OT: Is it just me or is this really sleezy?

[Coronita]

Well, funny thing that this made front page of this was in the tribune’s website…

http://www.signonsandiego.com/photos/galleries/2010/apr/11/charger-girl-auditions/

Maybe there’s just a disconnect between pro-cheer and non-pro cheer.

(Not that there is necessarily anything wrong with it…Just like I’m not so sure this is the direction I necessarily would want my daughter to go…But that’s just me…)

[Allan from Fallbrook]

[quote=flu]Well, funny thing that this made front page of this was in the tribune’s website…

http://www.signonsandiego.com/photos/galleries/2010/apr/11/charger-girl-auditions/

Maybe there’s just a disconnect between pro-cheer and non-pro cheer.

(Not that there is necessarily anything wrong with it…Just like I’m not so sure this is the direction I necessarily would want my daughter to go…But that’s just me…)[/quote]

FLU: And your point is? They all looked very professional. Not a bimbo in the bunch. I’m sure they’re all products of competitive cheer camps.

The disconnect is this: Yes, there are competitive cheer programs and they demand tremendous athleticism and drive. However, the vast majority of cheer programs are just that: Cheer programs, and they’re just like the ones we remember from high school.

I was at my daughter’s horse show this weekend and saw competitive riders from about six years of age, all the way to 60 years of age. The dedication to the sport was amazing and some of these women have been riding since the 1950s. To me, this is a sport that embodies both grace and competition and demands far more than jumping around with pom-poms.

[Allan from Fallbrook]

[quote=flu]Well, funny thing that this made front page of this was in the tribune’s website…

http://www.signonsandiego.com/photos/galleries/2010/apr/11/charger-girl-auditions/

Maybe there’s just a disconnect between pro-cheer and non-pro cheer.

(Not that there is necessarily anything wrong with it…Just like I’m not so sure this is the direction I necessarily would want my daughter to go…But that’s just me…)[/quote]

FLU: And your point is? They all looked very professional. Not a bimbo in the bunch. I’m sure they’re all products of competitive cheer camps.

The disconnect is this: Yes, there are competitive cheer programs and they demand tremendous athleticism and drive. However, the vast majority of cheer programs are just that: Cheer programs, and they’re just like the ones we remember from high school.

I was at my daughter’s horse show this weekend and saw competitive riders from about six years of age, all the way to 60 years of age. The dedication to the sport was amazing and some of these women have been riding since the 1950s. To me, this is a sport that embodies both grace and competition and demands far more than jumping around with pom-poms.

[Allan from Fallbrook]

[quote=flu]Well, funny thing that this made front page of this was in the tribune’s website…

http://www.signonsandiego.com/photos/galleries/2010/apr/11/charger-girl-auditions/

Maybe there’s just a disconnect between pro-cheer and non-pro cheer.

(Not that there is necessarily anything wrong with it…Just like I’m not so sure this is the direction I necessarily would want my daughter to go…But that’s just me…)[/quote]

FLU: And your point is? They all looked very professional. Not a bimbo in the bunch. I’m sure they’re all products of competitive cheer camps.

The disconnect is this: Yes, there are competitive cheer programs and they demand tremendous athleticism and drive. However, the vast majority of cheer programs are just that: Cheer programs, and they’re just like the ones we remember from high school.

I was at my daughter’s horse show this weekend and saw competitive riders from about six years of age, all the way to 60 years of age. The dedication to the sport was amazing and some of these women have been riding since the 1950s. To me, this is a sport that embodies both grace and competition and demands far more than jumping around with pom-poms.

[Allan from Fallbrook]

[quote=flu]Well, funny thing that this made front page of this was in the tribune’s website…

http://www.signonsandiego.com/photos/galleries/2010/apr/11/charger-girl-auditions/

Maybe there’s just a disconnect between pro-cheer and non-pro cheer.

(Not that there is necessarily anything wrong with it…Just like I’m not so sure this is the direction I necessarily would want my daughter to go…But that’s just me…)[/quote]

FLU: And your point is? They all looked very professional. Not a bimbo in the bunch. I’m sure they’re all products of competitive cheer camps.

