Totally OT: Governator sires child with Home worker…

[briansd1]

[quote=njtosd]
Society IS coercive – that is why people respect honorable choices that are made when it would have been easier to have made a dishonorable one.[/quote]

I agree with you.

I’m not excusing the cheating. I’m just saying that it is what it is. We have no choice but to accept it and deal with it.

There used to be legal penalties for adultery. But it’s not a crime. It’s something to be worked out between the spouses and it’s nobody’s business.

There are still stiff social sanctions against adultery. But people are much more accepting of it now.

I’m also saying that people respect money, fame and power, and social advancement more than they respect remaining faithful in a marriage. Folks make the choice of getting married accordingly.

[briansd1]

[quote=njtosd]
If you don’t want to get married under the conditions that the other person desires, don’t get married.
[/quote]

I’ll take a legalistic view to this.

A contract should be mutually agreed upon. If the other person desires something he or she should negotiate it in advance. It takes two to tango.

[quote=njtosd]
If you agree, you should honor your word. No one holds a gun to your head and tells you to get married (unless you’re very unlucky). It’s a free choice. [/quote]

The marriage vows say nothing about sex outside of marriage.

One can have sex outside of marriage, still honor one’s word, and still love and cherish one’s spouse, all at the same time.

[briansd1]

[quote=njtosd]
If you don’t want to get married under the conditions that the other person desires, don’t get married.
[/quote]

I’ll take a legalistic view to this.

A contract should be mutually agreed upon. If the other person desires something he or she should negotiate it in advance. It takes two to tango.

[quote=njtosd]
If you agree, you should honor your word. No one holds a gun to your head and tells you to get married (unless you’re very unlucky). It’s a free choice. [/quote]

The marriage vows say nothing about sex outside of marriage.

One can have sex outside of marriage, still honor one’s word, and still love and cherish one’s spouse, all at the same time.

[briansd1]

[quote=njtosd]
If you don’t want to get married under the conditions that the other person desires, don’t get married.
[/quote]

I’ll take a legalistic view to this.

A contract should be mutually agreed upon. If the other person desires something he or she should negotiate it in advance. It takes two to tango.

[quote=njtosd]
If you agree, you should honor your word. No one holds a gun to your head and tells you to get married (unless you’re very unlucky). It’s a free choice. [/quote]

The marriage vows say nothing about sex outside of marriage.

One can have sex outside of marriage, still honor one’s word, and still love and cherish one’s spouse, all at the same time.

[briansd1]

[quote=njtosd]
If you don’t want to get married under the conditions that the other person desires, don’t get married.
[/quote]

I’ll take a legalistic view to this.

A contract should be mutually agreed upon. If the other person desires something he or she should negotiate it in advance. It takes two to tango.

[quote=njtosd]
If you agree, you should honor your word. No one holds a gun to your head and tells you to get married (unless you’re very unlucky). It’s a free choice. [/quote]

The marriage vows say nothing about sex outside of marriage.

One can have sex outside of marriage, still honor one’s word, and still love and cherish one’s spouse, all at the same time.

[briansd1]

[quote=njtosd]
If you don’t want to get married under the conditions that the other person desires, don’t get married.
[/quote]

I’ll take a legalistic view to this.

A contract should be mutually agreed upon. If the other person desires something he or she should negotiate it in advance. It takes two to tango.

[quote=njtosd]
If you agree, you should honor your word. No one holds a gun to your head and tells you to get married (unless you’re very unlucky). It’s a free choice. [/quote]

The marriage vows say nothing about sex outside of marriage.

One can have sex outside of marriage, still honor one’s word, and still love and cherish one’s spouse, all at the same time.

[scaredyclassic]

Perhaps the vow should include; ” do you, Brian agree to have sex with Edith and Edith only, until you drop dead, unless she dies first, and if she’s pissed at you, and refuses to have sex with you, in which case you agree that you will have no sex whatsoever, for whatever time period Edith specifies, completely at her discretion, other than with yourself, of course, but in any event discreetly, for as long as it takes for edith to momentarily suspend her disgust with you ling enough to engage in intercourse, and to in any event not have sex with anyone employed in the household under any circumstances, even if you haven’t gotten laid in like a year.

