California Doomsayers….

[scaredyclassic]

[quote=flyer]Oh yeah, they both took care of that issue. We’re glad our daughter listened to us on that, since her real estate and other family holdings are considerable, as are his, from various sources. You always hope for the best in every marriage, but you never really know what might happen, so better safe than sorry. We’ve suggested prenups to all of our kids.[/quote]

a prenup should generally only be recommended where one’s childs income is greater than the target. Since media moguls generally make more than physicians, the correct advice likely is no prenup. heck the doctor’s income barely covers the car, driver, and occasional helicopter trip. But then again, consult one’s own high powered lawyer for actual advice.

[Coronita]

[quote=scaredyclassic][quote=flyer]Oh yeah, they both took care of that issue. We’re glad our daughter listened to us on that, since her real estate and other family holdings are considerable, as are his, from various sources. You always hope for the best in every marriage, but you never really know what might happen, so better safe than sorry. We’ve suggested prenups to all of our kids.[/quote]

a prenup should generally only be recommended where one’s childs income is greater than the target. Since media moguls generally make more than physicians, the correct advice likely is no prenup. heck the doctor’s income barely covers the car, driver, and occasional helicopter trip. But then again, consult one’s own high powered lawyer for actual advice.[/quote]

Or just tell your kids to marry up and not marry down, that would be easier. Why would someone with “considerable real estate holding” actually want to marry significantly downward where a prenup would be necessary….just saying..

[scaredyclassic]

[quote=Coronita][quote=scaredyclassic][quote=flyer]Oh yeah, they both took care of that issue. We’re glad our daughter listened to us on that, since her real estate and other family holdings are considerable, as are his, from various sources. You always hope for the best in every marriage, but you never really know what might happen, so better safe than sorry. We’ve suggested prenups to all of our kids.[/quote]

a prenup should generally only be recommended where one’s childs income is greater than the target. Since media moguls generally make more than physicians, the correct advice likely is no prenup. heck the doctor’s income barely covers the car, driver, and occasional helicopter trip. But then again, consult one’s own high powered lawyer for actual advice.[/quote]

Or just tell your kids to marry up and not marry down, that would be easier. Why would someone with “considerable real estate holding” actually want to marry significantly downward where a prenup would be necessary….just saying..[/quote]

Wait, did flyer marry up or down? Was he the sucker or the genius?

[The-Shoveler]

Not trying to be sexist, but it is fairly unusual for a woman to marry down.

But times are changing, Going to get harder and harder for a Woman to marry up.

Maybe that’s a good thing

[an]

[quote=Coronita]Or just tell your kids to marry up and not marry down, that would be easier. Why would someone with “considerable real estate holding” actually want to marry significantly downward where a prenup would be necessary….just saying..[/quote]
It just reminds me of Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey.

[Coronita]

[quote=The-Shoveler]Not trying to be sexist, but it is fairly unusual for a woman to marry down.

But times are changing, Going to get harder and harder for a Woman to marry up.

Maybe that’s a good thing[/quote]

Actually, not true. For Chinese from China, there’s plenty of cases that the woman wears the pants of the household. That’s one good thing that Communist China killed.

It quite common that the man has to go work comes home and cooks and takes care of the kids. The wife goes to work as a Director and sucks at taking care of the kids.

But what I would consider is at the bare minimum marriage of equal economics AND/OR equal spending habits. People don’t think it’s a big deal but it is…People get into fights all the time over money for the stupidest reason, and the best way to avoid it is both people share the same view and have similar spending habits.

Then it becomes a merger of equal assets versus a hostile takeover where one party is simply resting and vesting until he/she puts in his/her time and then quits after fully vested (7 years)….ha ha..

[Coronita]

[quote=an][quote=Coronita]Or just tell your kids to marry up and not marry down, that would be easier. Why would someone with “considerable real estate holding” actually want to marry significantly downward where a prenup would be necessary….just saying..[/quote]
It just reminds me of Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey.[/quote]

Well, like I said. I have some pretty weird friends of friends.

One colleague is a surgeon in late 50ies who married a trophy spouse completely at the other extreme roughly in 30ies. After 3 kids, wife files for divorce and total horndog. While married, asked spouse for a 4-some. I shit u not. The sad part is person is total status symbol driven.. Like all she does is talk about design brand, design this designer now. She’s really annoying. Every single time we see her, both of us wants to drop kick her.

See, what I find very interesting is the people who are really wealthy in my sphere of friends are really cool people and don’t give a flying fck about all these status things. It’s the wannabe wealthy that feel like they constantly have to remind people about the money they have and status. Really ghetto and pretty pathetic. And the most boring ass parties you can possibly attend. I guess that’s why the spouse was into 4-somes, lol.

[flyer]

Scaredy, One reason my daughter wanted a prenup was for the following: to “Keep Family Property in the Family” per
“If you have a family heirloom, family business, even a future inheritance, or other properties that you want to keep, you can specify this in your prenup.” He has a similar situation with family holdings, along with their careers.

Anyway, hopefully none of this will be a necessity, and they will go on to continue to be as happy as my wife and I have been.

[Coronita]

So I wonder how this marrying up or down works for a famous person like Evelyn Lin.

I mean she’s pretty successful… How does this work?

[flyer]

See hypergamy and hypogamy.

“In hypergamy, the woman is typically of lower social status than the man; hypogamy is the opposite. isogamy designates marriage between social equals. See also marriage systems.”

[Coronita]

It doesn’t answer the question. What about Evelyn Lynn? Is that Pornogramy?

[scaredyclassic]

my wife is a sapiosexual.

[flyer]

Excellent.

[sdduuuude]

In god we trust, everyone else bring data.
California is the leader in percent of net move-outs:

2020 United Van Lines National Movers Study

Not sure if there is any bias in terms of United’s relative foothold in certain states, but this looks like people moving out of blue states and into red states.

[equalizer]

But people are not moving out fast enough. Nicer 1 bed apt are renting for $3500 a month, 2B/2B are renting close to $4,000 a month.
Trolley opening next month at UTC. And steps from La Jolla Shores Beach – well 22,000 steps but it’s walk through paradise.

https://www.apartments.com/valentia-san-diego-ca/46ymdwk/

Gross income requirement 2.7 times apartment rate. Really should be 3-4.

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