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ParticipantGood point, Cognitive… This is another aspect that has to be accounted for too. Things have changed for kids today compared to when we were kids, and not for the best… I am not saying it justifies their attitude about living with their parents, but it helps explaining it. And not sure I am blaming them.
Scarlett
ParticipantGood point, Cognitive… This is another aspect that has to be accounted for too. Things have changed for kids today compared to when we were kids, and not for the best… I am not saying it justifies their attitude about living with their parents, but it helps explaining it. And not sure I am blaming them.
Scarlett
ParticipantGood point, Cognitive… This is another aspect that has to be accounted for too. Things have changed for kids today compared to when we were kids, and not for the best… I am not saying it justifies their attitude about living with their parents, but it helps explaining it. And not sure I am blaming them.
Scarlett
ParticipantGood point, Cognitive… This is another aspect that has to be accounted for too. Things have changed for kids today compared to when we were kids, and not for the best… I am not saying it justifies their attitude about living with their parents, but it helps explaining it. And not sure I am blaming them.
Scarlett
ParticipantGood point, Cognitive… This is another aspect that has to be accounted for too. Things have changed for kids today compared to when we were kids, and not for the best… I am not saying it justifies their attitude about living with their parents, but it helps explaining it. And not sure I am blaming them.
May 19, 2011 at 9:38 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #697231Scarlett
ParticipantWell said, TG. I second that. very good points.
I have a coworker recently divorced with a 3 yr old son, he initially wanted to keep their old place (she moved to be closer to work); turned out he felt much better after he moved.May 19, 2011 at 9:38 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #697320Scarlett
ParticipantWell said, TG. I second that. very good points.
I have a coworker recently divorced with a 3 yr old son, he initially wanted to keep their old place (she moved to be closer to work); turned out he felt much better after he moved.May 19, 2011 at 9:38 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #697917Scarlett
ParticipantWell said, TG. I second that. very good points.
I have a coworker recently divorced with a 3 yr old son, he initially wanted to keep their old place (she moved to be closer to work); turned out he felt much better after he moved.May 19, 2011 at 9:38 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #698063Scarlett
ParticipantWell said, TG. I second that. very good points.
I have a coworker recently divorced with a 3 yr old son, he initially wanted to keep their old place (she moved to be closer to work); turned out he felt much better after he moved.May 19, 2011 at 9:38 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #698419Scarlett
ParticipantWell said, TG. I second that. very good points.
I have a coworker recently divorced with a 3 yr old son, he initially wanted to keep their old place (she moved to be closer to work); turned out he felt much better after he moved.May 19, 2011 at 1:04 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #696867Scarlett
Participant[quote=bearishgurl][quote=frenchlambda]The problem is that at the time of divorce, there was only $10K of equity in the house (appraised value: $340K; balance on the loans: $330K). In other words, pretty much my entire contribution to the down-payment disappeared in the loss of value of the property after 5 years.
All that I got was the right to keep the little of equity in the condo.[/quote]In essence, what you did here was agree to pay back the $200K (half of which was your ex’s debt) for $10K in “equity.” This is not even enough to pay a RE commission to a broker to sell it![/quote]
That’s how it seemed to me and doesn’t make any sense at all.
I say, let the condo go to foreclosure. Stop paying them. MUCH better to have a clean slate.
The child is very young, she will adapt easily and she will forget about it.
May 19, 2011 at 1:04 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #696955Scarlett
Participant[quote=bearishgurl][quote=frenchlambda]The problem is that at the time of divorce, there was only $10K of equity in the house (appraised value: $340K; balance on the loans: $330K). In other words, pretty much my entire contribution to the down-payment disappeared in the loss of value of the property after 5 years.
All that I got was the right to keep the little of equity in the condo.[/quote]In essence, what you did here was agree to pay back the $200K (half of which was your ex’s debt) for $10K in “equity.” This is not even enough to pay a RE commission to a broker to sell it![/quote]
That’s how it seemed to me and doesn’t make any sense at all.
I say, let the condo go to foreclosure. Stop paying them. MUCH better to have a clean slate.
The child is very young, she will adapt easily and she will forget about it.
May 19, 2011 at 1:04 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #697552Scarlett
Participant[quote=bearishgurl][quote=frenchlambda]The problem is that at the time of divorce, there was only $10K of equity in the house (appraised value: $340K; balance on the loans: $330K). In other words, pretty much my entire contribution to the down-payment disappeared in the loss of value of the property after 5 years.
All that I got was the right to keep the little of equity in the condo.[/quote]In essence, what you did here was agree to pay back the $200K (half of which was your ex’s debt) for $10K in “equity.” This is not even enough to pay a RE commission to a broker to sell it![/quote]
That’s how it seemed to me and doesn’t make any sense at all.
I say, let the condo go to foreclosure. Stop paying them. MUCH better to have a clean slate.
The child is very young, she will adapt easily and she will forget about it.
May 19, 2011 at 1:04 PM in reply to: Ex-in-laws (3rd party creditors) want to foreclose on my condo #697699Scarlett
Participant[quote=bearishgurl][quote=frenchlambda]The problem is that at the time of divorce, there was only $10K of equity in the house (appraised value: $340K; balance on the loans: $330K). In other words, pretty much my entire contribution to the down-payment disappeared in the loss of value of the property after 5 years.
All that I got was the right to keep the little of equity in the condo.[/quote]In essence, what you did here was agree to pay back the $200K (half of which was your ex’s debt) for $10K in “equity.” This is not even enough to pay a RE commission to a broker to sell it![/quote]
That’s how it seemed to me and doesn’t make any sense at all.
I say, let the condo go to foreclosure. Stop paying them. MUCH better to have a clean slate.
The child is very young, she will adapt easily and she will forget about it.
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