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Matt, I was just playing around, it’s all about the traffic, baby.

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Matt, I was just playing around, it’s all about the traffic, baby.

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Matt, I was just playing around, it’s all about the traffic, baby.

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Matt, I was just playing around, it’s all about the traffic, baby.

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Marion, nice comments, and it is o.k. to think aloud and ask for advice, the fact that you think about it puts you ahead of the curve.

But my theory is not a temporary one until you get serious with someone, you need to keep it that way even if you do get serious with someone. If he’s worth his salt, he’ll deal with seeing you a few days a week until you kids are grown, depending on the age of the kids that may only be the length of a car loan and a lot of “serious” relationships still fall apart after a year or two. I am completely upfront about it when meeting a new woman, I make no bones about it, I mention that I will not see them on holidays, I use my vacation time with my kids and I won’t be answering the phone on the days and the hours I’m with my kids, final answer (never give out the house number, just the cell and throw it on vibrate during homework and dinner). It has a nice side effect of screening out the flakes, the gold diggers and the divorced women not happy with their new lifestyle economically as a single. I call it “psuedo-prostitute repellent.” It eliminates those that need me and leaves me with those that want me. I don’t mind having to get a new girlfriend when they can’t deal with it, that is actually my favorite part. It’s a win/win and it is a lifestyle you need to commit to for the long haul. If you find someone that fits into that lifestyle, great, if you end up dating dozens of people before that last kid goes to college, that’s great too.

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Marion, nice comments, and it is o.k. to think aloud and ask for advice, the fact that you think about it puts you ahead of the curve.

But my theory is not a temporary one until you get serious with someone, you need to keep it that way even if you do get serious with someone. If he’s worth his salt, he’ll deal with seeing you a few days a week until you kids are grown, depending on the age of the kids that may only be the length of a car loan and a lot of “serious” relationships still fall apart after a year or two. I am completely upfront about it when meeting a new woman, I make no bones about it, I mention that I will not see them on holidays, I use my vacation time with my kids and I won’t be answering the phone on the days and the hours I’m with my kids, final answer (never give out the house number, just the cell and throw it on vibrate during homework and dinner). It has a nice side effect of screening out the flakes, the gold diggers and the divorced women not happy with their new lifestyle economically as a single. I call it “psuedo-prostitute repellent.” It eliminates those that need me and leaves me with those that want me. I don’t mind having to get a new girlfriend when they can’t deal with it, that is actually my favorite part. It’s a win/win and it is a lifestyle you need to commit to for the long haul. If you find someone that fits into that lifestyle, great, if you end up dating dozens of people before that last kid goes to college, that’s great too.

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Marion, nice comments, and it is o.k. to think aloud and ask for advice, the fact that you think about it puts you ahead of the curve.

But my theory is not a temporary one until you get serious with someone, you need to keep it that way even if you do get serious with someone. If he’s worth his salt, he’ll deal with seeing you a few days a week until you kids are grown, depending on the age of the kids that may only be the length of a car loan and a lot of “serious” relationships still fall apart after a year or two. I am completely upfront about it when meeting a new woman, I make no bones about it, I mention that I will not see them on holidays, I use my vacation time with my kids and I won’t be answering the phone on the days and the hours I’m with my kids, final answer (never give out the house number, just the cell and throw it on vibrate during homework and dinner). It has a nice side effect of screening out the flakes, the gold diggers and the divorced women not happy with their new lifestyle economically as a single. I call it “psuedo-prostitute repellent.” It eliminates those that need me and leaves me with those that want me. I don’t mind having to get a new girlfriend when they can’t deal with it, that is actually my favorite part. It’s a win/win and it is a lifestyle you need to commit to for the long haul. If you find someone that fits into that lifestyle, great, if you end up dating dozens of people before that last kid goes to college, that’s great too.

[temeculaguy]

Marion, nice comments, and it is o.k. to think aloud and ask for advice, the fact that you think about it puts you ahead of the curve.

But my theory is not a temporary one until you get serious with someone, you need to keep it that way even if you do get serious with someone. If he’s worth his salt, he’ll deal with seeing you a few days a week until you kids are grown, depending on the age of the kids that may only be the length of a car loan and a lot of “serious” relationships still fall apart after a year or two. I am completely upfront about it when meeting a new woman, I make no bones about it, I mention that I will not see them on holidays, I use my vacation time with my kids and I won’t be answering the phone on the days and the hours I’m with my kids, final answer (never give out the house number, just the cell and throw it on vibrate during homework and dinner). It has a nice side effect of screening out the flakes, the gold diggers and the divorced women not happy with their new lifestyle economically as a single. I call it “psuedo-prostitute repellent.” It eliminates those that need me and leaves me with those that want me. I don’t mind having to get a new girlfriend when they can’t deal with it, that is actually my favorite part. It’s a win/win and it is a lifestyle you need to commit to for the long haul. If you find someone that fits into that lifestyle, great, if you end up dating dozens of people before that last kid goes to college, that’s great too.

