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temeculaguy
Participant[quote=CA renter]Then there’s TG’s favorite…porn! ;)[/quote]
Billion dollar industy, I hardly think it’s just me, I’m just the only one that admits it. It’s not a hobby unless you want to classify brushing your teeth as a hobby. I will wager that average man spends more time looking at naked ladies than he does brusing his teeth. Just accept us, were broken, we cant help it.
My actual hobbies are
1. NBA (of course next year is in jeapordy)
2. NFL (ditto)
3. Wine (drinking it and making it)
4. Home stuff, (I finished installing wood floors dwonstairs and it was fun, took months, I have some great tools now, it’s a hobby, I think a patio cover is next, once you get turned on my table saws and mitre saws, it’s a hobby)
5. GolfBut your friend won’t be cured by suggestions, more than likely something else is wrong. We all question our existence at one time or another and it’s rarely because we haven’t been exposed to enough activities. Try to find out what the real problem is, if he solves that one, then he will find what makes him happy.
temeculaguy
Participant[quote=CA renter]Then there’s TG’s favorite…porn! ;)[/quote]
Billion dollar industy, I hardly think it’s just me, I’m just the only one that admits it. It’s not a hobby unless you want to classify brushing your teeth as a hobby. I will wager that average man spends more time looking at naked ladies than he does brusing his teeth. Just accept us, were broken, we cant help it.
My actual hobbies are
1. NBA (of course next year is in jeapordy)
2. NFL (ditto)
3. Wine (drinking it and making it)
4. Home stuff, (I finished installing wood floors dwonstairs and it was fun, took months, I have some great tools now, it’s a hobby, I think a patio cover is next, once you get turned on my table saws and mitre saws, it’s a hobby)
5. GolfBut your friend won’t be cured by suggestions, more than likely something else is wrong. We all question our existence at one time or another and it’s rarely because we haven’t been exposed to enough activities. Try to find out what the real problem is, if he solves that one, then he will find what makes him happy.
temeculaguy
Participant[quote=CA renter]Then there’s TG’s favorite…porn! ;)[/quote]
Billion dollar industy, I hardly think it’s just me, I’m just the only one that admits it. It’s not a hobby unless you want to classify brushing your teeth as a hobby. I will wager that average man spends more time looking at naked ladies than he does brusing his teeth. Just accept us, were broken, we cant help it.
My actual hobbies are
1. NBA (of course next year is in jeapordy)
2. NFL (ditto)
3. Wine (drinking it and making it)
4. Home stuff, (I finished installing wood floors dwonstairs and it was fun, took months, I have some great tools now, it’s a hobby, I think a patio cover is next, once you get turned on my table saws and mitre saws, it’s a hobby)
5. GolfBut your friend won’t be cured by suggestions, more than likely something else is wrong. We all question our existence at one time or another and it’s rarely because we haven’t been exposed to enough activities. Try to find out what the real problem is, if he solves that one, then he will find what makes him happy.
May 19, 2011 at 8:38 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #697211temeculaguy
ParticipantI’m going to offer an entirely different perspective. Sell it,(short or whatever), throw away the mattress and the bed linens and rent for a bit. Get completely detached from the former in laws financially, hopefully they get all their money back, because you have a lot of holidays and events where you will have to deal with them, fighting them now will just screw up your karma and your christmas.
You mentined you had 35k, a stable income, and joint custody with your now ex-wife. Keeping that place sucks for a few reasons. The ex feels comfortable in it, which means she will feel at home visting and know where everything is and probably has a key or knows how to get in. She may have friends that are your neighbors, these are now to be considered spies. It’s better she feels like a stranger at your new place, knows nobody, doesn’t know where a guest’s car would be parked or which car is out of place. Because on nights she has your daughter, you might get lonely and find a fellow divorcee, she will not like it there. She will ask if that is the same bed and if your linens are not masculine, she’ll know another woman picked them. It sounds silly, but it will happen. Don’t find a replacement wife, you can do this by yourself a while, it’s better that way. Plus don’t you want to start fresh, do it yourself, decide yourself. It’s liberating, cleansing, and apartments wont kill you for a few years.
