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Ricechex
Participant[quote=SD Realtor]Thanks ricechex….
Reading some of the posts does in fact bring me back to like… oh maybe jr high school and when I would get rejected I would act in such a manner.
Your analysis was spot on. The funny thing is that one reads some of the posts, and these posts try to point out that it is a “them” problem. The man will say women do this, or women do that, or they turn men into this or that. In reality it is not a “them” problem, it is a “you” problem.
Rice I wish I was one of those guys who got the pick of the women, but I was just another scrapper guy like the rest of them. However one thing I have noticed is that I know alot of “those guys”. These are the guys that have “it”. Whether it is physical looks, or money or whatever, women are just naturally attracted to these guys. For the most part, you NEVER here any of these guys spewing the bitterness that I have read here.
Again it is one thing to say, no thanks I would rather be single and enjoy that life. In fact those that live that life also rarely talk that harsh about women as well. They have the single life, they enjoy it, they enjoy women and that is okay.
So in summary I would classify those that speak in the bitter manner as those that feel women have something they cannot have or have a hard time getting. Thus they lash out and try to “put women in thier place”. They don’t need this or that, they won’t tolerate a woman changing them or doing this or that to them. Once again, it is not them, it is the “women” right?[/quote]
SD Realtor–no matter what you think about yourself, your wife snagged YOU. Remember the old saying “the good guys are already taken”? That was you. These are women/people that know qualities that will hold a longer time than looks and money. And, as your post demonstrates, it is about taking responsibility rather than blaming. Now, that is attractive.
Participant[quote=SD Realtor]Thanks ricechex….
Reading some of the posts does in fact bring me back to like… oh maybe jr high school and when I would get rejected I would act in such a manner.
Your analysis was spot on. The funny thing is that one reads some of the posts, and these posts try to point out that it is a “them” problem. The man will say women do this, or women do that, or they turn men into this or that. In reality it is not a “them” problem, it is a “you” problem.
Rice I wish I was one of those guys who got the pick of the women, but I was just another scrapper guy like the rest of them. However one thing I have noticed is that I know alot of “those guys”. These are the guys that have “it”. Whether it is physical looks, or money or whatever, women are just naturally attracted to these guys. For the most part, you NEVER here any of these guys spewing the bitterness that I have read here.
Again it is one thing to say, no thanks I would rather be single and enjoy that life. In fact those that live that life also rarely talk that harsh about women as well. They have the single life, they enjoy it, they enjoy women and that is okay.
So in summary I would classify those that speak in the bitter manner as those that feel women have something they cannot have or have a hard time getting. Thus they lash out and try to “put women in thier place”. They don’t need this or that, they won’t tolerate a woman changing them or doing this or that to them. Once again, it is not them, it is the “women” right?[/quote]
SD Realtor–no matter what you think about yourself, your wife snagged YOU. Remember the old saying “the good guys are already taken”? That was you. These are women/people that know qualities that will hold a longer time than looks and money. And, as your post demonstrates, it is about taking responsibility rather than blaming. Now, that is attractive.
Participant[quote=SD Realtor]Thanks ricechex….
Reading some of the posts does in fact bring me back to like… oh maybe jr high school and when I would get rejected I would act in such a manner.
Your analysis was spot on. The funny thing is that one reads some of the posts, and these posts try to point out that it is a “them” problem. The man will say women do this, or women do that, or they turn men into this or that. In reality it is not a “them” problem, it is a “you” problem.
Rice I wish I was one of those guys who got the pick of the women, but I was just another scrapper guy like the rest of them. However one thing I have noticed is that I know alot of “those guys”. These are the guys that have “it”. Whether it is physical looks, or money or whatever, women are just naturally attracted to these guys. For the most part, you NEVER here any of these guys spewing the bitterness that I have read here.
Again it is one thing to say, no thanks I would rather be single and enjoy that life. In fact those that live that life also rarely talk that harsh about women as well. They have the single life, they enjoy it, they enjoy women and that is okay.
So in summary I would classify those that speak in the bitter manner as those that feel women have something they cannot have or have a hard time getting. Thus they lash out and try to “put women in thier place”. They don’t need this or that, they won’t tolerate a woman changing them or doing this or that to them. Once again, it is not them, it is the “women” right?[/quote]
SD Realtor–no matter what you think about yourself, your wife snagged YOU. Remember the old saying “the good guys are already taken”? That was you. These are women/people that know qualities that will hold a longer time than looks and money. And, as your post demonstrates, it is about taking responsibility rather than blaming. Now, that is attractive.
