The new smart financial move is walking away

[outtamojo]

[quote=briansd1]

To me, happiness is what YOU want to do at any point in time. Sacrificing yourself for others or a greater cause is very lofty. In the end, you may reflect back and find happiness but you may actually suffer during.[/quote]

…and sometimes, what I want to do, is make someone ELSE happy- cause it makes ME happy : )

[briansd1]

[quote=AN] If it’s so grave, then how come 50% of American do it and many do it several times?
[/quote]

Because they don’t see any other way. It’s the herd mentality and pressure from parents, etc…

[quote=AN]
It’s not just the institution of marriage that has many ties that bind. That’s just life. Nothing in life stand in isolation. Everything is connected in some way.[/quote]

So why complicate life even more? Isn’t love strong enough?

[briansd1]

[quote=AN] If it’s so grave, then how come 50% of American do it and many do it several times?
[/quote]

Because they don’t see any other way. It’s the herd mentality and pressure from parents, etc…

[quote=AN]
It’s not just the institution of marriage that has many ties that bind. That’s just life. Nothing in life stand in isolation. Everything is connected in some way.[/quote]

So why complicate life even more? Isn’t love strong enough?

[briansd1]

[quote=AN] If it’s so grave, then how come 50% of American do it and many do it several times?
[/quote]

Because they don’t see any other way. It’s the herd mentality and pressure from parents, etc…

[quote=AN]
It’s not just the institution of marriage that has many ties that bind. That’s just life. Nothing in life stand in isolation. Everything is connected in some way.[/quote]

So why complicate life even more? Isn’t love strong enough?

[briansd1]

[quote=AN] If it’s so grave, then how come 50% of American do it and many do it several times?
[/quote]

Because they don’t see any other way. It’s the herd mentality and pressure from parents, etc…

[quote=AN]
It’s not just the institution of marriage that has many ties that bind. That’s just life. Nothing in life stand in isolation. Everything is connected in some way.[/quote]

So why complicate life even more? Isn’t love strong enough?

[briansd1]

[quote=AN] If it’s so grave, then how come 50% of American do it and many do it several times?
[/quote]

Because they don’t see any other way. It’s the herd mentality and pressure from parents, etc…

[quote=AN]
It’s not just the institution of marriage that has many ties that bind. That’s just life. Nothing in life stand in isolation. Everything is connected in some way.[/quote]

So why complicate life even more? Isn’t love strong enough?

[an]

[quote=briansd1]
So why complicate life even more? Isn’t love strong enough?[/quote]
By that argument, why not just be a hermit and not deal w/ people at all?

[an]

[quote=briansd1]
So why complicate life even more? Isn’t love strong enough?[/quote]
By that argument, why not just be a hermit and not deal w/ people at all?

[an]

[quote=briansd1]
So why complicate life even more? Isn’t love strong enough?[/quote]
By that argument, why not just be a hermit and not deal w/ people at all?

[an]

[quote=briansd1]
So why complicate life even more? Isn’t love strong enough?[/quote]
By that argument, why not just be a hermit and not deal w/ people at all?

[an]

[quote=briansd1]
So why complicate life even more? Isn’t love strong enough?[/quote]
By that argument, why not just be a hermit and not deal w/ people at all?

[CA renter]

Brian,

Those of us who are married have experienced both marriage and single life. We’ve seen both sides of the fence, which you have not. With all due respect, I’ll take the advice/opinions of someone with actual experience and insight over someone who’s had no experience with the subject at hand.

It’s fine to be selfish and stay single. None of us are trying to change you or your opinions. Why do you and dave feel the need to constantly criticize *our* choices and opinions? Why do you feel that we (who actually have experience and knowledge about marriage) are fooling ourselves because we don’t agree with you?

[CA renter]

Brian,

Those of us who are married have experienced both marriage and single life. We’ve seen both sides of the fence, which you have not. With all due respect, I’ll take the advice/opinions of someone with actual experience and insight over someone who’s had no experience with the subject at hand.

It’s fine to be selfish and stay single. None of us are trying to change you or your opinions. Why do you and dave feel the need to constantly criticize *our* choices and opinions? Why do you feel that we (who actually have experience and knowledge about marriage) are fooling ourselves because we don’t agree with you?

[CA renter]

Brian,

Those of us who are married have experienced both marriage and single life. We’ve seen both sides of the fence, which you have not. With all due respect, I’ll take the advice/opinions of someone with actual experience and insight over someone who’s had no experience with the subject at hand.

It’s fine to be selfish and stay single. None of us are trying to change you or your opinions. Why do you and dave feel the need to constantly criticize *our* choices and opinions? Why do you feel that we (who actually have experience and knowledge about marriage) are fooling ourselves because we don’t agree with you?

[CA renter]

Brian,

Those of us who are married have experienced both marriage and single life. We’ve seen both sides of the fence, which you have not. With all due respect, I’ll take the advice/opinions of someone with actual experience and insight over someone who’s had no experience with the subject at hand.

It’s fine to be selfish and stay single. None of us are trying to change you or your opinions. Why do you and dave feel the need to constantly criticize *our* choices and opinions? Why do you feel that we (who actually have experience and knowledge about marriage) are fooling ourselves because we don’t agree with you?

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