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Your compliments are my payment and if I was paid then it would be called work, it would cease to be fun and probably cease to be funny. Turning your passion or hobby into a living rarely works out and in the end you just have one less hobby, the mere fact that gynecologists, male porn stars and professional golfers take time off for vacations or being sick is evidence of this theory.

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Your compliments are my payment and if I was paid then it would be called work, it would cease to be fun and probably cease to be funny. Turning your passion or hobby into a living rarely works out and in the end you just have one less hobby, the mere fact that gynecologists, male porn stars and professional golfers take time off for vacations or being sick is evidence of this theory.

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Your compliments are my payment and if I was paid then it would be called work, it would cease to be fun and probably cease to be funny. Turning your passion or hobby into a living rarely works out and in the end you just have one less hobby, the mere fact that gynecologists, male porn stars and professional golfers take time off for vacations or being sick is evidence of this theory.

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Your compliments are my payment and if I was paid then it would be called work, it would cease to be fun and probably cease to be funny. Turning your passion or hobby into a living rarely works out and in the end you just have one less hobby, the mere fact that gynecologists, male porn stars and professional golfers take time off for vacations or being sick is evidence of this theory.

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Why wouldn’t the old blog have a link to the new one?

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Why wouldn’t the old blog have a link to the new one?

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Why wouldn’t the old blog have a link to the new one?

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Why wouldn’t the old blog have a link to the new one?

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Why wouldn’t the old blog have a link to the new one?

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As a 40 something divorced guy who’s spent some time dating and studied it like I’ve studied R/E, I can say that she represents a category me and my divorced buddies like to call “economic refugees.” The symptoms and mindset are not unlike FB’s thinking R/E will rebound to 2006 prices any day if they can just hold on a little longer and maybe refi. In her case or those in her category, she thinks an educated and wealthy man will be along any day to pay the freight for her life, what she fails to realize it that it isn’t 1985 any longer, when those men were chasing her. I’ve studied some statistics and single women in their 20’s and 30’s are outnumbered or evenly matched by single men, after 40 and 50 it gets out of proportion, while the population isn’t so drastically different, but for singles it is. For every 100 single women in their 50’s and 60’s, there are only 70 single men. Plus men in their 20’s marry women 1.5 years younger than them, men in their 30’s marry 3.1 younger but it goes to 9 years difference in the 50’s and 60’s, so her statistical sugar daddy is is 56 years old. Men that age aren’t fired up about a women with three small kids, for the most part they are past that phase in life. Of those that wouldn’t mind, the more marketable women are those who did downsize, who are responsible and who are not at the edge of a financial cliff, complete with the frazzled personality from the experience. Nothing is less attractive than a women who needs you as opposed to one that wants you. Plus the last guy is paying 75k a year in child support, 1,600 a week, older dudes with money who have danced that dance tend to be wary of those who have already skewered a man, the one dog you don’t want to pet is the one with blood still dripping from it’s teeth.

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As a 40 something divorced guy who’s spent some time dating and studied it like I’ve studied R/E, I can say that she represents a category me and my divorced buddies like to call “economic refugees.” The symptoms and mindset are not unlike FB’s thinking R/E will rebound to 2006 prices any day if they can just hold on a little longer and maybe refi. In her case or those in her category, she thinks an educated and wealthy man will be along any day to pay the freight for her life, what she fails to realize it that it isn’t 1985 any longer, when those men were chasing her. I’ve studied some statistics and single women in their 20’s and 30’s are outnumbered or evenly matched by single men, after 40 and 50 it gets out of proportion, while the population isn’t so drastically different, but for singles it is. For every 100 single women in their 50’s and 60’s, there are only 70 single men. Plus men in their 20’s marry women 1.5 years younger than them, men in their 30’s marry 3.1 younger but it goes to 9 years difference in the 50’s and 60’s, so her statistical sugar daddy is is 56 years old. Men that age aren’t fired up about a women with three small kids, for the most part they are past that phase in life. Of those that wouldn’t mind, the more marketable women are those who did downsize, who are responsible and who are not at the edge of a financial cliff, complete with the frazzled personality from the experience. Nothing is less attractive than a women who needs you as opposed to one that wants you. Plus the last guy is paying 75k a year in child support, 1,600 a week, older dudes with money who have danced that dance tend to be wary of those who have already skewered a man, the one dog you don’t want to pet is the one with blood still dripping from it’s teeth.