Participant[quote=SD Realtor]Thanks ricechex….
Reading some of the posts does in fact bring me back to like… oh maybe jr high school and when I would get rejected I would act in such a manner.
Your analysis was spot on. The funny thing is that one reads some of the posts, and these posts try to point out that it is a “them” problem. The man will say women do this, or women do that, or they turn men into this or that. In reality it is not a “them” problem, it is a “you” problem.
Rice I wish I was one of those guys who got the pick of the women, but I was just another scrapper guy like the rest of them. However one thing I have noticed is that I know alot of “those guys”. These are the guys that have “it”. Whether it is physical looks, or money or whatever, women are just naturally attracted to these guys. For the most part, you NEVER here any of these guys spewing the bitterness that I have read here.
Again it is one thing to say, no thanks I would rather be single and enjoy that life. In fact those that live that life also rarely talk that harsh about women as well. They have the single life, they enjoy it, they enjoy women and that is okay.
So in summary I would classify those that speak in the bitter manner as those that feel women have something they cannot have or have a hard time getting. Thus they lash out and try to “put women in thier place”. They don’t need this or that, they won’t tolerate a woman changing them or doing this or that to them. Once again, it is not them, it is the “women” right?[/quote]
SD Realtor–no matter what you think about yourself, your wife snagged YOU. Remember the old saying “the good guys are already taken”? That was you. These are women/people that know qualities that will hold a longer time than looks and money. And, as your post demonstrates, it is about taking responsibility rather than blaming. Now, that is attractive.
Participant[quote=SD Realtor]Thanks ricechex….
Reading some of the posts does in fact bring me back to like… oh maybe jr high school and when I would get rejected I would act in such a manner.
Your analysis was spot on. The funny thing is that one reads some of the posts, and these posts try to point out that it is a “them” problem. The man will say women do this, or women do that, or they turn men into this or that. In reality it is not a “them” problem, it is a “you” problem.
Rice I wish I was one of those guys who got the pick of the women, but I was just another scrapper guy like the rest of them. However one thing I have noticed is that I know alot of “those guys”. These are the guys that have “it”. Whether it is physical looks, or money or whatever, women are just naturally attracted to these guys. For the most part, you NEVER here any of these guys spewing the bitterness that I have read here.
Again it is one thing to say, no thanks I would rather be single and enjoy that life. In fact those that live that life also rarely talk that harsh about women as well. They have the single life, they enjoy it, they enjoy women and that is okay.
So in summary I would classify those that speak in the bitter manner as those that feel women have something they cannot have or have a hard time getting. Thus they lash out and try to “put women in thier place”. They don’t need this or that, they won’t tolerate a woman changing them or doing this or that to them. Once again, it is not them, it is the “women” right?[/quote]
SD Realtor–no matter what you think about yourself, your wife snagged YOU. Remember the old saying “the good guys are already taken”? That was you. These are women/people that know qualities that will hold a longer time than looks and money. And, as your post demonstrates, it is about taking responsibility rather than blaming. Now, that is attractive.
Participant[quote=TheBreeze][quote=Ricechex][quote=briansd1]I agree. Never marry an American-born woman.
Choose someone from Europe, Asia, Latin American or whatever. But generally, don’t marry an American-born woman.
The imported products are generally better.[/quote]
Belief statements such as this usually suggest a bitter man, someone that does not really “like” women (I do not mean gay). Women are referred to as “products” and thus objectified. Blanket statements such as “never marry an American born women,” and rigid rules about male and female behaviors, suggest a rigid and limited perspective about others and ideas (this same world view is exemplified in your one perspective posts regarding Obama and politics). My guess is that women aren’t too fond of you, and there has been repeated rejection of you by those of the female gender.
Guys like Russell and SD Realtor probably always had it really easy with women, because they really LIKE women. They had their pick because of this, and they could choose wisely, thus not ending up with these women you speak of. If they have daughters, those girls will find good men like their fathers, not narcissistic, entitled and self-righteous women hating men. If they have sons, those boys will find caring, nurturing women that love them for WHO they are, rather than controlling manipulating beast women as characterized in this thread.
Ucodegen’s posts were spot on.[/quote]
So men who have been divorced are awkward, incompetent, woman-repellent douchebags?[/quote]
Breezy, see you have reappeared. Clearly, you took that as an attack, which demonstrates your emotional fragility. Your anger comes out every time you post. You and Brian are 2 peas in a pod. He took over where you left off.