Your daughter will be fine, life is an adventure, and let her help pick the new place and eventually the one you buy, let her pick her room. Love the crap out of her, avoid getting babysitters for nights out, keep your social life and any future ladyfriends from her and your daughter will be just fine, no matter where she lives. Tension between her two sides of her famiily will worsen things.
No matter how it feels right now, there will come a day when this is all behind you and there might even come a day when you find a potential new Mrs. French, however my other piece of advice is make that day a long way off. And I can guarantee, she wont want to live in the pace you picked out with your ex. Women are usually the ones who try to keep the place and it makes them crazy and broke trying not to change their standard of living, but accept it, own it, it’s actually much more fun even if you have less. Everytime I mow my lawn I miss my condo.
You know what else is prevalent in rentals… newly divorced women!!!
Or take the money out of your 401k, but give those people back their money, you didnt spend all your money on their daughter, you spent it on your wife. Don’t take what isn’t yours, even if you can, even if it’s legal. Doing the right thing, getting neagative people out of your life or minimizing their impact, well, it’s priceless.
Having travleed the road you just set foot on, let me tell you, it gets better from here.
May 19, 2011 at 8:38 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #697300temeculaguy
ParticipantI’m going to offer an entirely different perspective. Sell it,(short or whatever), throw away the mattress and the bed linens and rent for a bit. Get completely detached from the former in laws financially, hopefully they get all their money back, because you have a lot of holidays and events where you will have to deal with them, fighting them now will just screw up your karma and your christmas.
You mentined you had 35k, a stable income, and joint custody with your now ex-wife. Keeping that place sucks for a few reasons. The ex feels comfortable in it, which means she will feel at home visting and know where everything is and probably has a key or knows how to get in. She may have friends that are your neighbors, these are now to be considered spies. It’s better she feels like a stranger at your new place, knows nobody, doesn’t know where a guest’s car would be parked or which car is out of place. Because on nights she has your daughter, you might get lonely and find a fellow divorcee, she will not like it there. She will ask if that is the same bed and if your linens are not masculine, she’ll know another woman picked them. It sounds silly, but it will happen. Don’t find a replacement wife, you can do this by yourself a while, it’s better that way. Plus don’t you want to start fresh, do it yourself, decide yourself. It’s liberating, cleansing, and apartments wont kill you for a few years.
Your daughter will be fine, life is an adventure, and let her help pick the new place and eventually the one you buy, let her pick her room. Love the crap out of her, avoid getting babysitters for nights out, keep your social life and any future ladyfriends from her and your daughter will be just fine, no matter where she lives. Tension between her two sides of her famiily will worsen things.
No matter how it feels right now, there will come a day when this is all behind you and there might even come a day when you find a potential new Mrs. French, however my other piece of advice is make that day a long way off. And I can guarantee, she wont want to live in the pace you picked out with your ex. Women are usually the ones who try to keep the place and it makes them crazy and broke trying not to change their standard of living, but accept it, own it, it’s actually much more fun even if you have less. Everytime I mow my lawn I miss my condo.
You know what else is prevalent in rentals… newly divorced women!!!
Or take the money out of your 401k, but give those people back their money, you didnt spend all your money on their daughter, you spent it on your wife. Don’t take what isn’t yours, even if you can, even if it’s legal. Doing the right thing, getting neagative people out of your life or minimizing their impact, well, it’s priceless.
Having travleed the road you just set foot on, let me tell you, it gets better from here.
May 19, 2011 at 8:38 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #697897temeculaguy
ParticipantI’m going to offer an entirely different perspective. Sell it,(short or whatever), throw away the mattress and the bed linens and rent for a bit. Get completely detached from the former in laws financially, hopefully they get all their money back, because you have a lot of holidays and events where you will have to deal with them, fighting them now will just screw up your karma and your christmas.
