. ( I spend too easily.) So when i am “dating” I spend my money and dont look back. Now that we are gonna be hitched, she will become privvy to the outlay involved in living the lifestyle she herself cannot afford. I like to cook, and to be a homebody at LEAST half the time. I think it’ll work out alright. She hasnt been short-shrifted and I dont feel taken advantage of.

I don’t hide my wallet or anything else for that matter. (She’s a PI and would find out whatever she wanted about me if she cared to look… its usually easier to just ask since my book is readily opened)

Someone earlier mentioned we are not really terribly evolved, and I agree ( I dont grunt like Tim the tool man and have agreed to let her shave my back… )

ciao for now…

Voz

ps- ” letting the days go by..”

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[recordsclerk]

Thank god I was poor when I use to date. The only thing that my date ever found in my pants was love. Never had to worry about gold digging. Seriously love is found in the heart, try going there sometime, it’s a wonderful place. You don’t need reservations, or even your wallet, or social security number, or complications, or how to land a man book, or pre-nub, or pre-qual letter, or pre-nothing, just bring a smile and don’t forget to drag your heart along. If love is an eternal flame, all you need to one spark to start a fire.

[recordsclerk]

Thank god I was poor when I use to date. The only thing that my date ever found in my pants was love. Never had to worry about gold digging. Seriously love is found in the heart, try going there sometime, it’s a wonderful place. You don’t need reservations, or even your wallet, or social security number, or complications, or how to land a man book, or pre-nub, or pre-qual letter, or pre-nothing, just bring a smile and don’t forget to drag your heart along. If love is an eternal flame, all you need to one spark to start a fire.

[recordsclerk]

Thank god I was poor when I use to date. The only thing that my date ever found in my pants was love. Never had to worry about gold digging. Seriously love is found in the heart, try going there sometime, it’s a wonderful place. You don’t need reservations, or even your wallet, or social security number, or complications, or how to land a man book, or pre-nub, or pre-qual letter, or pre-nothing, just bring a smile and don’t forget to drag your heart along. If love is an eternal flame, all you need to one spark to start a fire.

[recordsclerk]

Thank god I was poor when I use to date. The only thing that my date ever found in my pants was love. Never had to worry about gold digging. Seriously love is found in the heart, try going there sometime, it’s a wonderful place. You don’t need reservations, or even your wallet, or social security number, or complications, or how to land a man book, or pre-nub, or pre-qual letter, or pre-nothing, just bring a smile and don’t forget to drag your heart along. If love is an eternal flame, all you need to one spark to start a fire.

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