Leaving SD for Orlando

[scaredyclassic]

for me, I have to be doing as well or better than peers, or i feel pangs of discomfort. i am aware of this, and so i don’t think I am totally psychologically controlled by it. When I think back to a guy i used to work closely with in a different field who went on to become extraordinarily successful and wealthy, I become almost physically ill with jealousy.

kinda like the main character in BREAKING BAD feels…

[bob2007]

Ah yes, the “drawbridge”. After you move here/are born, everyone else degrades your life. If your going to make that argument you better go back a lot further than your own birth date.

Besides, I think you missed the point. If you are unhappy with where you are, regardless of how you got there, it affects everyday decisions both big and small. This will affect how you make friends, get along with coworkers, and likely job performance as well. With that attitude things will only get worse and perceived as things “happening to you”. My point/opinion is that its better to do something about it, rather than languish in the despair and decline in your quality of life.

[bob2007]

Ah yes, the “drawbridge”. After you move here/are born, everyone else degrades your life. If your going to make that argument you better go back a lot further than your own birth date.

Besides, I think you missed the point. If you are unhappy with where you are, regardless of how you got there, it affects everyday decisions both big and small. This will affect how you make friends, get along with coworkers, and likely job performance as well. With that attitude things will only get worse and perceived as things “happening to you”. My point/opinion is that its better to do something about it, rather than languish in the despair and decline in your quality of life.

[bob2007]

Ah yes, the “drawbridge”. After you move here/are born, everyone else degrades your life. If your going to make that argument you better go back a lot further than your own birth date.

Besides, I think you missed the point. If you are unhappy with where you are, regardless of how you got there, it affects everyday decisions both big and small. This will affect how you make friends, get along with coworkers, and likely job performance as well. With that attitude things will only get worse and perceived as things “happening to you”. My point/opinion is that its better to do something about it, rather than languish in the despair and decline in your quality of life.

[bob2007]

Ah yes, the “drawbridge”. After you move here/are born, everyone else degrades your life. If your going to make that argument you better go back a lot further than your own birth date.

Besides, I think you missed the point. If you are unhappy with where you are, regardless of how you got there, it affects everyday decisions both big and small. This will affect how you make friends, get along with coworkers, and likely job performance as well. With that attitude things will only get worse and perceived as things “happening to you”. My point/opinion is that its better to do something about it, rather than languish in the despair and decline in your quality of life.

[bob2007]

Ah yes, the “drawbridge”. After you move here/are born, everyone else degrades your life. If your going to make that argument you better go back a lot further than your own birth date.

Besides, I think you missed the point. If you are unhappy with where you are, regardless of how you got there, it affects everyday decisions both big and small. This will affect how you make friends, get along with coworkers, and likely job performance as well. With that attitude things will only get worse and perceived as things “happening to you”. My point/opinion is that its better to do something about it, rather than languish in the despair and decline in your quality of life.

[SD Realtor]

I am a native to socal. I can say with all of my heart that it BY FAR is the best place to live in the USA. That of course is an uninformed opinion because I have not been everywhere in the USA but am fairly well travelled. CAR I do agree with your point that the shine has worn off for me personally because of how things have changed but I still would rather live here then anywhere else. No doubt about it.

As far as needing to be ahead of my neighbors or anything like that… I don’t care at all about that. I thing that all ties in to self esteem. If you get uptight about what others around you do or make then that is to bad. That is a you problem and life is to short to grind over how successful others are.

Someone on the thread brought up an interesting point about how if taxi cab drivers and others can do it, they can to. I think that is a good perspective. It is expensive to live here but it CAN BE much cheaper if you want to live in certain areas or are not hung up on having to buy a home.

[SD Realtor]

I am a native to socal. I can say with all of my heart that it BY FAR is the best place to live in the USA. That of course is an uninformed opinion because I have not been everywhere in the USA but am fairly well travelled. CAR I do agree with your point that the shine has worn off for me personally because of how things have changed but I still would rather live here then anywhere else. No doubt about it.

As far as needing to be ahead of my neighbors or anything like that… I don’t care at all about that. I thing that all ties in to self esteem. If you get uptight about what others around you do or make then that is to bad. That is a you problem and life is to short to grind over how successful others are.

Someone on the thread brought up an interesting point about how if taxi cab drivers and others can do it, they can to. I think that is a good perspective. It is expensive to live here but it CAN BE much cheaper if you want to live in certain areas or are not hung up on having to buy a home.

[SD Realtor]

I am a native to socal. I can say with all of my heart that it BY FAR is the best place to live in the USA. That of course is an uninformed opinion because I have not been everywhere in the USA but am fairly well travelled. CAR I do agree with your point that the shine has worn off for me personally because of how things have changed but I still would rather live here then anywhere else. No doubt about it.