You mentined you had 35k, a stable income, and joint custody with your now ex-wife. Keeping that place sucks for a few reasons. The ex feels comfortable in it, which means she will feel at home visting and know where everything is and probably has a key or knows how to get in. She may have friends that are your neighbors, these are now to be considered spies. It’s better she feels like a stranger at your new place, knows nobody, doesn’t know where a guest’s car would be parked or which car is out of place. Because on nights she has your daughter, you might get lonely and find a fellow divorcee, she will not like it there. She will ask if that is the same bed and if your linens are not masculine, she’ll know another woman picked them. It sounds silly, but it will happen. Don’t find a replacement wife, you can do this by yourself a while, it’s better that way. Plus don’t you want to start fresh, do it yourself, decide yourself. It’s liberating, cleansing, and apartments wont kill you for a few years.
Your daughter will be fine, life is an adventure, and let her help pick the new place and eventually the one you buy, let her pick her room. Love the crap out of her, avoid getting babysitters for nights out, keep your social life and any future ladyfriends from her and your daughter will be just fine, no matter where she lives. Tension between her two sides of her famiily will worsen things.
No matter how it feels right now, there will come a day when this is all behind you and there might even come a day when you find a potential new Mrs. French, however my other piece of advice is make that day a long way off. And I can guarantee, she wont want to live in the pace you picked out with your ex. Women are usually the ones who try to keep the place and it makes them crazy and broke trying not to change their standard of living, but accept it, own it, it’s actually much more fun even if you have less. Everytime I mow my lawn I miss my condo.
You know what else is prevalent in rentals… newly divorced women!!!
Or take the money out of your 401k, but give those people back their money, you didnt spend all your money on their daughter, you spent it on your wife. Don’t take what isn’t yours, even if you can, even if it’s legal. Doing the right thing, getting neagative people out of your life or minimizing their impact, well, it’s priceless.
Having travleed the road you just set foot on, let me tell you, it gets better from here.
May 19, 2011 at 8:38 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #698043temeculaguy
ParticipantI’m going to offer an entirely different perspective. Sell it,(short or whatever), throw away the mattress and the bed linens and rent for a bit. Get completely detached from the former in laws financially, hopefully they get all their money back, because you have a lot of holidays and events where you will have to deal with them, fighting them now will just screw up your karma and your christmas.
You mentined you had 35k, a stable income, and joint custody with your now ex-wife. Keeping that place sucks for a few reasons. The ex feels comfortable in it, which means she will feel at home visting and know where everything is and probably has a key or knows how to get in. She may have friends that are your neighbors, these are now to be considered spies. It’s better she feels like a stranger at your new place, knows nobody, doesn’t know where a guest’s car would be parked or which car is out of place. Because on nights she has your daughter, you might get lonely and find a fellow divorcee, she will not like it there. She will ask if that is the same bed and if your linens are not masculine, she’ll know another woman picked them. It sounds silly, but it will happen. Don’t find a replacement wife, you can do this by yourself a while, it’s better that way. Plus don’t you want to start fresh, do it yourself, decide yourself. It’s liberating, cleansing, and apartments wont kill you for a few years.
Your daughter will be fine, life is an adventure, and let her help pick the new place and eventually the one you buy, let her pick her room. Love the crap out of her, avoid getting babysitters for nights out, keep your social life and any future ladyfriends from her and your daughter will be just fine, no matter where she lives. Tension between her two sides of her famiily will worsen things.
No matter how it feels right now, there will come a day when this is all behind you and there might even come a day when you find a potential new Mrs. French, however my other piece of advice is make that day a long way off. And I can guarantee, she wont want to live in the pace you picked out with your ex. Women are usually the ones who try to keep the place and it makes them crazy and broke trying not to change their standard of living, but accept it, own it, it’s actually much more fun even if you have less. Everytime I mow my lawn I miss my condo.
You know what else is prevalent in rentals… newly divorced women!!!
Or take the money out of your 401k, but give those people back their money, you didnt spend all your money on their daughter, you spent it on your wife. Don’t take what isn’t yours, even if you can, even if it’s legal. Doing the right thing, getting neagative people out of your life or minimizing their impact, well, it’s priceless.