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As a 40 something divorced guy who’s spent some time dating and studied it like I’ve studied R/E, I can say that she represents a category me and my divorced buddies like to call “economic refugees.” The symptoms and mindset are not unlike FB’s thinking R/E will rebound to 2006 prices any day if they can just hold on a little longer and maybe refi. In her case or those in her category, she thinks an educated and wealthy man will be along any day to pay the freight for her life, what she fails to realize it that it isn’t 1985 any longer, when those men were chasing her. I’ve studied some statistics and single women in their 20’s and 30’s are outnumbered or evenly matched by single men, after 40 and 50 it gets out of proportion, while the population isn’t so drastically different, but for singles it is. For every 100 single women in their 50’s and 60’s, there are only 70 single men. Plus men in their 20’s marry women 1.5 years younger than them, men in their 30’s marry 3.1 younger but it goes to 9 years difference in the 50’s and 60’s, so her statistical sugar daddy is is 56 years old. Men that age aren’t fired up about a women with three small kids, for the most part they are past that phase in life. Of those that wouldn’t mind, the more marketable women are those who did downsize, who are responsible and who are not at the edge of a financial cliff, complete with the frazzled personality from the experience. Nothing is less attractive than a women who needs you as opposed to one that wants you. Plus the last guy is paying 75k a year in child support, 1,600 a week, older dudes with money who have danced that dance tend to be wary of those who have already skewered a man, the one dog you don’t want to pet is the one with blood still dripping from it’s teeth.

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As a 40 something divorced guy who’s spent some time dating and studied it like I’ve studied R/E, I can say that she represents a category me and my divorced buddies like to call “economic refugees.” The symptoms and mindset are not unlike FB’s thinking R/E will rebound to 2006 prices any day if they can just hold on a little longer and maybe refi. In her case or those in her category, she thinks an educated and wealthy man will be along any day to pay the freight for her life, what she fails to realize it that it isn’t 1985 any longer, when those men were chasing her. I’ve studied some statistics and single women in their 20’s and 30’s are outnumbered or evenly matched by single men, after 40 and 50 it gets out of proportion, while the population isn’t so drastically different, but for singles it is. For every 100 single women in their 50’s and 60’s, there are only 70 single men. Plus men in their 20’s marry women 1.5 years younger than them, men in their 30’s marry 3.1 younger but it goes to 9 years difference in the 50’s and 60’s, so her statistical sugar daddy is is 56 years old. Men that age aren’t fired up about a women with three small kids, for the most part they are past that phase in life. Of those that wouldn’t mind, the more marketable women are those who did downsize, who are responsible and who are not at the edge of a financial cliff, complete with the frazzled personality from the experience. Nothing is less attractive than a women who needs you as opposed to one that wants you. Plus the last guy is paying 75k a year in child support, 1,600 a week, older dudes with money who have danced that dance tend to be wary of those who have already skewered a man, the one dog you don’t want to pet is the one with blood still dripping from it’s teeth.

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As a 40 something divorced guy who’s spent some time dating and studied it like I’ve studied R/E, I can say that she represents a category me and my divorced buddies like to call “economic refugees.” The symptoms and mindset are not unlike FB’s thinking R/E will rebound to 2006 prices any day if they can just hold on a little longer and maybe refi. In her case or those in her category, she thinks an educated and wealthy man will be along any day to pay the freight for her life, what she fails to realize it that it isn’t 1985 any longer, when those men were chasing her. I’ve studied some statistics and single women in their 20’s and 30’s are outnumbered or evenly matched by single men, after 40 and 50 it gets out of proportion, while the population isn’t so drastically different, but for singles it is. For every 100 single women in their 50’s and 60’s, there are only 70 single men. Plus men in their 20’s marry women 1.5 years younger than them, men in their 30’s marry 3.1 younger but it goes to 9 years difference in the 50’s and 60’s, so her statistical sugar daddy is is 56 years old. Men that age aren’t fired up about a women with three small kids, for the most part they are past that phase in life. Of those that wouldn’t mind, the more marketable women are those who did downsize, who are responsible and who are not at the edge of a financial cliff, complete with the frazzled personality from the experience. Nothing is less attractive than a women who needs you as opposed to one that wants you. Plus the last guy is paying 75k a year in child support, 1,600 a week, older dudes with money who have danced that dance tend to be wary of those who have already skewered a man, the one dog you don’t want to pet is the one with blood still dripping from it’s teeth.

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ricechex, when it comes time to buy your next house, buy one with an hoa. I know everyone has different feelings about hoa’s, but it is obvious that you would have no problem with the added rules and it would eliminate situations like this. This is not an insult, I am the same way and I know this about myself, that i cannot live in an area only governed by municipal codes, I need extra rules. It doesn’t make me good or bad, but is has made life easier once I realized this about myself.

In the house I owned that did not have an hoa, I had a similar conflict, while it wasn’t the view that bothered me but my neighbor’s similar work vehicle blocked my view in pulling out of my driveway onto what was a fairly busy street and there was nothing I could do about it. It also blocked the view of motorists if my kids were playing in the front yard and went after an errant ball. Rather than make him change, I moved where he and his ilk dare not travel, to the dreaded land of strict hoa’s. There is nothing wrong with him and nothing wrong with me, but we are better off not being neighbors. His raiders sheets as window coverings made him happy and were a source of pride, to me they were an eyesore and a cause of increased blood pressure (no offense allan, I would have been bothered by charger’s sheets).

I did have an aquaintance once that was a nice guy but was definately a member of the dirt people tribe. He asked where I lived, i told him and he said that he liked it there and even looked at some houses there but couldn’t buy a house there because he has montster trucks, toy haulers, quads and boats. Then he said that the hoa there was too uptight and had too many rules, to which i agreed out loud and to myself I said “thank god.”

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