As far as needing to be ahead of my neighbors or anything like that… I don’t care at all about that. I thing that all ties in to self esteem. If you get uptight about what others around you do or make then that is to bad. That is a you problem and life is to short to grind over how successful others are.

Someone on the thread brought up an interesting point about how if taxi cab drivers and others can do it, they can to. I think that is a good perspective. It is expensive to live here but it CAN BE much cheaper if you want to live in certain areas or are not hung up on having to buy a home.

[SD Realtor]

I am a native to socal. I can say with all of my heart that it BY FAR is the best place to live in the USA. That of course is an uninformed opinion because I have not been everywhere in the USA but am fairly well travelled. CAR I do agree with your point that the shine has worn off for me personally because of how things have changed but I still would rather live here then anywhere else. No doubt about it.

As far as needing to be ahead of my neighbors or anything like that… I don’t care at all about that. I thing that all ties in to self esteem. If you get uptight about what others around you do or make then that is to bad. That is a you problem and life is to short to grind over how successful others are.

Someone on the thread brought up an interesting point about how if taxi cab drivers and others can do it, they can to. I think that is a good perspective. It is expensive to live here but it CAN BE much cheaper if you want to live in certain areas or are not hung up on having to buy a home.

[SD Realtor]

I am a native to socal. I can say with all of my heart that it BY FAR is the best place to live in the USA. That of course is an uninformed opinion because I have not been everywhere in the USA but am fairly well travelled. CAR I do agree with your point that the shine has worn off for me personally because of how things have changed but I still would rather live here then anywhere else. No doubt about it.

As far as needing to be ahead of my neighbors or anything like that… I don’t care at all about that. I thing that all ties in to self esteem. If you get uptight about what others around you do or make then that is to bad. That is a you problem and life is to short to grind over how successful others are.

Someone on the thread brought up an interesting point about how if taxi cab drivers and others can do it, they can to. I think that is a good perspective. It is expensive to live here but it CAN BE much cheaper if you want to live in certain areas or are not hung up on having to buy a home.

[outtamojo]

[quote=bob2007]Ah yes, the “drawbridge”. After you move here/are born, everyone else degrades your life. If your going to make that argument you better go back a lot further than your own birth date.

Besides, I think you missed the point. If you are unhappy with where you are, regardless of how you got there, it affects everyday decisions both big and small. This will affect how you make friends, get along with coworkers, and likely job performance as well. With that attitude things will only get worse and perceived as things “happening to you”. My point/opinion is that its better to do something about it, rather than languish in the despair and decline in your quality of life.[/quote]

Agree 100% Bob, life is what you make it and I don’t think much of those who whine constantly and don’t do anything about it when Paradise is just a U-Haul away : )

[outtamojo]

[quote=bob2007]Ah yes, the “drawbridge”. After you move here/are born, everyone else degrades your life. If your going to make that argument you better go back a lot further than your own birth date.

Besides, I think you missed the point. If you are unhappy with where you are, regardless of how you got there, it affects everyday decisions both big and small. This will affect how you make friends, get along with coworkers, and likely job performance as well. With that attitude things will only get worse and perceived as things “happening to you”. My point/opinion is that its better to do something about it, rather than languish in the despair and decline in your quality of life.[/quote]

Agree 100% Bob, life is what you make it and I don’t think much of those who whine constantly and don’t do anything about it when Paradise is just a U-Haul away : )

[outtamojo]

[quote=bob2007]Ah yes, the “drawbridge”. After you move here/are born, everyone else degrades your life. If your going to make that argument you better go back a lot further than your own birth date.

Besides, I think you missed the point. If you are unhappy with where you are, regardless of how you got there, it affects everyday decisions both big and small. This will affect how you make friends, get along with coworkers, and likely job performance as well. With that attitude things will only get worse and perceived as things “happening to you”. My point/opinion is that its better to do something about it, rather than languish in the despair and decline in your quality of life.[/quote]

Agree 100% Bob, life is what you make it and I don’t think much of those who whine constantly and don’t do anything about it when Paradise is just a U-Haul away : )

[outtamojo]

[quote=bob2007]Ah yes, the “drawbridge”. After you move here/are born, everyone else degrades your life. If your going to make that argument you better go back a lot further than your own birth date.

Besides, I think you missed the point. If you are unhappy with where you are, regardless of how you got there, it affects everyday decisions both big and small. This will affect how you make friends, get along with coworkers, and likely job performance as well. With that attitude things will only get worse and perceived as things “happening to you”. My point/opinion is that its better to do something about it, rather than languish in the despair and decline in your quality of life.[/quote]

Agree 100% Bob, life is what you make it and I don’t think much of those who whine constantly and don’t do anything about it when Paradise is just a U-Haul away : )

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