The disconnect is this: Yes, there are competitive cheer programs and they demand tremendous athleticism and drive. However, the vast majority of cheer programs are just that: Cheer programs, and they’re just like the ones we remember from high school.

I was at my daughter’s horse show this weekend and saw competitive riders from about six years of age, all the way to 60 years of age. The dedication to the sport was amazing and some of these women have been riding since the 1950s. To me, this is a sport that embodies both grace and competition and demands far more than jumping around with pom-poms.

[Allan from Fallbrook]

[quote=flu]Well, funny thing that this made front page of this was in the tribune’s website…

http://www.signonsandiego.com/photos/galleries/2010/apr/11/charger-girl-auditions/

Maybe there’s just a disconnect between pro-cheer and non-pro cheer.

(Not that there is necessarily anything wrong with it…Just like I’m not so sure this is the direction I necessarily would want my daughter to go…But that’s just me…)[/quote]

FLU: And your point is? They all looked very professional. Not a bimbo in the bunch. I’m sure they’re all products of competitive cheer camps.

The disconnect is this: Yes, there are competitive cheer programs and they demand tremendous athleticism and drive. However, the vast majority of cheer programs are just that: Cheer programs, and they’re just like the ones we remember from high school.

I was at my daughter’s horse show this weekend and saw competitive riders from about six years of age, all the way to 60 years of age. The dedication to the sport was amazing and some of these women have been riding since the 1950s. To me, this is a sport that embodies both grace and competition and demands far more than jumping around with pom-poms.

[sdduuuude]

I’d say – the dance isn’t sleazy or inappropriate, but the costumes are way past appropriate.

[sdduuuude]

I’d say – the dance isn’t sleazy or inappropriate, but the costumes are way past appropriate.

[sdduuuude]

I’d say – the dance isn’t sleazy or inappropriate, but the costumes are way past appropriate.

[sdduuuude]

I’d say – the dance isn’t sleazy or inappropriate, but the costumes are way past appropriate.

[sdduuuude]

I’d say – the dance isn’t sleazy or inappropriate, but the costumes are way past appropriate.

[cabal]

Fredo – Your post suggest you are probably new to the dance studio scene. When a studio hosts a recital, they typically present 20-30 dances attempting to showcase the various genres from ballet to jazz to hip-hop. In the spirit of diversity, a few choreographs unfortunately end up appearing risque, especially to the new observer. I had a similar reaction when my daughter first joined, but quickly realize it’s innocent and simply differences in perception, which may explain why you director appeared indifferent. In other words, while one person may see hints of smut, I can assure you the dance instructors only sees art. In my experience, every dance instructor I’ve met sincerely cares about and protects their students. If you’re uncomfortable, by all means pull your child.

The issue with dance studios are the helicopter, alpha moms who relentlessly lobby the instructors on behalf of their kid for lead positions and recognition. There is nothing more volatile or entertaining than putting a bunch of “Housewives of Orange County” type moms in a waiting room with nothing to do but watch their daughters rehearse, gossip, compare boob jobs, and back stab each other. It’s brutal but happens every season, especially if your daughter is on a competitive team.

I also agree cheerleading has evolved into a competitive sport requiring as much dedication and hardwork as any other team sport. I’ve attended regional and national competitions and the energy level from both the competitors and audience rival any Charger-Raider game. It’s absolutely crazy. For us, the purpose of extracurricular activities for children is to develop an appreciation for teamwork, develop social skills and learn to compete. From that perspective, the type of activity isn’t important. The only criteria was to find an activity that our child can excel in.

[cabal]

Fredo – Your post suggest you are probably new to the dance studio scene. When a studio hosts a recital, they typically present 20-30 dances attempting to showcase the various genres from ballet to jazz to hip-hop. In the spirit of diversity, a few choreographs unfortunately end up appearing risque, especially to the new observer. I had a similar reaction when my daughter first joined, but quickly realize it’s innocent and simply differences in perception, which may explain why you director appeared indifferent. In other words, while one person may see hints of smut, I can assure you the dance instructors only sees art. In my experience, every dance instructor I’ve met sincerely cares about and protects their students. If you’re uncomfortable, by all means pull your child.