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Marion, nice comments, and it is o.k. to think aloud and ask for advice, the fact that you think about it puts you ahead of the curve.

But my theory is not a temporary one until you get serious with someone, you need to keep it that way even if you do get serious with someone. If he’s worth his salt, he’ll deal with seeing you a few days a week until you kids are grown, depending on the age of the kids that may only be the length of a car loan and a lot of “serious” relationships still fall apart after a year or two. I am completely upfront about it when meeting a new woman, I make no bones about it, I mention that I will not see them on holidays, I use my vacation time with my kids and I won’t be answering the phone on the days and the hours I’m with my kids, final answer (never give out the house number, just the cell and throw it on vibrate during homework and dinner). It has a nice side effect of screening out the flakes, the gold diggers and the divorced women not happy with their new lifestyle economically as a single. I call it “psuedo-prostitute repellent.” It eliminates those that need me and leaves me with those that want me. I don’t mind having to get a new girlfriend when they can’t deal with it, that is actually my favorite part. It’s a win/win and it is a lifestyle you need to commit to for the long haul. If you find someone that fits into that lifestyle, great, if you end up dating dozens of people before that last kid goes to college, that’s great too.

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go to foreclosure.com to check for the nod, it lists the name in the preforeclosure tab and you can sort by street or name to make it quicker, but they lag in posting and the county doesn’t. Riverside county has grantee searches online for free that will tell you when the nod was, 90 days later, almost to the day will be the not, 30 days later will be the sale. check on the sd county website for grantee searches, don’t trust the landlord for dates. Worce case scenario is you have to make a personal visit to the recorders office at 1600 pacific coast highway, nods and nots are public record and they have to be recorded.

The best advice is what Padre said, give notice and indicate that your deposit will be your last month’s rent because you can’t be sure of getting it back since he is in default, don’t try to get anything for free but protect yourself from losing anything.

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go to foreclosure.com to check for the nod, it lists the name in the preforeclosure tab and you can sort by street or name to make it quicker, but they lag in posting and the county doesn’t. Riverside county has grantee searches online for free that will tell you when the nod was, 90 days later, almost to the day will be the not, 30 days later will be the sale. check on the sd county website for grantee searches, don’t trust the landlord for dates. Worce case scenario is you have to make a personal visit to the recorders office at 1600 pacific coast highway, nods and nots are public record and they have to be recorded.

The best advice is what Padre said, give notice and indicate that your deposit will be your last month’s rent because you can’t be sure of getting it back since he is in default, don’t try to get anything for free but protect yourself from losing anything.

[temeculaguy]

go to foreclosure.com to check for the nod, it lists the name in the preforeclosure tab and you can sort by street or name to make it quicker, but they lag in posting and the county doesn’t. Riverside county has grantee searches online for free that will tell you when the nod was, 90 days later, almost to the day will be the not, 30 days later will be the sale. check on the sd county website for grantee searches, don’t trust the landlord for dates. Worce case scenario is you have to make a personal visit to the recorders office at 1600 pacific coast highway, nods and nots are public record and they have to be recorded.

The best advice is what Padre said, give notice and indicate that your deposit will be your last month’s rent because you can’t be sure of getting it back since he is in default, don’t try to get anything for free but protect yourself from losing anything.

[temeculaguy]

go to foreclosure.com to check for the nod, it lists the name in the preforeclosure tab and you can sort by street or name to make it quicker, but they lag in posting and the county doesn’t. Riverside county has grantee searches online for free that will tell you when the nod was, 90 days later, almost to the day will be the not, 30 days later will be the sale. check on the sd county website for grantee searches, don’t trust the landlord for dates. Worce case scenario is you have to make a personal visit to the recorders office at 1600 pacific coast highway, nods and nots are public record and they have to be recorded.

The best advice is what Padre said, give notice and indicate that your deposit will be your last month’s rent because you can’t be sure of getting it back since he is in default, don’t try to get anything for free but protect yourself from losing anything.

[temeculaguy]

go to foreclosure.com to check for the nod, it lists the name in the preforeclosure tab and you can sort by street or name to make it quicker, but they lag in posting and the county doesn’t. Riverside county has grantee searches online for free that will tell you when the nod was, 90 days later, almost to the day will be the not, 30 days later will be the sale. check on the sd county website for grantee searches, don’t trust the landlord for dates. Worce case scenario is you have to make a personal visit to the recorders office at 1600 pacific coast highway, nods and nots are public record and they have to be recorded.

The best advice is what Padre said, give notice and indicate that your deposit will be your last month’s rent because you can’t be sure of getting it back since he is in default, don’t try to get anything for free but protect yourself from losing anything.

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ditto what snail said, did anyone go? I have 6 properties that I’d like to know what they sold for just out of curiosity.

I did find out today about another property not in this auction that was one of those super low list priced jobs that sparked a bidding war, it ended up selling for 16k over the list price and the list price was 100k below anything comparable for sale, so I’m curious if these auctions will bring in much over the opening bid.

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