Having travleed the road you just set foot on, let me tell you, it gets better from here.
May 19, 2011 at 8:38 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #698399temeculaguy
ParticipantI’m going to offer an entirely different perspective. Sell it,(short or whatever), throw away the mattress and the bed linens and rent for a bit. Get completely detached from the former in laws financially, hopefully they get all their money back, because you have a lot of holidays and events where you will have to deal with them, fighting them now will just screw up your karma and your christmas.
You mentined you had 35k, a stable income, and joint custody with your now ex-wife. Keeping that place sucks for a few reasons. The ex feels comfortable in it, which means she will feel at home visting and know where everything is and probably has a key or knows how to get in. She may have friends that are your neighbors, these are now to be considered spies. It’s better she feels like a stranger at your new place, knows nobody, doesn’t know where a guest’s car would be parked or which car is out of place. Because on nights she has your daughter, you might get lonely and find a fellow divorcee, she will not like it there. She will ask if that is the same bed and if your linens are not masculine, she’ll know another woman picked them. It sounds silly, but it will happen. Don’t find a replacement wife, you can do this by yourself a while, it’s better that way. Plus don’t you want to start fresh, do it yourself, decide yourself. It’s liberating, cleansing, and apartments wont kill you for a few years.
Your daughter will be fine, life is an adventure, and let her help pick the new place and eventually the one you buy, let her pick her room. Love the crap out of her, avoid getting babysitters for nights out, keep your social life and any future ladyfriends from her and your daughter will be just fine, no matter where she lives. Tension between her two sides of her famiily will worsen things.
No matter how it feels right now, there will come a day when this is all behind you and there might even come a day when you find a potential new Mrs. French, however my other piece of advice is make that day a long way off. And I can guarantee, she wont want to live in the pace you picked out with your ex. Women are usually the ones who try to keep the place and it makes them crazy and broke trying not to change their standard of living, but accept it, own it, it’s actually much more fun even if you have less. Everytime I mow my lawn I miss my condo.
You know what else is prevalent in rentals… newly divorced women!!!
Or take the money out of your 401k, but give those people back their money, you didnt spend all your money on their daughter, you spent it on your wife. Don’t take what isn’t yours, even if you can, even if it’s legal. Doing the right thing, getting neagative people out of your life or minimizing their impact, well, it’s priceless.
Having travleed the road you just set foot on, let me tell you, it gets better from here.
temeculaguy
ParticipantForgive my laziness at this late hour, I only read the first two pages before I felt I had enough.
Without getting into the political crap, how can you get weird about gays, or bisexuals or whatever.
Piggintonians are math folks and trend buckers, we are supposed to see through the crap.
And forget about worrying what your kids will learn, that history book is not where they learn about life. You can’t hide reality from people in this world any longer, if they can drive, they already know, even if you failed to talk to them.
So here’s the way I look at it. I encourage Gay men, I support their right to marry each other and be recognized in history books. The fact is, many gay men are better looking than me, dress better and have better manners. Some are not burdened with my need to watch sports or do guy stuff, so on a level playing field, I’d lose women to them every time if you make them all be straight. I need them out of the picture, in fact they take each other out of the equation. You see two people doing something you don’t approve of, I see a giant game of dodge ball and the two best players just took each other out.
And why is the word gay rights always about gay men, lest we not forget the women. What guy doesn’t think female homosexuality or bisexuality is completely weighted in his favor. Lesbian women, for the most part, are fun to hang out with it, some act like and think like men, they are no threat to you. Then there’s the bisexual ones. I don’t even need to mention the hypocrisy that female on female porn is probably 50% of the market for male viewers. You people are lucky I’m not in charge, otherwise that wouldn’t just be a paragraph in a history book, it would replace music or art as an elective. It might be compulsory, like registering for the draft. C’mon admit it, you know that one friend that has a bisexual girlfriend or wife, you envy the crap out of him, don’t you.
