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November 3, 2011 at 5:41 PM #732190November 4, 2011 at 7:00 AM #732213SD RealtorParticipant
I am sorry but I do not think the poster did anything wrong besides making a stupid decision to purchase a home near the top of a bubble. That was lunacy and the seller is a poster child for why we should not have 0 down loans, or for that matter FHA loans. Forcing buyers to come up with equity (in my opinion at least 20%) would lead to a much more stable market.
So given the first mistake that the buyer made, the way that the buyer dealt with the problem was perfect. Haters who want to blame the buyer should blame all of the other entities, including our govt for enabling the buyer. Blame the lender who originated the loan, blame the party that purchased the security, blame the ratings agency that took the security and probably gave it a triple A rating, and blame the govt for promoting all of this. If there was a simple 20% equity rule this person would have never been able to buy the home in the first place.
As for moving forward the problem I see is that nothing has changed. This buyer can still get into a home with a miniscule equity payment, is still going to count on appreciation, and is MUCH MORE ENTICED to enter the market now due to lower prices and lower rates. The probabilities of further market decline ON THE SURFACE seem much less then in 2003. However what happens if after a few years down the line interest rates spike and property values drop say another 20%? What will happen to this buyer and millions of others like him. Some will stay and some will walk again… As much as the haters want to blame them, they are working within the confines of the system that is established. Don’t hate the player hate the game.
It is also probably fair to assume that if someone has done something that is hard to do once, it becomes slightly easier to do later. That is, if the events warrant it, why not walk a second time.
I am not so sure that urging this person not to buy because there is a probability that they will walk again is valid. I think urging them to evaluate their finances and start to save money rather then living without savings is valid. Personally I wouldn’t do what they are doing with regards to buying a place but that is just me. To say that is enough but to project on them and say no you shouldn’t buy because the odds are that you will walk away is not really fair. If they buy and the market craps and they are throwing thousands on a turd asset then they SHOULD WALK AWAY and sell it short… again.
November 4, 2011 at 7:32 AM #732214scaredyclassicParticipantpractically no one buys a house in calif. You get a longterm rental with an option to terminate the lease at any time, at which point you may walk away with your security deposit/down payment and any appreciation minus fees….or zero dollars, whichever is greater.
At the end of the really long term rental , as a bonus, if you live, you get to keep the dump.
Isn’t that what homeownership really is?
November 4, 2011 at 7:48 AM #732215SellingMyHomeParticipantYes, it is crazy that I will be able to buy again in 18 months with only 3.5% down. With two young kids, I want this to be our house for the next 20+ years. I will spend the next 18 months carefully weighing the decision to buy.
Do you think I am proud of short-selling? Nope, and don’t want to do it again. I may be the minority in my class, but maybe not. I have a feeling the banks will still be willing to lend to me, because besides the short sell, everything else looks good for us on paper.
November 4, 2011 at 8:05 AM #732216sdrealtorParticipantYour biggest issue is the strategic default. FHA may require you demonstrate a legitimate hardship caused your short sale. Definitely want to step up the savings as 3.5% may not be in the cards.
November 4, 2011 at 8:12 AM #732217scaredyclassicParticipantBuy The Tightwad Gazette for savings tips.
Worked for us
November 4, 2011 at 8:28 AM #732218(former)FormerSanDieganParticipant[quote=walterwhite]practically no one buys a house in calif. You get a longterm rental with an option to terminate the lease at any time, at which point you may walk away with your security deposit/down payment and any appreciation minus fees….or zero dollars, whichever is greater.
At the end of the really long term rental , as a bonus, if you live, you get to keep the dump.
Isn’t that what homeownership really is?[/quote]
Exactly !
November 4, 2011 at 8:36 AM #732219CoronitaParticipant[quote=SellingMyHome]Yes, it is crazy that I will be able to buy again in 18 months with only 3.5% down. With two young kids, I want this to be our house for the next 20+ years. I will spend the next 18 months carefully weighing the decision to buy.
