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February 17, 2018 at 9:38 PM #22524February 18, 2018 at 11:53 AM #809337
FlyerInHi
GuestOh wow. That’s me. I’m am so zen now. My diet is dialed in and my desires for consumption are very limited although I still want a retirement condo in a foreign country so I can go as I please.
But “chill the fuck out” does not mean being passive. You can still be ambitious and achieve things. Live a zen life with grace and aplomb.
Bill Gates used to be a hard driving young man. He’s pretty zen now.
February 19, 2018 at 11:29 AM #809345scaredyclassic
Participantagree with conditions. don’t do anything small or big if you’re going to get all upset if it doesn’t work out.
February 23, 2018 at 9:48 PM #809400Escoguy
ParticipantI run a small multinational manufacturing company kind of as a hobby.
Don’t really need the money but it is gratifying to keep 30+ people employed, manufacture in California and export to the rest of the world a high quality product.
I can walk away anytime as it’s not “mine” and my livelihood doesn’t “depend on it”.
Still will try to travel more in coming years. Focus on being a good dad etc.
February 24, 2018 at 8:06 AM #809402njtosd
ParticipantIt helps to remind yourself that the world, in many ways, is improving … https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wsj.com/amp/articles/the-enlightenment-is-working-1518191343
February 24, 2018 at 10:00 AM #809403phaster
Participant[quote=njtosd]It helps to remind yourself that the world, in many ways, is improving …
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wsj.com/amp/articles/the-enlightenment-is-working-1518191343
[/quote]DISCLAIMER:
Please remember that past performance may not be indicative of future results. Different types of investments involve varying degrees of risk, and there can be no assurance that the future performance of any specific investment, investment strategy, or product made reference to directly or indirectly on prof piggington forums, will be profitable, equal any corresponding indicated historical performance level(s), or be suitable for your portfolio.
…just sayin’
February 24, 2018 at 10:23 AM #809404FlyerInHi
Guest[quote=njtosd]It helps to remind yourself that the world, in many ways, is improving … https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wsj.com/amp/articles/the-enlightenment-is-working-1518191343
[/quote]I so agree with Pinker. Humanity is indeed improving. It helps to be a world citizen and look at the big picture. But if one is in a community devastated by opioids, one may feel stagnant or depressed.
Also, many folks are jealous of others’ successes. For example, they may feel that dreamers succeeding is them failing. They don’t understand the concept of win-win.
Steven Pinker interview:
February 24, 2018 at 10:41 AM #809407scaredyclassic
Participantsome days I’m amazed my life turned out so well.
others, I feel like a failure.
same life, tho.
February 24, 2018 at 11:00 AM #809409njtosd
Participant[quote=phaster][quote=njtosd]It helps to remind yourself that the world, in many ways, is improving …
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wsj.com/amp/articles/the-enlightenment-is-working-1518191343
[/quote]DISCLAIMER:
Please remember that past performance may not be indicative of future results. Different types of investments involve varying degrees of risk, and there can be no assurance that the future performance of any specific investment, investment strategy, or product made reference to directly or indirectly on prof piggington forums, will be profitable, equal any corresponding indicated historical performance level(s), or be suitable for your portfolio.
…just sayin'[/quote]
“The nice part about being a pessimist is that you are constantly being either proven right or pleasantly surprised.” Unknown – but it sounds like Mark Twain
February 24, 2018 at 11:10 AM #809410njtosd
Participant[quote=scaredyclassic]some days I’m amazed my life turned out so well.
others, I feel like a failure.
same life, tho.[/quote]
I wouldn’t have believed this years ago, but I believe mood has a lot to do with minerals. Calcium and magnesium are both important in calming neurons back to an “at rest” state. As we get older, our ability to absorb minerals decreases. Wouldn’t it be a kicker if all this moodiness was as simple as a daily fluctuations in mineral intake?
February 24, 2018 at 12:00 PM #809414phaster
Participant[quote=njtosd][quote=phaster][quote=njtosd]It helps to remind yourself that the world, in many ways, is improving …
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wsj.com/amp/articles/the-enlightenment-is-working-1518191343
[/quote]DISCLAIMER:
Please remember that past performance may not be indicative of future results. Different types of investments involve varying degrees of risk, and there can be no assurance that the future performance of any specific investment, investment strategy, or product made reference to directly or indirectly on prof piggington forums, will be profitable, equal any corresponding indicated historical performance level(s), or be suitable for your portfolio.
…just sayin'[/quote]
“The nice part about being a pessimist is that you are constantly being either proven right or pleasantly surprised.” Unknown – but it sounds like Mark Twain[/quote]
yup its true,… if you set your “goals” low enough it is possible to exceed them
since you mentioned “being a pessimist” FWIW IMHO that “mindset” is self-defeating,… BUT having a sense of situation awareness along w/ a sense of humor unto itself does not guarantee success; however, it does improve the odds of “success”
not too long ago a friend from my “flying circus” days (basically a guy who flew for the USAF and now make a living being a 777 driver) sent me an article that seems applicable to the topic of mental outlook and outcome,…
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Why Fighter Pilots know that Quick Reactions are for Losers…I know to ‘respond’ and not to ‘react’.
Years of instructing in flying training and exposure to situations that require critical thinking in demanding environments, have taught me that to ‘react’, is to die.
I’ve seen it countless times in young, inexperienced aviators and normally it’s because they haven’t had a plan for the event they’ve encountered…
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/why-fighter-pilots-know-quick-reactions-losers-tim-davies/
[/quote]anyway, since I kinda make a part of my living playing the markets,… though the “disclaimer” was applicable and humorous
February 24, 2018 at 4:12 PM #809416flyer
ParticipantA sense of loving life is different for everyone. We’re just glad we’ve found what works for us, and hope others do the same.
February 25, 2018 at 8:11 AM #809421scaredyclassic
Participantwe are all periodically flooded with anxiety and a sense that we are wasting our lives. when I think if being chill, i think if those jolts being short-lived and less alarming.
February 26, 2018 at 10:31 AM #809424sdsurfer
ParticipantTo be present to those around me whether it be my kids, my wife, my neighbor or just sitting there by myself. It’s a work in progress for sure that I’m always honing.
February 26, 2018 at 11:02 AM #809425Anonymous
GuestPerfect my humblebrag.
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