So calm down, let people live the way they want, especially of it helps your lot in life. If it were real estate, and nobody wanted a house so you were one of the few buyers, would you get mad about it. No you wouldn’t, you’d be happy to have less competition driving up the prices. It’s the same thing, free your mind, leave people alone that don’t hurt you alone. And Please, these impressionable children you are so worried about, give them a little more credit.
temeculaguy
ParticipantForgive my laziness at this late hour, I only read the first two pages before I felt I had enough.
Without getting into the political crap, how can you get weird about gays, or bisexuals or whatever.
Piggintonians are math folks and trend buckers, we are supposed to see through the crap.
And forget about worrying what your kids will learn, that history book is not where they learn about life. You can’t hide reality from people in this world any longer, if they can drive, they already know, even if you failed to talk to them.
So here’s the way I look at it. I encourage Gay men, I support their right to marry each other and be recognized in history books. The fact is, many gay men are better looking than me, dress better and have better manners. Some are not burdened with my need to watch sports or do guy stuff, so on a level playing field, I’d lose women to them every time if you make them all be straight. I need them out of the picture, in fact they take each other out of the equation. You see two people doing something you don’t approve of, I see a giant game of dodge ball and the two best players just took each other out.
And why is the word gay rights always about gay men, lest we not forget the women. What guy doesn’t think female homosexuality or bisexuality is completely weighted in his favor. Lesbian women, for the most part, are fun to hang out with it, some act like and think like men, they are no threat to you. Then there’s the bisexual ones. I don’t even need to mention the hypocrisy that female on female porn is probably 50% of the market for male viewers. You people are lucky I’m not in charge, otherwise that wouldn’t just be a paragraph in a history book, it would replace music or art as an elective. It might be compulsory, like registering for the draft. C’mon admit it, you know that one friend that has a bisexual girlfriend or wife, you envy the crap out of him, don’t you.
So calm down, let people live the way they want, especially of it helps your lot in life. If it were real estate, and nobody wanted a house so you were one of the few buyers, would you get mad about it. No you wouldn’t, you’d be happy to have less competition driving up the prices. It’s the same thing, free your mind, leave people alone that don’t hurt you alone. And Please, these impressionable children you are so worried about, give them a little more credit.
temeculaguy
ParticipantForgive my laziness at this late hour, I only read the first two pages before I felt I had enough.
Without getting into the political crap, how can you get weird about gays, or bisexuals or whatever.
Piggintonians are math folks and trend buckers, we are supposed to see through the crap.
And forget about worrying what your kids will learn, that history book is not where they learn about life. You can’t hide reality from people in this world any longer, if they can drive, they already know, even if you failed to talk to them.
So here’s the way I look at it. I encourage Gay men, I support their right to marry each other and be recognized in history books. The fact is, many gay men are better looking than me, dress better and have better manners. Some are not burdened with my need to watch sports or do guy stuff, so on a level playing field, I’d lose women to them every time if you make them all be straight. I need them out of the picture, in fact they take each other out of the equation. You see two people doing something you don’t approve of, I see a giant game of dodge ball and the two best players just took each other out.
And why is the word gay rights always about gay men, lest we not forget the women. What guy doesn’t think female homosexuality or bisexuality is completely weighted in his favor. Lesbian women, for the most part, are fun to hang out with it, some act like and think like men, they are no threat to you. Then there’s the bisexual ones. I don’t even need to mention the hypocrisy that female on female porn is probably 50% of the market for male viewers. You people are lucky I’m not in charge, otherwise that wouldn’t just be a paragraph in a history book, it would replace music or art as an elective. It might be compulsory, like registering for the draft. C’mon admit it, you know that one friend that has a bisexual girlfriend or wife, you envy the crap out of him, don’t you.
So calm down, let people live the way they want, especially of it helps your lot in life. If it were real estate, and nobody wanted a house so you were one of the few buyers, would you get mad about it. No you wouldn’t, you’d be happy to have less competition driving up the prices. It’s the same thing, free your mind, leave people alone that don’t hurt you alone. And Please, these impressionable children you are so worried about, give them a little more credit.
temeculaguy
ParticipantForgive my laziness at this late hour, I only read the first two pages before I felt I had enough.
