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January 6, 2009 at 12:26 AM #325180January 6, 2009 at 7:34 AM #324726LAAFTERHOURSParticipant
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That’s very true π But we will be patient at least another year, rather than doing something risky. We are renting in a place with ultra-short commute, in UTC, and if we buy a house (in PQ, CMR), it will definitely mean a significantly longer commute. So with that in mind, we find the patience to wait (we HATE commuting in the rush hours!).Thanks!!![/quote]
PQ and CMR to UTC is an easy commute – maybe 20 minutes. I commute from 4s to the 5/56 intersect in 20 minutes and most of it is backroads. Even at 5/530/6 pm when traffic is stopped on the 56 from El camino east three exits, its 20 minutes. Bypass from UTC would miss all the traffic.
January 6, 2009 at 7:34 AM #325061LAAFTERHOURSParticipant[quote=Scarlett]
That’s very true π But we will be patient at least another year, rather than doing something risky. We are renting in a place with ultra-short commute, in UTC, and if we buy a house (in PQ, CMR), it will definitely mean a significantly longer commute. So with that in mind, we find the patience to wait (we HATE commuting in the rush hours!).Thanks!!![/quote]
PQ and CMR to UTC is an easy commute – maybe 20 minutes. I commute from 4s to the 5/56 intersect in 20 minutes and most of it is backroads. Even at 5/530/6 pm when traffic is stopped on the 56 from El camino east three exits, its 20 minutes. Bypass from UTC would miss all the traffic.
January 6, 2009 at 7:34 AM #325132LAAFTERHOURSParticipant[quote=Scarlett]
That’s very true π But we will be patient at least another year, rather than doing something risky. We are renting in a place with ultra-short commute, in UTC, and if we buy a house (in PQ, CMR), it will definitely mean a significantly longer commute. So with that in mind, we find the patience to wait (we HATE commuting in the rush hours!).Thanks!!![/quote]
PQ and CMR to UTC is an easy commute – maybe 20 minutes. I commute from 4s to the 5/56 intersect in 20 minutes and most of it is backroads. Even at 5/530/6 pm when traffic is stopped on the 56 from El camino east three exits, its 20 minutes. Bypass from UTC would miss all the traffic.
January 6, 2009 at 7:34 AM #325146LAAFTERHOURSParticipant[quote=Scarlett]
That’s very true π But we will be patient at least another year, rather than doing something risky. We are renting in a place with ultra-short commute, in UTC, and if we buy a house (in PQ, CMR), it will definitely mean a significantly longer commute. So with that in mind, we find the patience to wait (we HATE commuting in the rush hours!).Thanks!!![/quote]
PQ and CMR to UTC is an easy commute – maybe 20 minutes. I commute from 4s to the 5/56 intersect in 20 minutes and most of it is backroads. Even at 5/530/6 pm when traffic is stopped on the 56 from El camino east three exits, its 20 minutes. Bypass from UTC would miss all the traffic.
January 6, 2009 at 7:34 AM #325230LAAFTERHOURSParticipant[quote=Scarlett]
That’s very true π But we will be patient at least another year, rather than doing something risky. We are renting in a place with ultra-short commute, in UTC, and if we buy a house (in PQ, CMR), it will definitely mean a significantly longer commute. So with that in mind, we find the patience to wait (we HATE commuting in the rush hours!).Thanks!!![/quote]
PQ and CMR to UTC is an easy commute – maybe 20 minutes. I commute from 4s to the 5/56 intersect in 20 minutes and most of it is backroads. Even at 5/530/6 pm when traffic is stopped on the 56 from El camino east three exits, its 20 minutes. Bypass from UTC would miss all the traffic.
January 6, 2009 at 9:48 AM #324816sdrealtorParticipantHLS, I didnt say a larger down means a stronger buyer, I said it means a perceived stronger buyer. We dont have access to the same information on a buyers qualifications as a lender does. Furthermore, it may come as a surprise to you, but most mortgage brokers lie to us on a daily basis. Yes, they lie over and over again. We can only make decisions on information we can verify ourselves and if that makes us ignorant to some extent so be it. That is why large down payments rule the day. We can verify the money is there via bank statements. A piece of paper from you or any other pre-approval letter is worthless to me unless I have a solid history and experience with you that I can base trust upon. That is why direct lender letters are perceived to be better. Personally, you sound on the ball and I’d love to work with you. You seem to carry yourself much as I do. You’ll be hearing from me. We just have to have confidentiality in place because, I’m not a face on the shopping cart guy. I prize my personal life and privacy.
As for the buyers in escrow too long, they arent my buyers as I am the lisitng agent. If I could push them to a better lender like you, I would.