You missed the point–it was not about divorced or awkward men. It is about rigid beliefs and attitudes, and limited ability for critical thought. Jumping to conclusions and sweeping generalizations are usually characteristic.
Men = Good
Women = Bad
Republicans = Bad
Democrats = Good
Dog Owners = Good
Cat Owners = BadIt’s childlike in nature, but for some it is necessary to help to organize their world, label others and themselves, and in a sense alleviate anxiety, inadequacy and fear of failure. It is their podium to stand on, and unfortunately, so much is missed in the process.
Waiting for another female poster to chime in here…she has the same world view as you guys.
Allan: Thanks. Your posts have always been informative to me.
TG: You are awesome. EXCELLENT post. You REALLY should write a book.Participant[quote=TheBreeze][quote=Ricechex][quote=briansd1]I agree. Never marry an American-born woman.
Choose someone from Europe, Asia, Latin American or whatever. But generally, don’t marry an American-born woman.
The imported products are generally better.[/quote]
Belief statements such as this usually suggest a bitter man, someone that does not really “like” women (I do not mean gay). Women are referred to as “products” and thus objectified. Blanket statements such as “never marry an American born women,” and rigid rules about male and female behaviors, suggest a rigid and limited perspective about others and ideas (this same world view is exemplified in your one perspective posts regarding Obama and politics). My guess is that women aren’t too fond of you, and there has been repeated rejection of you by those of the female gender.
Guys like Russell and SD Realtor probably always had it really easy with women, because they really LIKE women. They had their pick because of this, and they could choose wisely, thus not ending up with these women you speak of. If they have daughters, those girls will find good men like their fathers, not narcissistic, entitled and self-righteous women hating men. If they have sons, those boys will find caring, nurturing women that love them for WHO they are, rather than controlling manipulating beast women as characterized in this thread.
Ucodegen’s posts were spot on.[/quote]
So men who have been divorced are awkward, incompetent, woman-repellent douchebags?[/quote]
Breezy, see you have reappeared. Clearly, you took that as an attack, which demonstrates your emotional fragility. Your anger comes out every time you post. You and Brian are 2 peas in a pod. He took over where you left off.
You missed the point–it was not about divorced or awkward men. It is about rigid beliefs and attitudes, and limited ability for critical thought. Jumping to conclusions and sweeping generalizations are usually characteristic.
Men = Good
Women = Bad
Republicans = Bad
Democrats = Good
Dog Owners = Good
Cat Owners = BadIt’s childlike in nature, but for some it is necessary to help to organize their world, label others and themselves, and in a sense alleviate anxiety, inadequacy and fear of failure. It is their podium to stand on, and unfortunately, so much is missed in the process.
Waiting for another female poster to chime in here…she has the same world view as you guys.
Allan: Thanks. Your posts have always been informative to me.
TG: You are awesome. EXCELLENT post. You REALLY should write a book.Participant[quote=TheBreeze][quote=Ricechex][quote=briansd1]I agree. Never marry an American-born woman.
Choose someone from Europe, Asia, Latin American or whatever. But generally, don’t marry an American-born woman.
The imported products are generally better.[/quote]
Belief statements such as this usually suggest a bitter man, someone that does not really “like” women (I do not mean gay). Women are referred to as “products” and thus objectified. Blanket statements such as “never marry an American born women,” and rigid rules about male and female behaviors, suggest a rigid and limited perspective about others and ideas (this same world view is exemplified in your one perspective posts regarding Obama and politics). My guess is that women aren’t too fond of you, and there has been repeated rejection of you by those of the female gender.
Guys like Russell and SD Realtor probably always had it really easy with women, because they really LIKE women. They had their pick because of this, and they could choose wisely, thus not ending up with these women you speak of. If they have daughters, those girls will find good men like their fathers, not narcissistic, entitled and self-righteous women hating men. If they have sons, those boys will find caring, nurturing women that love them for WHO they are, rather than controlling manipulating beast women as characterized in this thread.
Ucodegen’s posts were spot on.[/quote]
So men who have been divorced are awkward, incompetent, woman-repellent douchebags?[/quote]
Breezy, see you have reappeared. Clearly, you took that as an attack, which demonstrates your emotional fragility. Your anger comes out every time you post. You and Brian are 2 peas in a pod. He took over where you left off.
You missed the point–it was not about divorced or awkward men. It is about rigid beliefs and attitudes, and limited ability for critical thought. Jumping to conclusions and sweeping generalizations are usually characteristic.
