Man-cession

[scaredyclassic]

well, she aint staying home.

And I aint staying home.

And we’ve got MASSIVE student loan payments on literally hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt that we’d default on if even one of us had stayed home.

and beginning professional careers.

i suppose the rational economic thing wouldve been to wait until right around, well, right now in our lives to have kids.

of course, then, we’d be having fertility problems and probablyw wouldnt have em anyway!

problem solved…

[scaredyclassic]

i was kinda kidding about the “bets left to prfessionals’ comment. but rationally, economically, we’d be poor today if we’d sacrified work for child care. credit would be shot. careers way back. earnings lower. less able to pay for stuff now. i think just crunching numbers, day care was the way to go, esp. since she didn’t want to be with them, and men, by their very nature, on balance are not intended by the unvierse to be with children all day.

reaosnable minds may differ, but i think it’s true. you wont persuade me otherwise with anecdotes about great stay at home dads…

I acknowledge this is a hot-button issue for me and I am not completely rational about it. I feel pure animal fear when i hear it. i think this is one of those areas where if you ahven’t personally experienced chaos, it’s difficult to get beyond the intellectual arguemtns and feel how stressed out a couple babies with no plan what to do with them can be.

and yeha, i guess it’s all my fault.

but i blame her for being so cute and persuasive about the virtues of family…

resist that urge to reproduce and buy a house, boys! unless you are loaded and she just loes staying home withkids..

[scaredyclassic]

i was kinda kidding about the “bets left to prfessionals’ comment. but rationally, economically, we’d be poor today if we’d sacrified work for child care. credit would be shot. careers way back. earnings lower. less able to pay for stuff now. i think just crunching numbers, day care was the way to go, esp. since she didn’t want to be with them, and men, by their very nature, on balance are not intended by the unvierse to be with children all day.

reaosnable minds may differ, but i think it’s true. you wont persuade me otherwise with anecdotes about great stay at home dads…

I acknowledge this is a hot-button issue for me and I am not completely rational about it. I feel pure animal fear when i hear it. i think this is one of those areas where if you ahven’t personally experienced chaos, it’s difficult to get beyond the intellectual arguemtns and feel how stressed out a couple babies with no plan what to do with them can be.

and yeha, i guess it’s all my fault.

but i blame her for being so cute and persuasive about the virtues of family…

resist that urge to reproduce and buy a house, boys! unless you are loaded and she just loes staying home withkids..

[scaredyclassic]

i was kinda kidding about the “bets left to prfessionals’ comment. but rationally, economically, we’d be poor today if we’d sacrified work for child care. credit would be shot. careers way back. earnings lower. less able to pay for stuff now. i think just crunching numbers, day care was the way to go, esp. since she didn’t want to be with them, and men, by their very nature, on balance are not intended by the unvierse to be with children all day.

reaosnable minds may differ, but i think it’s true. you wont persuade me otherwise with anecdotes about great stay at home dads…

I acknowledge this is a hot-button issue for me and I am not completely rational about it. I feel pure animal fear when i hear it. i think this is one of those areas where if you ahven’t personally experienced chaos, it’s difficult to get beyond the intellectual arguemtns and feel how stressed out a couple babies with no plan what to do with them can be.

and yeha, i guess it’s all my fault.

but i blame her for being so cute and persuasive about the virtues of family…

resist that urge to reproduce and buy a house, boys! unless you are loaded and she just loes staying home withkids..

[scaredyclassic]

i was kinda kidding about the “bets left to prfessionals’ comment. but rationally, economically, we’d be poor today if we’d sacrified work for child care. credit would be shot. careers way back. earnings lower. less able to pay for stuff now. i think just crunching numbers, day care was the way to go, esp. since she didn’t want to be with them, and men, by their very nature, on balance are not intended by the unvierse to be with children all day.

reaosnable minds may differ, but i think it’s true. you wont persuade me otherwise with anecdotes about great stay at home dads…

I acknowledge this is a hot-button issue for me and I am not completely rational about it. I feel pure animal fear when i hear it. i think this is one of those areas where if you ahven’t personally experienced chaos, it’s difficult to get beyond the intellectual arguemtns and feel how stressed out a couple babies with no plan what to do with them can be.

and yeha, i guess it’s all my fault.

but i blame her for being so cute and persuasive about the virtues of family…

resist that urge to reproduce and buy a house, boys! unless you are loaded and she just loes staying home withkids..