The issue with dance studios are the helicopter, alpha moms who relentlessly lobby the instructors on behalf of their kid for lead positions and recognition. There is nothing more volatile or entertaining than putting a bunch of “Housewives of Orange County” type moms in a waiting room with nothing to do but watch their daughters rehearse, gossip, compare boob jobs, and back stab each other. It’s brutal but happens every season, especially if your daughter is on a competitive team.

I also agree cheerleading has evolved into a competitive sport requiring as much dedication and hardwork as any other team sport. I’ve attended regional and national competitions and the energy level from both the competitors and audience rival any Charger-Raider game. It’s absolutely crazy. For us, the purpose of extracurricular activities for children is to develop an appreciation for teamwork, develop social skills and learn to compete. From that perspective, the type of activity isn’t important. The only criteria was to find an activity that our child can excel in.

[cabal]

Fredo – Your post suggest you are probably new to the dance studio scene. When a studio hosts a recital, they typically present 20-30 dances attempting to showcase the various genres from ballet to jazz to hip-hop. In the spirit of diversity, a few choreographs unfortunately end up appearing risque, especially to the new observer. I had a similar reaction when my daughter first joined, but quickly realize it’s innocent and simply differences in perception, which may explain why you director appeared indifferent. In other words, while one person may see hints of smut, I can assure you the dance instructors only sees art. In my experience, every dance instructor I’ve met sincerely cares about and protects their students. If you’re uncomfortable, by all means pull your child.

The issue with dance studios are the helicopter, alpha moms who relentlessly lobby the instructors on behalf of their kid for lead positions and recognition. There is nothing more volatile or entertaining than putting a bunch of “Housewives of Orange County” type moms in a waiting room with nothing to do but watch their daughters rehearse, gossip, compare boob jobs, and back stab each other. It’s brutal but happens every season, especially if your daughter is on a competitive team.

I also agree cheerleading has evolved into a competitive sport requiring as much dedication and hardwork as any other team sport. I’ve attended regional and national competitions and the energy level from both the competitors and audience rival any Charger-Raider game. It’s absolutely crazy. For us, the purpose of extracurricular activities for children is to develop an appreciation for teamwork, develop social skills and learn to compete. From that perspective, the type of activity isn’t important. The only criteria was to find an activity that our child can excel in.

[cabal]

Fredo – Your post suggest you are probably new to the dance studio scene. When a studio hosts a recital, they typically present 20-30 dances attempting to showcase the various genres from ballet to jazz to hip-hop. In the spirit of diversity, a few choreographs unfortunately end up appearing risque, especially to the new observer. I had a similar reaction when my daughter first joined, but quickly realize it’s innocent and simply differences in perception, which may explain why you director appeared indifferent. In other words, while one person may see hints of smut, I can assure you the dance instructors only sees art. In my experience, every dance instructor I’ve met sincerely cares about and protects their students. If you’re uncomfortable, by all means pull your child.

The issue with dance studios are the helicopter, alpha moms who relentlessly lobby the instructors on behalf of their kid for lead positions and recognition. There is nothing more volatile or entertaining than putting a bunch of “Housewives of Orange County” type moms in a waiting room with nothing to do but watch their daughters rehearse, gossip, compare boob jobs, and back stab each other. It’s brutal but happens every season, especially if your daughter is on a competitive team.

I also agree cheerleading has evolved into a competitive sport requiring as much dedication and hardwork as any other team sport. I’ve attended regional and national competitions and the energy level from both the competitors and audience rival any Charger-Raider game. It’s absolutely crazy. For us, the purpose of extracurricular activities for children is to develop an appreciation for teamwork, develop social skills and learn to compete. From that perspective, the type of activity isn’t important. The only criteria was to find an activity that our child can excel in.

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