I do”

[scaredyclassic]

Perhaps the vow should include; ” do you, Brian agree to have sex with Edith and Edith only, until you drop dead, unless she dies first, and if she’s pissed at you, and refuses to have sex with you, in which case you agree that you will have no sex whatsoever, for whatever time period Edith specifies, completely at her discretion, other than with yourself, of course, but in any event discreetly, for as long as it takes for edith to momentarily suspend her disgust with you ling enough to engage in intercourse, and to in any event not have sex with anyone employed in the household under any circumstances, even if you haven’t gotten laid in like a year.

I do”

[scaredyclassic]

Perhaps the vow should include; ” do you, Brian agree to have sex with Edith and Edith only, until you drop dead, unless she dies first, and if she’s pissed at you, and refuses to have sex with you, in which case you agree that you will have no sex whatsoever, for whatever time period Edith specifies, completely at her discretion, other than with yourself, of course, but in any event discreetly, for as long as it takes for edith to momentarily suspend her disgust with you ling enough to engage in intercourse, and to in any event not have sex with anyone employed in the household under any circumstances, even if you haven’t gotten laid in like a year.

I do”

[scaredyclassic]

Perhaps the vow should include; ” do you, Brian agree to have sex with Edith and Edith only, until you drop dead, unless she dies first, and if she’s pissed at you, and refuses to have sex with you, in which case you agree that you will have no sex whatsoever, for whatever time period Edith specifies, completely at her discretion, other than with yourself, of course, but in any event discreetly, for as long as it takes for edith to momentarily suspend her disgust with you ling enough to engage in intercourse, and to in any event not have sex with anyone employed in the household under any circumstances, even if you haven’t gotten laid in like a year.

I do”

[scaredyclassic]

Perhaps the vow should include; ” do you, Brian agree to have sex with Edith and Edith only, until you drop dead, unless she dies first, and if she’s pissed at you, and refuses to have sex with you, in which case you agree that you will have no sex whatsoever, for whatever time period Edith specifies, completely at her discretion, other than with yourself, of course, but in any event discreetly, for as long as it takes for edith to momentarily suspend her disgust with you ling enough to engage in intercourse, and to in any event not have sex with anyone employed in the household under any circumstances, even if you haven’t gotten laid in like a year.

I do”

[jpinpb]

[quote=briansd1]One can have sex outside of marriage, still honor one’s word, and still love and cherish one’s spouse, all at the same time.[/quote]

“Love, honor and cherish.” So according to your definition of “honor” that would mean banging the maid and getting her pregnant and keeping it a secret for 10 years. I have trouble considering that honorable. Definitely not respecting the one you supposedly love.

[jpinpb]

[quote=briansd1]One can have sex outside of marriage, still honor one’s word, and still love and cherish one’s spouse, all at the same time.[/quote]

“Love, honor and cherish.” So according to your definition of “honor” that would mean banging the maid and getting her pregnant and keeping it a secret for 10 years. I have trouble considering that honorable. Definitely not respecting the one you supposedly love.

[jpinpb]

[quote=briansd1]One can have sex outside of marriage, still honor one’s word, and still love and cherish one’s spouse, all at the same time.[/quote]

“Love, honor and cherish.” So according to your definition of “honor” that would mean banging the maid and getting her pregnant and keeping it a secret for 10 years. I have trouble considering that honorable. Definitely not respecting the one you supposedly love.

[jpinpb]

[quote=briansd1]One can have sex outside of marriage, still honor one’s word, and still love and cherish one’s spouse, all at the same time.[/quote]

“Love, honor and cherish.” So according to your definition of “honor” that would mean banging the maid and getting her pregnant and keeping it a secret for 10 years. I have trouble considering that honorable. Definitely not respecting the one you supposedly love.

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