OT: Dating Someone with Children

[Anonymous]

Continuing my post…Sex is easy to be had, by younger men, by older men. That is true for any woman who is attractive. However, the younger guys continually seek me out because as I’ve heard by some, they’re tired of the immaturity and games played by the younger women. Another thing is they want to know if they “can keep up”. I’m 42, but thankfully I look a lot younger due in part to my ethnicity and my genes. I’m thankful for that. That’s another reason why I get approached from that group.

Again, if it’s for sex, than that’s fine. In general, I’m not interested in anything serious from that group. I don’t want to be anyone’s mother (in terms of taking care of anyone) and I think it goes without saying, in order for anything to be remotely serious, the ability to have a meaningful conversation has to be present along with shared goals and values.

Also where you congrugate to meet people is important if you’re looking for a mate. I have girlfriends who are attractive and I know some attractive women who go to bars in hopes of meeting men. However, if a woman goes to a bar, what kind of man is she going to meet? She may meet someone nice with good values, but there are going to be many men there who are just looking for sex.

P.S. While I’m on a reflective roll, the ridiculous comments from some on here are starting to get old. Aldante, plain idiotic. Also, from Nostradamus, who most likely got turned down for a date at the beach, which if his personality is any indication, will probably be a common occurence.

[HarryBosch]

Marion, I differ with your conclusion that a man is sleaze if “…part of his attraction to …” a woman is their “…luscious asses.”

“Another thing about the sleaze factor, I found out he liked dating women with luscious asses, which was part of his attraction to me.”

What if “part” of his attraction to you was a different part of your anatomy? Say your face for instance? Or your breasts – either big, medium, or small?

So if it is your face that attracts a man then why is that less “sleaze” then if it is your behind that attracts a man? I like to look at my wife’s ass. Her behind attracts me. It gets me turned on. I’ve been married for 20+ years. And my wife’s ass still turns me on.

That is a big part of attraction for me as a man to a woman. What’s wrong with that?

One more thing – men are visual. They get turned on by the visual. Women get turned on by the emotional. You might find some exceptions here and there on both sides but on average I think those are true statements. That’s just the way we’re built. It’s in our genes.

[HarryBosch]

Marion, I differ with your conclusion that a man is sleaze if “…part of his attraction to …” a woman is their “…luscious asses.”

“Another thing about the sleaze factor, I found out he liked dating women with luscious asses, which was part of his attraction to me.”

What if “part” of his attraction to you was a different part of your anatomy? Say your face for instance? Or your breasts – either big, medium, or small?

So if it is your face that attracts a man then why is that less “sleaze” then if it is your behind that attracts a man? I like to look at my wife’s ass. Her behind attracts me. It gets me turned on. I’ve been married for 20+ years. And my wife’s ass still turns me on.

That is a big part of attraction for me as a man to a woman. What’s wrong with that?

One more thing – men are visual. They get turned on by the visual. Women get turned on by the emotional. You might find some exceptions here and there on both sides but on average I think those are true statements. That’s just the way we’re built. It’s in our genes.

[HarryBosch]

Marion, I differ with your conclusion that a man is sleaze if “…part of his attraction to …” a woman is their “…luscious asses.”

“Another thing about the sleaze factor, I found out he liked dating women with luscious asses, which was part of his attraction to me.”

What if “part” of his attraction to you was a different part of your anatomy? Say your face for instance? Or your breasts – either big, medium, or small?

So if it is your face that attracts a man then why is that less “sleaze” then if it is your behind that attracts a man? I like to look at my wife’s ass. Her behind attracts me. It gets me turned on. I’ve been married for 20+ years. And my wife’s ass still turns me on.

That is a big part of attraction for me as a man to a woman. What’s wrong with that?

One more thing – men are visual. They get turned on by the visual. Women get turned on by the emotional. You might find some exceptions here and there on both sides but on average I think those are true statements. That’s just the way we’re built. It’s in our genes.

[HarryBosch]

Marion, I differ with your conclusion that a man is sleaze if “…part of his attraction to …” a woman is their “…luscious asses.”

“Another thing about the sleaze factor, I found out he liked dating women with luscious asses, which was part of his attraction to me.”

What if “part” of his attraction to you was a different part of your anatomy? Say your face for instance? Or your breasts – either big, medium, or small?