Men = Good
Women = Bad
Republicans = Bad
Democrats = Good
Dog Owners = Good
Cat Owners = BadIt’s childlike in nature, but for some it is necessary to help to organize their world, label others and themselves, and in a sense alleviate anxiety, inadequacy and fear of failure. It is their podium to stand on, and unfortunately, so much is missed in the process.
Waiting for another female poster to chime in here…she has the same world view as you guys.
Allan: Thanks. Your posts have always been informative to me.
TG: You are awesome. EXCELLENT post. You REALLY should write a book.Participant[quote=TheBreeze][quote=Ricechex][quote=briansd1]I agree. Never marry an American-born woman.
Choose someone from Europe, Asia, Latin American or whatever. But generally, don’t marry an American-born woman.
The imported products are generally better.[/quote]
Belief statements such as this usually suggest a bitter man, someone that does not really “like” women (I do not mean gay). Women are referred to as “products” and thus objectified. Blanket statements such as “never marry an American born women,” and rigid rules about male and female behaviors, suggest a rigid and limited perspective about others and ideas (this same world view is exemplified in your one perspective posts regarding Obama and politics). My guess is that women aren’t too fond of you, and there has been repeated rejection of you by those of the female gender.
Guys like Russell and SD Realtor probably always had it really easy with women, because they really LIKE women. They had their pick because of this, and they could choose wisely, thus not ending up with these women you speak of. If they have daughters, those girls will find good men like their fathers, not narcissistic, entitled and self-righteous women hating men. If they have sons, those boys will find caring, nurturing women that love them for WHO they are, rather than controlling manipulating beast women as characterized in this thread.
Ucodegen’s posts were spot on.[/quote]
So men who have been divorced are awkward, incompetent, woman-repellent douchebags?[/quote]
Breezy, see you have reappeared. Clearly, you took that as an attack, which demonstrates your emotional fragility. Your anger comes out every time you post. You and Brian are 2 peas in a pod. He took over where you left off.
You missed the point–it was not about divorced or awkward men. It is about rigid beliefs and attitudes, and limited ability for critical thought. Jumping to conclusions and sweeping generalizations are usually characteristic.
Men = Good
Women = Bad
Republicans = Bad
Democrats = Good
Dog Owners = Good
Cat Owners = BadIt’s childlike in nature, but for some it is necessary to help to organize their world, label others and themselves, and in a sense alleviate anxiety, inadequacy and fear of failure. It is their podium to stand on, and unfortunately, so much is missed in the process.
Waiting for another female poster to chime in here…she has the same world view as you guys.
Allan: Thanks. Your posts have always been informative to me.
TG: You are awesome. EXCELLENT post. You REALLY should write a book.Participant[quote=TheBreeze][quote=Ricechex][quote=briansd1]I agree. Never marry an American-born woman.
Choose someone from Europe, Asia, Latin American or whatever. But generally, don’t marry an American-born woman.
The imported products are generally better.[/quote]
Belief statements such as this usually suggest a bitter man, someone that does not really “like” women (I do not mean gay). Women are referred to as “products” and thus objectified. Blanket statements such as “never marry an American born women,” and rigid rules about male and female behaviors, suggest a rigid and limited perspective about others and ideas (this same world view is exemplified in your one perspective posts regarding Obama and politics). My guess is that women aren’t too fond of you, and there has been repeated rejection of you by those of the female gender.
Guys like Russell and SD Realtor probably always had it really easy with women, because they really LIKE women. They had their pick because of this, and they could choose wisely, thus not ending up with these women you speak of. If they have daughters, those girls will find good men like their fathers, not narcissistic, entitled and self-righteous women hating men. If they have sons, those boys will find caring, nurturing women that love them for WHO they are, rather than controlling manipulating beast women as characterized in this thread.
Ucodegen’s posts were spot on.[/quote]
So men who have been divorced are awkward, incompetent, woman-repellent douchebags?[/quote]
Breezy, see you have reappeared. Clearly, you took that as an attack, which demonstrates your emotional fragility. Your anger comes out every time you post. You and Brian are 2 peas in a pod. He took over where you left off.
You missed the point–it was not about divorced or awkward men. It is about rigid beliefs and attitudes, and limited ability for critical thought. Jumping to conclusions and sweeping generalizations are usually characteristic.
Men = Good
Women = Bad
Republicans = Bad
Democrats = Good
Dog Owners = Good
Cat Owners = BadIt’s childlike in nature, but for some it is necessary to help to organize their world, label others and themselves, and in a sense alleviate anxiety, inadequacy and fear of failure. It is their podium to stand on, and unfortunately, so much is missed in the process.