Do you think I am proud of short-selling? Nope, and don’t want to do it again. I may be the minority in my class, but maybe not. I have a feeling the banks will still be willing to lend to me, because besides the short sell, everything else looks good for us on paper.[/quote]
I don’t care about whether you short sold or not…
The fact of the matter is you have 3.5% in savings for your next purchase is alarming at best…. You have two kids…Your expenses are not going anywhere but up….You do want you kids to go to college, right? You do want your kids to be able to go attend some outdoor activities, right? All these things add up..It might not right now, but as your kids get older, it will..
How much are you going to be really able to keep for yourself after all your liabilities, including this new purchase + your estimated child raising costs?? You do have an estimate of that, right? If you don’t , I think you need factor that in too..While walking away again would be a perfectly acceptible solution, decimating your already low savings is not…I think the bigger concern is you don’t want to end up being in a financial trainwreck 2.0 in the coming years….
It would be helpful to post a breakdown of your monthly expected expenses….Because people here could probably chime in on if you’re missing something or underestimating something….
1. Mortgage monthly =
2. Property tax/12 =
3. Insurance, Water,Electric, Garbage,Nature Gas monthly =
4. Telephone service monthly=
6. Internet service monthly=
7. Cell phone service monthly=
8. Cable TV service monthly=
9. Car payments monthly=
10 Auto insurance monthly=
11.Medical Insurance premiums/deductibles (annual)/12 =
12.Childcare expenses monthly=
13.Child doodad/spendings monthly=
14.Entertainment expenses monthly=Add err up…!
November 4, 2011 at 8:59 AM #732220SellingMyHomeParticipant[quote=flu][quote=SellingMyHome]Yes, it is crazy that I will be able to buy again in 18 months with only 3.5% down. With two young kids, I want this to be our house for the next 20+ years. I will spend the next 18 months carefully weighing the decision to buy.
Do you think I am proud of short-selling? Nope, and don’t want to do it again. I may be the minority in my class, but maybe not. I have a feeling the banks will still be willing to lend to me, because besides the short sell, everything else looks good for us on paper.[/quote]
I don’t care about whether you short sold or not…
The fact of the matter is you have 3.5% in savings for your next purchase is alarming at best…. You have two kids…Your expenses are not going anywhere but up….You do want you kids to go to college, right? You do want your kids to be able to go attend some outdoor activities, right? All these things add up..It might not right now, but as your kids get older, it will..
How much are you going to be really able to keep for yourself after all your liabilities, including this new purchase + your estimated child raising costs?? You do have an estimate of that, right? If you don’t , I think you need factor that in too..While walking away again would be a perfectly acceptible solution, decimating your already low savings is not…I think the bigger concern is you don’t want to end up being in a financial trainwreck 2.0 in the coming years….
It would be helpful to post a breakdown of your monthly expected expenses….Because people here could probably chime in on if you’re missing something or underestimating something….
1. Mortgage monthly =
2. Property tax/12 =
3. Insurance, Water,Electric, Garbage,Nature Gas monthly =
4. Telephone service monthly=
6. Internet service monthly=
7. Cell phone service monthly=
8. Cable TV service monthly=
9. Car payments monthly=
10 Auto insurance monthly=
11.Medical Insurance premiums/deductibles (annual)/12 =
12.Childcare expenses monthly=
13.Child doodad/spendings monthly=
14.Entertainment expenses monthly=Add err up…![/quote]
I’m a spreadsheet geek, have all that.
I have a government pension, so I’m set on that end. I even used to put money into my 457. Wife has a 401K maxed out, and SS, so fingers crossed there. We put money in 529 college fund for kids…
November 4, 2011 at 9:09 AM #732223bearishgurlParticipantSMH, The parts of your story I find most troubling are your apparent inability to save much money (even when renting), why you didn’t try to sell at the peak (it was NOT 2003, btw) and why you were charged so much for refis. It leads one to believe that your credit wasn’t so good from the get go (even though it may have been). Also, I truly believe you may have paid too much when you first bought the property, considering it was on a smallish lot for that area. I haven’t actually researched this but wonder if the 2003 SFR sold comps in 92040 were actually closer to about $188 sf at that time.
