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April 16, 2008 at 7:11 AM in reply to: What are you going to do with you’re gov. rebate check next month? #188189April 16, 2008 at 7:11 AM in reply to: What are you going to do with you’re gov. rebate check next month? #188221
Navydoc
ParticipantI am getting skunked as well. The funny thing is, if they gave me the money I would toatally blow it on consumer goods the way they want me to. I read somewhere, maybe CR, that the majority of Americans plan to use it to pay down CC debt. I guess that works too, as long as they run their balances back up!
Come on America! Spend! Spend for your very lives!
April 16, 2008 at 7:11 AM in reply to: What are you going to do with you’re gov. rebate check next month? #188229Navydoc
ParticipantI am getting skunked as well. The funny thing is, if they gave me the money I would toatally blow it on consumer goods the way they want me to. I read somewhere, maybe CR, that the majority of Americans plan to use it to pay down CC debt. I guess that works too, as long as they run their balances back up!
Come on America! Spend! Spend for your very lives!
April 16, 2008 at 7:11 AM in reply to: What are you going to do with you’re gov. rebate check next month? #188237Navydoc
ParticipantI am getting skunked as well. The funny thing is, if they gave me the money I would toatally blow it on consumer goods the way they want me to. I read somewhere, maybe CR, that the majority of Americans plan to use it to pay down CC debt. I guess that works too, as long as they run their balances back up!
Come on America! Spend! Spend for your very lives!
Navydoc
ParticipantMarion, I did see your previous post, we are all doing great, thank you. Baby’s sleeping in longer stretches now. Who was the idiot who came up with the expression “slept like a baby”? This has not been our experience at all!
Navydoc
ParticipantMarion, I did see your previous post, we are all doing great, thank you. Baby’s sleeping in longer stretches now. Who was the idiot who came up with the expression “slept like a baby”? This has not been our experience at all!
Navydoc
ParticipantMarion, I did see your previous post, we are all doing great, thank you. Baby’s sleeping in longer stretches now. Who was the idiot who came up with the expression “slept like a baby”? This has not been our experience at all!
Navydoc
ParticipantMarion, I did see your previous post, we are all doing great, thank you. Baby’s sleeping in longer stretches now. Who was the idiot who came up with the expression “slept like a baby”? This has not been our experience at all!
Navydoc
ParticipantMarion, I did see your previous post, we are all doing great, thank you. Baby’s sleeping in longer stretches now. Who was the idiot who came up with the expression “slept like a baby”? This has not been our experience at all!
Navydoc
ParticipantI don’t want to scare you SD transplant, but I hope they get the gender right on the sono. There’s nothing I hate more than delivering a baby girl with a penis. (Actually it turns out to be pretty amusing for all involved)
We named our new daughter Alexis.
Navydoc
ParticipantI don’t want to scare you SD transplant, but I hope they get the gender right on the sono. There’s nothing I hate more than delivering a baby girl with a penis. (Actually it turns out to be pretty amusing for all involved)
We named our new daughter Alexis.
Navydoc
ParticipantI don’t want to scare you SD transplant, but I hope they get the gender right on the sono. There’s nothing I hate more than delivering a baby girl with a penis. (Actually it turns out to be pretty amusing for all involved)
We named our new daughter Alexis.
Navydoc
ParticipantI don’t want to scare you SD transplant, but I hope they get the gender right on the sono. There’s nothing I hate more than delivering a baby girl with a penis. (Actually it turns out to be pretty amusing for all involved)
We named our new daughter Alexis.
Navydoc
ParticipantI don’t want to scare you SD transplant, but I hope they get the gender right on the sono. There’s nothing I hate more than delivering a baby girl with a penis. (Actually it turns out to be pretty amusing for all involved)
We named our new daughter Alexis.
Navydoc
ParticipantI don’t disagree with your points, I think I was responding to your comment that men are really only needed for the sperm. The data is overwhelming on the multiple parent households, and interestingly enough, outcomes typically are better even if one parent is “dysfunctional”, i.e alcoholic,etc.
The following article in Pediatrics summarizes the family situation nicely:
http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/cgi/content/full/111/6/S1/1541Also interesting for all you single childless men out there:
http://www.sciencedirect.com/science?_ob=ArticleURL&_udi=B6VBF-4BY3N4T-3&_user=10&_rdoc=1&_fmt=&_orig=search&_sort=d&view=c&_acct=C000050221&_version=1&_urlVersion=0&_userid=10&md5=00c7e88a4665b6c9c5f91bbcb1d04637Hope those links work. This is in response to Piggingtons “all other bring data” mantra.
So you see, marriage does in fact matter, but, as you say, it is certainly possible to raise a child singly if you have the resources, it is just more difficult. The concept of a single professional woman having a child independently is much less common than you might think.
By the way, slightly OT, want to hear something gross? Research has shown that the top 10% most sexually active males have sex with 50-60% of the females in a given population. This is true for all mammal species, including humans. No wonder I’m treating so many STD’s.
My post was intended to point out the importance of the family. You’re right, love is important, but so is the message to teach our children that it is important to make things work. For much of my early life my father was an opiate abuser and an alcoholic, and those years caused my mother a great deal of pain and hardship. But suddenly in 1977, when I was 12, he got his collective shit together and cleaned himself up. If my mother had caved during the addict years I and my 4 siblings would have done much more poorly than we have. I’m sure I wouldn’t have summoned the energy to put myself through school the way I did. Quite simply, my parents taught me perserverence, a lesson all too frequently ignored in todays society.
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