Scarlet doesnt need to pay more, she needs a good agent. In choosing which buyer to go with, the agent who represents them and how they keep in contact with me through the short sale approval process is the single most important factor to me beyond a fair price and solidly qualified buyer. I never tell a buyer that I represent with a smaller down payment that they have to pay more. I tell them they might get trumped by another buyer with more cash and there is probably little they can do to overcome that and its OK. Make an offer you are comfortable with and stick with it. If not this house, there will be another.
January 6, 2009 at 9:48 AM #325152sdrealtorParticipantHLS, I didnt say a larger down means a stronger buyer, I said it means a perceived stronger buyer. We dont have access to the same information on a buyers qualifications as a lender does. Furthermore, it may come as a surprise to you, but most mortgage brokers lie to us on a daily basis. Yes, they lie over and over again. We can only make decisions on information we can verify ourselves and if that makes us ignorant to some extent so be it. That is why large down payments rule the day. We can verify the money is there via bank statements. A piece of paper from you or any other pre-approval letter is worthless to me unless I have a solid history and experience with you that I can base trust upon. That is why direct lender letters are perceived to be better. Personally, you sound on the ball and I’d love to work with you. You seem to carry yourself much as I do. You’ll be hearing from me. We just have to have confidentiality in place because, I’m not a face on the shopping cart guy. I prize my personal life and privacy.
As for the buyers in escrow too long, they arent my buyers as I am the lisitng agent. If I could push them to a better lender like you, I would.
Scarlet doesnt need to pay more, she needs a good agent. In choosing which buyer to go with, the agent who represents them and how they keep in contact with me through the short sale approval process is the single most important factor to me beyond a fair price and solidly qualified buyer. I never tell a buyer that I represent with a smaller down payment that they have to pay more. I tell them they might get trumped by another buyer with more cash and there is probably little they can do to overcome that and its OK. Make an offer you are comfortable with and stick with it. If not this house, there will be another.
January 6, 2009 at 9:48 AM #325221sdrealtorParticipantHLS, I didnt say a larger down means a stronger buyer, I said it means a perceived stronger buyer. We dont have access to the same information on a buyers qualifications as a lender does. Furthermore, it may come as a surprise to you, but most mortgage brokers lie to us on a daily basis. Yes, they lie over and over again. We can only make decisions on information we can verify ourselves and if that makes us ignorant to some extent so be it. That is why large down payments rule the day. We can verify the money is there via bank statements. A piece of paper from you or any other pre-approval letter is worthless to me unless I have a solid history and experience with you that I can base trust upon. That is why direct lender letters are perceived to be better. Personally, you sound on the ball and I’d love to work with you. You seem to carry yourself much as I do. You’ll be hearing from me. We just have to have confidentiality in place because, I’m not a face on the shopping cart guy. I prize my personal life and privacy.
As for the buyers in escrow too long, they arent my buyers as I am the lisitng agent. If I could push them to a better lender like you, I would.
Scarlet doesnt need to pay more, she needs a good agent. In choosing which buyer to go with, the agent who represents them and how they keep in contact with me through the short sale approval process is the single most important factor to me beyond a fair price and solidly qualified buyer. I never tell a buyer that I represent with a smaller down payment that they have to pay more. I tell them they might get trumped by another buyer with more cash and there is probably little they can do to overcome that and its OK. Make an offer you are comfortable with and stick with it. If not this house, there will be another.
January 6, 2009 at 9:48 AM #325237sdrealtorParticipantHLS, I didnt say a larger down means a stronger buyer, I said it means a perceived stronger buyer. We dont have access to the same information on a buyers qualifications as a lender does. Furthermore, it may come as a surprise to you, but most mortgage brokers lie to us on a daily basis. Yes, they lie over and over again. We can only make decisions on information we can verify ourselves and if that makes us ignorant to some extent so be it. That is why large down payments rule the day. We can verify the money is there via bank statements. A piece of paper from you or any other pre-approval letter is worthless to me unless I have a solid history and experience with you that I can base trust upon. That is why direct lender letters are perceived to be better. Personally, you sound on the ball and I’d love to work with you. You seem to carry yourself much as I do. You’ll be hearing from me. We just have to have confidentiality in place because, I’m not a face on the shopping cart guy. I prize my personal life and privacy.
As for the buyers in escrow too long, they arent my buyers as I am the lisitng agent. If I could push them to a better lender like you, I would.
Scarlet doesnt need to pay more, she needs a good agent. In choosing which buyer to go with, the agent who represents them and how they keep in contact with me through the short sale approval process is the single most important factor to me beyond a fair price and solidly qualified buyer. I never tell a buyer that I represent with a smaller down payment that they have to pay more. I tell them they might get trumped by another buyer with more cash and there is probably little they can do to overcome that and its OK. Make an offer you are comfortable with and stick with it. If not this house, there will be another.
