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[Casca]

Why is it that women react so viciously when a man simply states the facts of life vis marriage in our culture? The truth is that when you slide that ring on her finger, you’ve just signed over a tremendous amount of decision making power over your future and your wealth, without benefit of legal counsel. I know many men who pay alimony. I have yet to meet a woman who does.

They say you never really know a woman until you meet her in court. “Asshole” is a mighty nasty word for a benefactor who sends you a check every month.

[Allan from Fallbrook]

Casca: There will always be a large amount of vitriol surrounding this subject, but I agree wholeheartedly that once you take the plunge, you are on the hook financially, and you had better be damn sure about your decision. If you haven’t been through the wringer (divorce) before, it pays to heed the advice of those that have. I’ve gone through one before, and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. The irony is that it was fairly amicable. Fairly being something of a relative term, of course.

Hey, Marion. What’s shaking?

[Allan from Fallbrook]

Casca: There will always be a large amount of vitriol surrounding this subject, but I agree wholeheartedly that once you take the plunge, you are on the hook financially, and you had better be damn sure about your decision. If you haven’t been through the wringer (divorce) before, it pays to heed the advice of those that have. I’ve gone through one before, and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. The irony is that it was fairly amicable. Fairly being something of a relative term, of course.

Hey, Marion. What’s shaking?

[Allan from Fallbrook]

Casca: There will always be a large amount of vitriol surrounding this subject, but I agree wholeheartedly that once you take the plunge, you are on the hook financially, and you had better be damn sure about your decision. If you haven’t been through the wringer (divorce) before, it pays to heed the advice of those that have. I’ve gone through one before, and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. The irony is that it was fairly amicable. Fairly being something of a relative term, of course.

Hey, Marion. What’s shaking?

[Allan from Fallbrook]

Casca: There will always be a large amount of vitriol surrounding this subject, but I agree wholeheartedly that once you take the plunge, you are on the hook financially, and you had better be damn sure about your decision. If you haven’t been through the wringer (divorce) before, it pays to heed the advice of those that have. I’ve gone through one before, and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. The irony is that it was fairly amicable. Fairly being something of a relative term, of course.

Hey, Marion. What’s shaking?

[Allan from Fallbrook]

Casca: There will always be a large amount of vitriol surrounding this subject, but I agree wholeheartedly that once you take the plunge, you are on the hook financially, and you had better be damn sure about your decision. If you haven’t been through the wringer (divorce) before, it pays to heed the advice of those that have. I’ve gone through one before, and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. The irony is that it was fairly amicable. Fairly being something of a relative term, of course.

Hey, Marion. What’s shaking?

[Anonymous]

Submitted by Casca on February 2, 2008 – 5:12pm.

The truth is that when you slide that ring on her finger, you’ve just signed over a tremendous amount of decision making power over your future and your wealth, without benefit of legal counsel.

You act like this only applies to men. Well, it works both ways, buddy. Regardless of gender, there will be individuals out there who are interested in you for what they can get out of it. I’m a woman, obviously, and I don’t want to end up with some leech who sucks the blood out of me either.

I know many men who pay alimony. I have yet to meet a woman who does.

Well, I know one. She’s a successful lawyer. Although her ex-husband also has a law degree, he’s a deadbeat parasite. He receives a monthly alimony check from her.

“Asshole” is a mighty nasty word for a benefactor who sends you a check every month.

I can’t believe what I’m hearing. I guess “bitch” isn’t so nasty when talking about the women who raise children you men sired from your lustful loins.

[Anonymous]

Submitted by Casca on February 2, 2008 – 5:12pm.

The truth is that when you slide that ring on her finger, you’ve just signed over a tremendous amount of decision making power over your future and your wealth, without benefit of legal counsel.

You act like this only applies to men. Well, it works both ways, buddy. Regardless of gender, there will be individuals out there who are interested in you for what they can get out of it. I’m a woman, obviously, and I don’t want to end up with some leech who sucks the blood out of me either.

I know many men who pay alimony. I have yet to meet a woman who does.

Well, I know one. She’s a successful lawyer. Although her ex-husband also has a law degree, he’s a deadbeat parasite. He receives a monthly alimony check from her.

“Asshole” is a mighty nasty word for a benefactor who sends you a check every month.

I can’t believe what I’m hearing. I guess “bitch” isn’t so nasty when talking about the women who raise children you men sired from your lustful loins.

[Anonymous]

Submitted by Casca on February 2, 2008 – 5:12pm.