Waiting for another female poster to chime in here…she has the same world view as you guys.
Allan: Thanks. Your posts have always been informative to me.
TG: You are awesome. EXCELLENT post. You REALLY should write a book.Participant[quote=briansd1]I agree. Never marry an American-born woman.
Choose someone from Europe, Asia, Latin American or whatever. But generally, don’t marry an American-born woman.
The imported products are generally better.[/quote]
Belief statements such as this usually suggest a bitter man, someone that does not really “like” women (I do not mean gay). Women are referred to as “products” and thus objectified. Blanket statements such as “never marry an American born women,” and rigid rules about male and female behaviors, suggest a rigid and limited perspective about others and ideas (this same world view is exemplified in your one perspective posts regarding Obama and politics). My guess is that women aren’t too fond of you, and there has been repeated rejection of you by those of the female gender.
Guys like Russell and SD Realtor probably always had it really easy with women, because they really LIKE women. They had their pick because of this, and they could choose wisely, thus not ending up with these women you speak of. If they have daughters, those girls will find good men like their fathers, not narcissistic, entitled and self-righteous women hating men. If they have sons, those boys will find caring, nurturing women that love them for WHO they are, rather than controlling manipulating beast women as characterized in this thread.
Ucodegen’s posts were spot on.
Participant[quote=briansd1]I agree. Never marry an American-born woman.
Choose someone from Europe, Asia, Latin American or whatever. But generally, don’t marry an American-born woman.
The imported products are generally better.[/quote]
Belief statements such as this usually suggest a bitter man, someone that does not really “like” women (I do not mean gay). Women are referred to as “products” and thus objectified. Blanket statements such as “never marry an American born women,” and rigid rules about male and female behaviors, suggest a rigid and limited perspective about others and ideas (this same world view is exemplified in your one perspective posts regarding Obama and politics). My guess is that women aren’t too fond of you, and there has been repeated rejection of you by those of the female gender.
Guys like Russell and SD Realtor probably always had it really easy with women, because they really LIKE women. They had their pick because of this, and they could choose wisely, thus not ending up with these women you speak of. If they have daughters, those girls will find good men like their fathers, not narcissistic, entitled and self-righteous women hating men. If they have sons, those boys will find caring, nurturing women that love them for WHO they are, rather than controlling manipulating beast women as characterized in this thread.
Ucodegen’s posts were spot on.
Participant[quote=briansd1]I agree. Never marry an American-born woman.
Choose someone from Europe, Asia, Latin American or whatever. But generally, don’t marry an American-born woman.
The imported products are generally better.[/quote]
Belief statements such as this usually suggest a bitter man, someone that does not really “like” women (I do not mean gay). Women are referred to as “products” and thus objectified. Blanket statements such as “never marry an American born women,” and rigid rules about male and female behaviors, suggest a rigid and limited perspective about others and ideas (this same world view is exemplified in your one perspective posts regarding Obama and politics). My guess is that women aren’t too fond of you, and there has been repeated rejection of you by those of the female gender.
Guys like Russell and SD Realtor probably always had it really easy with women, because they really LIKE women. They had their pick because of this, and they could choose wisely, thus not ending up with these women you speak of. If they have daughters, those girls will find good men like their fathers, not narcissistic, entitled and self-righteous women hating men. If they have sons, those boys will find caring, nurturing women that love them for WHO they are, rather than controlling manipulating beast women as characterized in this thread.
Ucodegen’s posts were spot on.
Participant[quote=briansd1]I agree. Never marry an American-born woman.
Choose someone from Europe, Asia, Latin American or whatever. But generally, don’t marry an American-born woman.
The imported products are generally better.[/quote]
Belief statements such as this usually suggest a bitter man, someone that does not really “like” women (I do not mean gay). Women are referred to as “products” and thus objectified. Blanket statements such as “never marry an American born women,” and rigid rules about male and female behaviors, suggest a rigid and limited perspective about others and ideas (this same world view is exemplified in your one perspective posts regarding Obama and politics). My guess is that women aren’t too fond of you, and there has been repeated rejection of you by those of the female gender.
Guys like Russell and SD Realtor probably always had it really easy with women, because they really LIKE women. They had their pick because of this, and they could choose wisely, thus not ending up with these women you speak of. If they have daughters, those girls will find good men like their fathers, not narcissistic, entitled and self-righteous women hating men. If they have sons, those boys will find caring, nurturing women that love them for WHO they are, rather than controlling manipulating beast women as characterized in this thread.
Ucodegen’s posts were spot on.
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