[scaredyclassic]

i was kinda kidding about the “bets left to prfessionals’ comment. but rationally, economically, we’d be poor today if we’d sacrified work for child care. credit would be shot. careers way back. earnings lower. less able to pay for stuff now. i think just crunching numbers, day care was the way to go, esp. since she didn’t want to be with them, and men, by their very nature, on balance are not intended by the unvierse to be with children all day.

reaosnable minds may differ, but i think it’s true. you wont persuade me otherwise with anecdotes about great stay at home dads…

I acknowledge this is a hot-button issue for me and I am not completely rational about it. I feel pure animal fear when i hear it. i think this is one of those areas where if you ahven’t personally experienced chaos, it’s difficult to get beyond the intellectual arguemtns and feel how stressed out a couple babies with no plan what to do with them can be.

and yeha, i guess it’s all my fault.

but i blame her for being so cute and persuasive about the virtues of family…

resist that urge to reproduce and buy a house, boys! unless you are loaded and she just loes staying home withkids..

[NotCranky]

“Best left to professionals” was a good joke then… and also could be true.However, I do my uncredentialed best.

There is no absolute course to take, or people who could stick to it if there were one.
You said a lot of nice things with regards to your kids, I bet they are lucky to have you.

[NotCranky]

“Best left to professionals” was a good joke then… and also could be true.However, I do my uncredentialed best.

There is no absolute course to take, or people who could stick to it if there were one.
You said a lot of nice things with regards to your kids, I bet they are lucky to have you.

[NotCranky]

“Best left to professionals” was a good joke then… and also could be true.However, I do my uncredentialed best.

There is no absolute course to take, or people who could stick to it if there were one.
You said a lot of nice things with regards to your kids, I bet they are lucky to have you.

[NotCranky]

“Best left to professionals” was a good joke then… and also could be true.However, I do my uncredentialed best.

There is no absolute course to take, or people who could stick to it if there were one.
You said a lot of nice things with regards to your kids, I bet they are lucky to have you.

[NotCranky]

“Best left to professionals” was a good joke then… and also could be true.However, I do my uncredentialed best.

There is no absolute course to take, or people who could stick to it if there were one.
You said a lot of nice things with regards to your kids, I bet they are lucky to have you.

[scaredyclassic]

i do feel like young guys get sold a bill of goods in society. we need to go back to arranged marraiges with family support. young people really cannot support themselves and afamily early on. arranged marriages. no reproducing without a care plan in place. if one party will stay at home, they have to sign binding agreements that they will do so. love stinks. we need some govt regulation

[scaredyclassic]

i do feel like young guys get sold a bill of goods in society. we need to go back to arranged marraiges with family support. young people really cannot support themselves and afamily early on. arranged marriages. no reproducing without a care plan in place. if one party will stay at home, they have to sign binding agreements that they will do so. love stinks. we need some govt regulation

[scaredyclassic]

i do feel like young guys get sold a bill of goods in society. we need to go back to arranged marraiges with family support. young people really cannot support themselves and afamily early on. arranged marriages. no reproducing without a care plan in place. if one party will stay at home, they have to sign binding agreements that they will do so. love stinks. we need some govt regulation

[scaredyclassic]

i do feel like young guys get sold a bill of goods in society. we need to go back to arranged marraiges with family support. young people really cannot support themselves and afamily early on. arranged marriages. no reproducing without a care plan in place. if one party will stay at home, they have to sign binding agreements that they will do so. love stinks. we need some govt regulation

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