Thanks for allowing us Piggs to peer into the mind of a “strategic defaulter.”
November 4, 2011 at 9:11 AM #732224SellingMyHomeParticipantSo, more questions about rent vs buy.
See the calculator on:
http://www.washingtonpost.com/real-estate/tools-calculators/rent-or-buy-home/process.html#resultsWhat should I put for:
Rent: Annual rate increases (%)
Home:
Annual appreciation rate (%)Other:
Before tax return on savings (%)
Assumed annual inflation rate (%)****
Big differences on outcome if I change the rent increase from 1% to 3%.
What are the realistic expectations for the above four rates? Is that a whole topic for another post?
I guess I could model the alternative scenarios and see which ones I like, then use that. Just kidding, that is what happens in government projections….
November 4, 2011 at 9:14 AM #732225SellingMyHomeParticipant[quote=bearishgurl]SMH, The parts of your story I find most troubling are your apparent inability to save much money (even when renting), why you didn’t try to sell at the peak (it was NOT 2003, btw) and why you were charged so much for refis. It leads one to believe that your credit wasn’t so good from the get go (even though it may have been). Also, I truly believe you may have paid too much when you first bought the property, considering it was on a smallish lot for that area. I haven’t actually researched this but wonder if the 2003 SFR sold comps in 92040 were actually closer to about $188 sf at that time.
Thanks for allowing us Piggs to peer into the mind of a “strategic defaulter.”[/quote]
I may have paid too much (in hindsight definitely). I also should have sold at the top, dumb me. I did probably pay too much for refi. I have learned a lot here in the last two years, 8 years too late!
I do hope my story has helped others see inside the evil mind of a strategic defaulter…
November 4, 2011 at 9:19 AM #732226moneymakerParticipantDon’t forget about car repairs, unless you have the tools and ability to repair and maintain yourself. Personally I think if you take the lowest income between your wife and yourself and add a minimum wage income to it and then can still afford the mortgage then now is a great time to buy. I don’t buy sdrealtors analysis of inflation causing future default as rents will invariably go up as well, and you gotta live somewhere,right! Just my 2¢.
November 4, 2011 at 11:10 AM #732232sdrealtorParticipant[quote=threadkiller]Don’t forget about car repairs, unless you have the tools and ability to repair and maintain yourself. Personally I think if you take the lowest income between your wife and yourself and add a minimum wage income to it and then can still afford the mortgage then now is a great time to buy. I don’t buy sdrealtors analysis of inflation causing future default as rents will invariably go up as well, and you gotta live somewhere,right! Just my 2¢.[/quote]
It wasnt me! Wrong guy
November 4, 2011 at 12:09 PM #732233SD RealtorParticipantThat was me. Really? You don’t see people walking away from an asset that has substantially lost value? Yes people do have to live somewhere so why would anyone choose to live in an overvalued asset that is losing value, pay property taxes on it, pay homeowners insurance on it, possibly pay mello roos and HOA on it, while it loses value daily?
Look around you right now… The cost of basic food goods, utilities, water and fuel has gone up WAY WAY WAY more then annual rents. You can have inflation without strong rental rate increases. Similarly people with large cashpiles will make a KILLING on real estate when (NOT IF) when rates rise and real estate drops. It may be 2 years away, maybe 10 years away, maybe longer… However to think that people will not walk away is foolhearty. I am not saying it is not a good time to buy now, certainly better then 03 but the sytem we have in place promotes home ownership that is nothing more then a rental. By that nature it can behave in a more transitory nature because we enable it to be that way. You create a much more stable market buy demanding a much harsher equity stake.
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