So if it is your face that attracts a man then why is that less “sleaze” then if it is your behind that attracts a man? I like to look at my wife’s ass. Her behind attracts me. It gets me turned on. I’ve been married for 20+ years. And my wife’s ass still turns me on.

That is a big part of attraction for me as a man to a woman. What’s wrong with that?

One more thing – men are visual. They get turned on by the visual. Women get turned on by the emotional. You might find some exceptions here and there on both sides but on average I think those are true statements. That’s just the way we’re built. It’s in our genes.

[HarryBosch]

Marion, I differ with your conclusion that a man is sleaze if “…part of his attraction to …” a woman is their “…luscious asses.”

“Another thing about the sleaze factor, I found out he liked dating women with luscious asses, which was part of his attraction to me.”

What if “part” of his attraction to you was a different part of your anatomy? Say your face for instance? Or your breasts – either big, medium, or small?

So if it is your face that attracts a man then why is that less “sleaze” then if it is your behind that attracts a man? I like to look at my wife’s ass. Her behind attracts me. It gets me turned on. I’ve been married for 20+ years. And my wife’s ass still turns me on.

That is a big part of attraction for me as a man to a woman. What’s wrong with that?

One more thing – men are visual. They get turned on by the visual. Women get turned on by the emotional. You might find some exceptions here and there on both sides but on average I think those are true statements. That’s just the way we’re built. It’s in our genes.

[Multiplepropertyowner]

Wow! I think we have hit bottom.

[Multiplepropertyowner]

Wow! I think we have hit bottom.

[Multiplepropertyowner]

Wow! I think we have hit bottom.

[Multiplepropertyowner]

Wow! I think we have hit bottom.

[Multiplepropertyowner]

Wow! I think we have hit bottom.

[HarryBosch]

Regarding what turns on my wife about me – it’s not my body. Although I do still try to keep myself in shape. I know that if I want a good life (sex, companionship, respect, enjoyable time together) with my wife then I need to show not only affection physically and verbally toward her but more importantly with my actions. What have I done for her lately ?

It’s often doing things for her that I don’t even see the importance of. And when she sees that I am trying to change my habits or behaviors for her sake – and not my own – then that pleases her. There’s pleasing your spouse and then there’s pleasing your marriage – and that’s learning how to compromise. Not on everything but on the big things. So that you – she and I – function as a team.

(Sorry, I got a little off track in my own thoughts. 🙂

[HarryBosch]

Regarding what turns on my wife about me – it’s not my body. Although I do still try to keep myself in shape. I know that if I want a good life (sex, companionship, respect, enjoyable time together) with my wife then I need to show not only affection physically and verbally toward her but more importantly with my actions. What have I done for her lately ?

It’s often doing things for her that I don’t even see the importance of. And when she sees that I am trying to change my habits or behaviors for her sake – and not my own – then that pleases her. There’s pleasing your spouse and then there’s pleasing your marriage – and that’s learning how to compromise. Not on everything but on the big things. So that you – she and I – function as a team.

(Sorry, I got a little off track in my own thoughts. 🙂

[HarryBosch]

Regarding what turns on my wife about me – it’s not my body. Although I do still try to keep myself in shape. I know that if I want a good life (sex, companionship, respect, enjoyable time together) with my wife then I need to show not only affection physically and verbally toward her but more importantly with my actions. What have I done for her lately ?

It’s often doing things for her that I don’t even see the importance of. And when she sees that I am trying to change my habits or behaviors for her sake – and not my own – then that pleases her. There’s pleasing your spouse and then there’s pleasing your marriage – and that’s learning how to compromise. Not on everything but on the big things. So that you – she and I – function as a team.

(Sorry, I got a little off track in my own thoughts. 🙂

[HarryBosch]

Regarding what turns on my wife about me – it’s not my body. Although I do still try to keep myself in shape. I know that if I want a good life (sex, companionship, respect, enjoyable time together) with my wife then I need to show not only affection physically and verbally toward her but more importantly with my actions. What have I done for her lately ?

It’s often doing things for her that I don’t even see the importance of. And when she sees that I am trying to change my habits or behaviors for her sake – and not my own – then that pleases her. There’s pleasing your spouse and then there’s pleasing your marriage – and that’s learning how to compromise. Not on everything but on the big things. So that you – she and I – function as a team.

(Sorry, I got a little off track in my own thoughts. 🙂

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