Should I stay or should I go?

[dontfollowtheherd]

Amen patientlywaiting. She rolled the dice and came up empty, along with a few million other people.

DJNinSD,, no one else has stood in your shoes. It's one thing to tell someone to do this or that. It's another to stand in their shoes and agonize over it every waking minute. You're a single mom trying to do the right thing for your daughter and doing it w/out any support from the ex and we're supposed to feel sorry for the institutions who knowingly looked away and inflated millions of liar-loans to stuff their personal bank accounts? These irresponsible greedy sob's? You think they are owed something? Talk about double standards. Paranoid gave you the best advice from the get-go and it's something you probably already know in your heart you have to do. Walk. Actually run, don't walk. Before you walk or run take SDrealtor’s advice and talk to the lender, an attorney and a CPA. They’ll most likely tell you to walk unless the lender can work out a lower-rate deal that SAVES you money. They don’t want another empty house on the market. Learn what you need to from this and get going on a sound business plan that will allow you to retire w/out having to work until your 70. All the best to you.

[svelte]

If you stay there will be trouble. If you go it will be double.

Sorry, somebody had to say it.

Mick Jones

[svelte]

If you stay there will be trouble. If you go it will be double.

Sorry, somebody had to say it.

Mick Jones

[svelte]

If you stay there will be trouble. If you go it will be double.

Sorry, somebody had to say it.

Mick Jones

[svelte]

If you stay there will be trouble. If you go it will be double.

Sorry, somebody had to say it.

Mick Jones

[svelte]

If you stay there will be trouble. If you go it will be double.

Sorry, somebody had to say it.

Mick Jones

[paramount]

Listen, and listen good…

Your 1st priority is to take care of your family – do what is best for your family within your means (and legal…) in this circumstance and you will be fine.

No house is worth the stress your probably under.

This is my 3 step plan for you given the stated goals above:

1. Take care of yourself so you can take care of your family – and Start listening to Joel Osteen (google it) if you don’t already – it’s free.

2. Consult with a foreclosure/financial counselor – most counties offer this service for free.

3. Do not turn to this forum for help – your probably already beating yourself up enough already you don’t need anymore of that…

[paramount]

Listen, and listen good…

Your 1st priority is to take care of your family – do what is best for your family within your means (and legal…) in this circumstance and you will be fine.

No house is worth the stress your probably under.

This is my 3 step plan for you given the stated goals above:

1. Take care of yourself so you can take care of your family – and Start listening to Joel Osteen (google it) if you don’t already – it’s free.

2. Consult with a foreclosure/financial counselor – most counties offer this service for free.

3. Do not turn to this forum for help – your probably already beating yourself up enough already you don’t need anymore of that…

[paramount]

Listen, and listen good…

Your 1st priority is to take care of your family – do what is best for your family within your means (and legal…) in this circumstance and you will be fine.

No house is worth the stress your probably under.

This is my 3 step plan for you given the stated goals above:

1. Take care of yourself so you can take care of your family – and Start listening to Joel Osteen (google it) if you don’t already – it’s free.

2. Consult with a foreclosure/financial counselor – most counties offer this service for free.

3. Do not turn to this forum for help – your probably already beating yourself up enough already you don’t need anymore of that…

[paramount]

Listen, and listen good…

Your 1st priority is to take care of your family – do what is best for your family within your means (and legal…) in this circumstance and you will be fine.

No house is worth the stress your probably under.

This is my 3 step plan for you given the stated goals above:

1. Take care of yourself so you can take care of your family – and Start listening to Joel Osteen (google it) if you don’t already – it’s free.

2. Consult with a foreclosure/financial counselor – most counties offer this service for free.

3. Do not turn to this forum for help – your probably already beating yourself up enough already you don’t need anymore of that…

[paramount]

Listen, and listen good…

Your 1st priority is to take care of your family – do what is best for your family within your means (and legal…) in this circumstance and you will be fine.

No house is worth the stress your probably under.

This is my 3 step plan for you given the stated goals above:

1. Take care of yourself so you can take care of your family – and Start listening to Joel Osteen (google it) if you don’t already – it’s free.

2. Consult with a foreclosure/financial counselor – most counties offer this service for free.

3. Do not turn to this forum for help – your probably already beating yourself up enough already you don’t need anymore of that…

[gdcox]

Graham

Unless I missed it, no one seems to be taking into account the tax deudctibility of the interest payments when comparing stay versus rent.

[gdcox]

Graham

Unless I missed it, no one seems to be taking into account the tax deudctibility of the interest payments when comparing stay versus rent.

[gdcox]

Graham

Unless I missed it, no one seems to be taking into account the tax deudctibility of the interest payments when comparing stay versus rent.

[gdcox]

Graham

Unless I missed it, no one seems to be taking into account the tax deudctibility of the interest payments when comparing stay versus rent.

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