January 6, 2009 at 9:48 AM #325320sdrealtorParticipantHLS, I didnt say a larger down means a stronger buyer, I said it means a perceived stronger buyer. We dont have access to the same information on a buyers qualifications as a lender does. Furthermore, it may come as a surprise to you, but most mortgage brokers lie to us on a daily basis. Yes, they lie over and over again. We can only make decisions on information we can verify ourselves and if that makes us ignorant to some extent so be it. That is why large down payments rule the day. We can verify the money is there via bank statements. A piece of paper from you or any other pre-approval letter is worthless to me unless I have a solid history and experience with you that I can base trust upon. That is why direct lender letters are perceived to be better. Personally, you sound on the ball and I’d love to work with you. You seem to carry yourself much as I do. You’ll be hearing from me. We just have to have confidentiality in place because, I’m not a face on the shopping cart guy. I prize my personal life and privacy.
As for the buyers in escrow too long, they arent my buyers as I am the lisitng agent. If I could push them to a better lender like you, I would.
Scarlet doesnt need to pay more, she needs a good agent. In choosing which buyer to go with, the agent who represents them and how they keep in contact with me through the short sale approval process is the single most important factor to me beyond a fair price and solidly qualified buyer. I never tell a buyer that I represent with a smaller down payment that they have to pay more. I tell them they might get trumped by another buyer with more cash and there is probably little they can do to overcome that and its OK. Make an offer you are comfortable with and stick with it. If not this house, there will be another.
January 6, 2009 at 10:45 AM #324826HLSParticipantsdr,,
Why do people lie ?
Nothing to gain from it.I respect you and know that you know your stuff.
It’s difficult to separate sarcasm, humor, etc on a blog….I agree with you.
In reality, a letter from direct lender is no better than one from me. Until the loan is underwritten and approved, it’s only an application.
One thing the direct lender might have over me is that they might get away with doing something illegal and getting away with it.
Confidentiality is guaranteed, don’t worry.
In my opinion, a REALTOR shoudn’t be involved in a buyer’s finances or ever see their bank statements or personal information.
They only need to know that the buyer is approved for their offer, without knowing the upper limits of what they qualify for.That is confidential between me and my client.
People don’t get this when they shop by rate alone.You know how to reach me if you want to check with me. I’d be honored to have the opportunity. HLS
January 6, 2009 at 10:45 AM #325163HLSParticipantsdr,,
Why do people lie ?
Nothing to gain from it.I respect you and know that you know your stuff.
It’s difficult to separate sarcasm, humor, etc on a blog….I agree with you.
In reality, a letter from direct lender is no better than one from me. Until the loan is underwritten and approved, it’s only an application.
One thing the direct lender might have over me is that they might get away with doing something illegal and getting away with it.
Confidentiality is guaranteed, don’t worry.
In my opinion, a REALTOR shoudn’t be involved in a buyer’s finances or ever see their bank statements or personal information.
They only need to know that the buyer is approved for their offer, without knowing the upper limits of what they qualify for.That is confidential between me and my client.
People don’t get this when they shop by rate alone.You know how to reach me if you want to check with me. I’d be honored to have the opportunity. HLS
January 6, 2009 at 10:45 AM #325231HLSParticipantsdr,,
Why do people lie ?
Nothing to gain from it.I respect you and know that you know your stuff.
It’s difficult to separate sarcasm, humor, etc on a blog….I agree with you.
In reality, a letter from direct lender is no better than one from me. Until the loan is underwritten and approved, it’s only an application.
One thing the direct lender might have over me is that they might get away with doing something illegal and getting away with it.
Confidentiality is guaranteed, don’t worry.
In my opinion, a REALTOR shoudn’t be involved in a buyer’s finances or ever see their bank statements or personal information.
They only need to know that the buyer is approved for their offer, without knowing the upper limits of what they qualify for.That is confidential between me and my client.
People don’t get this when they shop by rate alone.You know how to reach me if you want to check with me. I’d be honored to have the opportunity. HLS
January 6, 2009 at 10:45 AM #325248HLSParticipantsdr,,
Why do people lie ?
Nothing to gain from it.I respect you and know that you know your stuff.
It’s difficult to separate sarcasm, humor, etc on a blog….I agree with you.
In reality, a letter from direct lender is no better than one from me. Until the loan is underwritten and approved, it’s only an application.
One thing the direct lender might have over me is that they might get away with doing something illegal and getting away with it.
Confidentiality is guaranteed, don’t worry.
In my opinion, a REALTOR shoudn’t be involved in a buyer’s finances or ever see their bank statements or personal information.
They only need to know that the buyer is approved for their offer, without knowing the upper limits of what they qualify for.That is confidential between me and my client.
People don’t get this when they shop by rate alone.You know how to reach me if you want to check with me. I’d be honored to have the opportunity. HLS
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