Without getting into the political crap, how can you get weird about gays, or bisexuals or whatever.
Piggintonians are math folks and trend buckers, we are supposed to see through the crap.
And forget about worrying what your kids will learn, that history book is not where they learn about life. You can’t hide reality from people in this world any longer, if they can drive, they already know, even if you failed to talk to them.
So here’s the way I look at it. I encourage Gay men, I support their right to marry each other and be recognized in history books. The fact is, many gay men are better looking than me, dress better and have better manners. Some are not burdened with my need to watch sports or do guy stuff, so on a level playing field, I’d lose women to them every time if you make them all be straight. I need them out of the picture, in fact they take each other out of the equation. You see two people doing something you don’t approve of, I see a giant game of dodge ball and the two best players just took each other out.
And why is the word gay rights always about gay men, lest we not forget the women. What guy doesn’t think female homosexuality or bisexuality is completely weighted in his favor. Lesbian women, for the most part, are fun to hang out with it, some act like and think like men, they are no threat to you. Then there’s the bisexual ones. I don’t even need to mention the hypocrisy that female on female porn is probably 50% of the market for male viewers. You people are lucky I’m not in charge, otherwise that wouldn’t just be a paragraph in a history book, it would replace music or art as an elective. It might be compulsory, like registering for the draft. C’mon admit it, you know that one friend that has a bisexual girlfriend or wife, you envy the crap out of him, don’t you.
So calm down, let people live the way they want, especially of it helps your lot in life. If it were real estate, and nobody wanted a house so you were one of the few buyers, would you get mad about it. No you wouldn’t, you’d be happy to have less competition driving up the prices. It’s the same thing, free your mind, leave people alone that don’t hurt you alone. And Please, these impressionable children you are so worried about, give them a little more credit.
temeculaguy
ParticipantForgive my laziness at this late hour, I only read the first two pages before I felt I had enough.
Without getting into the political crap, how can you get weird about gays, or bisexuals or whatever.
Piggintonians are math folks and trend buckers, we are supposed to see through the crap.
And forget about worrying what your kids will learn, that history book is not where they learn about life. You can’t hide reality from people in this world any longer, if they can drive, they already know, even if you failed to talk to them.
So here’s the way I look at it. I encourage Gay men, I support their right to marry each other and be recognized in history books. The fact is, many gay men are better looking than me, dress better and have better manners. Some are not burdened with my need to watch sports or do guy stuff, so on a level playing field, I’d lose women to them every time if you make them all be straight. I need them out of the picture, in fact they take each other out of the equation. You see two people doing something you don’t approve of, I see a giant game of dodge ball and the two best players just took each other out.
And why is the word gay rights always about gay men, lest we not forget the women. What guy doesn’t think female homosexuality or bisexuality is completely weighted in his favor. Lesbian women, for the most part, are fun to hang out with it, some act like and think like men, they are no threat to you. Then there’s the bisexual ones. I don’t even need to mention the hypocrisy that female on female porn is probably 50% of the market for male viewers. You people are lucky I’m not in charge, otherwise that wouldn’t just be a paragraph in a history book, it would replace music or art as an elective. It might be compulsory, like registering for the draft. C’mon admit it, you know that one friend that has a bisexual girlfriend or wife, you envy the crap out of him, don’t you.
So calm down, let people live the way they want, especially of it helps your lot in life. If it were real estate, and nobody wanted a house so you were one of the few buyers, would you get mad about it. No you wouldn’t, you’d be happy to have less competition driving up the prices. It’s the same thing, free your mind, leave people alone that don’t hurt you alone. And Please, these impressionable children you are so worried about, give them a little more credit.
temeculaguy
Participant107x might be impossible to find in SD, but it’s child’s play in my neck of the woods and has been for two years. Using Bug’s old butterfly effect theory, my guess is that it may be coming your way.
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