The truth is that when you slide that ring on her finger, you’ve just signed over a tremendous amount of decision making power over your future and your wealth, without benefit of legal counsel.

You act like this only applies to men. Well, it works both ways, buddy. Regardless of gender, there will be individuals out there who are interested in you for what they can get out of it. I’m a woman, obviously, and I don’t want to end up with some leech who sucks the blood out of me either.

I know many men who pay alimony. I have yet to meet a woman who does.

Well, I know one. She’s a successful lawyer. Although her ex-husband also has a law degree, he’s a deadbeat parasite. He receives a monthly alimony check from her.

“Asshole” is a mighty nasty word for a benefactor who sends you a check every month.

I can’t believe what I’m hearing. I guess “bitch” isn’t so nasty when talking about the women who raise children you men sired from your lustful loins.

[Anonymous]

Submitted by Casca on February 2, 2008 – 5:12pm.

The truth is that when you slide that ring on her finger, you’ve just signed over a tremendous amount of decision making power over your future and your wealth, without benefit of legal counsel.

You act like this only applies to men. Well, it works both ways, buddy. Regardless of gender, there will be individuals out there who are interested in you for what they can get out of it. I’m a woman, obviously, and I don’t want to end up with some leech who sucks the blood out of me either.

I know many men who pay alimony. I have yet to meet a woman who does.

Well, I know one. She’s a successful lawyer. Although her ex-husband also has a law degree, he’s a deadbeat parasite. He receives a monthly alimony check from her.

“Asshole” is a mighty nasty word for a benefactor who sends you a check every month.

I can’t believe what I’m hearing. I guess “bitch” isn’t so nasty when talking about the women who raise children you men sired from your lustful loins.

[Anonymous]

Submitted by Casca on February 2, 2008 – 5:12pm.

The truth is that when you slide that ring on her finger, you’ve just signed over a tremendous amount of decision making power over your future and your wealth, without benefit of legal counsel.

You act like this only applies to men. Well, it works both ways, buddy. Regardless of gender, there will be individuals out there who are interested in you for what they can get out of it. I’m a woman, obviously, and I don’t want to end up with some leech who sucks the blood out of me either.

I know many men who pay alimony. I have yet to meet a woman who does.

Well, I know one. She’s a successful lawyer. Although her ex-husband also has a law degree, he’s a deadbeat parasite. He receives a monthly alimony check from her.

“Asshole” is a mighty nasty word for a benefactor who sends you a check every month.

I can’t believe what I’m hearing. I guess “bitch” isn’t so nasty when talking about the women who raise children you men sired from your lustful loins.

[Allan from Fallbrook]

marion: I think we’re getting somewhat off topic here. You’re treating this as an ad hominem attack on all women, and I don’t think that is what anyone is saying. Everyone has horror stories about men and women and relationships (especially marriages) gone bad, and the resultant damage.

Getting back on point, the advice offered here was to be careful, and make sure you know what you are getting in to. Dude in question is asking for advice on some fairly weighty issues, and advising caution on anything that could potentially cost you 50% of everything is totally fair.

[Allan from Fallbrook]

marion: I think we’re getting somewhat off topic here. You’re treating this as an ad hominem attack on all women, and I don’t think that is what anyone is saying. Everyone has horror stories about men and women and relationships (especially marriages) gone bad, and the resultant damage.

Getting back on point, the advice offered here was to be careful, and make sure you know what you are getting in to. Dude in question is asking for advice on some fairly weighty issues, and advising caution on anything that could potentially cost you 50% of everything is totally fair.

[Allan from Fallbrook]

marion: I think we’re getting somewhat off topic here. You’re treating this as an ad hominem attack on all women, and I don’t think that is what anyone is saying. Everyone has horror stories about men and women and relationships (especially marriages) gone bad, and the resultant damage.

Getting back on point, the advice offered here was to be careful, and make sure you know what you are getting in to. Dude in question is asking for advice on some fairly weighty issues, and advising caution on anything that could potentially cost you 50% of everything is totally fair.

[Allan from Fallbrook]

marion: I think we’re getting somewhat off topic here. You’re treating this as an ad hominem attack on all women, and I don’t think that is what anyone is saying. Everyone has horror stories about men and women and relationships (especially marriages) gone bad, and the resultant damage.

Getting back on point, the advice offered here was to be careful, and make sure you know what you are getting in to. Dude in question is asking for advice on some fairly weighty issues, and advising caution on anything that could potentially cost you 50% of everything is totally fair.

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