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[quote=bearishgurl][quote=northparkbuyer]The buyer was Chase Merritt LLC.[/quote]

Chase Merritt LLC is a local Real Estate Investment Trust (REIT). They are in the business of returning higher than usual dividends to their investors by investigating into and purchasing select trustees deeds, taking possession of the underlying properties and rehabbing them for the market. Their hope is to flip these properties for a profit. I cannot answer how they will handle the eviction on this property but they have a right to possess the property as of today.

[quote=northparkbuyer] . . . I knew the owner who died and I am concerned about the children in the house.[/quote]

northparkbuyer, I hope you don’t mind my saying so, but their “mom” isn’t the “brightest light in the shed.” If she, as a mother of three (minor?) children, actually rec’d any cash proceeds from (her mother’s) estate, you have to ask yourself where that money went and why she is now seeking someone to “pay” her to vacate when she has already received “free rent” for at least a year.

Why don’t you report the family to the County’s HHSA if an eviction notice is posted on the property? If the mom doesn’t catch it in time, it will most likely be posted on a front window or the front door. HHSA will try to place the family in a temporary shelter or place the children in temporary foster care together, if possible, if the mother needs detox or drug rehab. The mother will be assisted to obtain skills and/or employment so she can eventually support her family.

A “cash for keys” payment will likely not get this family very far down the road if the mother uses this $$ for something other than shelter for her family.[/quote]

Not so sure about this bearishgurl. I am assuming you mean Child Protective Services (CPS). CPS will not take the children as long as they are presently cared for, shelter, food, no abuse, even IF the mother is a drug abuser. In order for CPS to intervene, it is tertiary intervention, ie: the incident must have already occurred. Also, getting CPS involved has it’s risks, and I would be judicious in contacting them without good reason.

Also, there is very limited availability of housing and acceptable foster care homes. Even Section 8 housing has a 2+ years waiting list. If she had a man living there and there was domestic violence, she may be able to get into a shelter, but if she is actively using drugs, she would not meet the eligibility requirements. The mother’s best bet is to see if any family members will take them.

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Bump. I am also interested in responses on this.

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Bump. I am also interested in responses on this.

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Bump. I am also interested in responses on this.

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Bump. I am also interested in responses on this.

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Bump. I am also interested in responses on this.

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Cabal–I am sorry about the premenopause comment….I couldnt tell from the post the gender. If there are any other females out there–though the post still stands….

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Cabal–I am sorry about the premenopause comment….I couldnt tell from the post the gender. If there are any other females out there–though the post still stands….

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Cabal–I am sorry about the premenopause comment….I couldnt tell from the post the gender. If there are any other females out there–though the post still stands….

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Cabal–I am sorry about the premenopause comment….I couldnt tell from the post the gender. If there are any other females out there–though the post still stands….

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Cabal–I am sorry about the premenopause comment….I couldnt tell from the post the gender. If there are any other females out there–though the post still stands….

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Wow. Many years ago on a road trip back from LV I was thinking about how people crossed in covered wagons. They lived to get out west and died in childbirth, and sometimes due to weather conditions/food were left to die without burial. Each day was a fight for survival. They didn’t have time to worry about whether they were happy, had no future, directionless, etc.

Unfortunately, or fortunately for us, because our basic needs are met, we have the time and energy to contemplate this ideal of “happiness.” Maybe, we aren’t supposed to be happy? Maybe, just being “okay” is good enough? Would it help to adjust your expectations?

Sounds like you are here for Erikson’s Stages of Development:
7. Middle Adulthood: 35 to 55 or 65

Ego Development Outcome: Generativity vs. Self absorption or Stagnation

Basic Strengths: Production and Care

Now work is most crucial. Erikson observed that middle-age is when we tend to be occupied with creative and meaningful work and with issues surrounding our family. Also, middle adulthood is when we can expect to “be in charge,” the role we’ve longer envied.

The significant task is to perpetuate culture and transmit values of the culture through the family (taming the kids) and working to establish a stable environment. Strength comes through care of others and production of something that contributes to the betterment of society, which Erikson calls generativity, so when we’re in this stage we often fear inactivity and meaninglessness.

As our children leave home, or our relationships or goals change, we may be faced with major life changes—the mid-life crisis—and struggle with finding new meanings and purposes. If we don’t get through this stage successfully, we can become self-absorbed and stagnate.

Significant relationships are within the workplace, the community and the family.
http://www.learningplaceonline.com/stages/organize/Erikson.htm

The other thing that came to mind, and I am quite serious is: Pre-Menopause. Could be your hormones are all jacked up. For a holistic approach, recommend, per day:
1 capsule 1000 mg Vitamin C
1 capsule Phyto-Estrogen
Daily Tincture of Vitex, Elixir for Women

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Wow. Many years ago on a road trip back from LV I was thinking about how people crossed in covered wagons. They lived to get out west and died in childbirth, and sometimes due to weather conditions/food were left to die without burial. Each day was a fight for survival. They didn’t have time to worry about whether they were happy, had no future, directionless, etc.

Unfortunately, or fortunately for us, because our basic needs are met, we have the time and energy to contemplate this ideal of “happiness.” Maybe, we aren’t supposed to be happy? Maybe, just being “okay” is good enough? Would it help to adjust your expectations?

Sounds like you are here for Erikson’s Stages of Development:
7. Middle Adulthood: 35 to 55 or 65

Ego Development Outcome: Generativity vs. Self absorption or Stagnation

Basic Strengths: Production and Care

Now work is most crucial. Erikson observed that middle-age is when we tend to be occupied with creative and meaningful work and with issues surrounding our family. Also, middle adulthood is when we can expect to “be in charge,” the role we’ve longer envied.

The significant task is to perpetuate culture and transmit values of the culture through the family (taming the kids) and working to establish a stable environment. Strength comes through care of others and production of something that contributes to the betterment of society, which Erikson calls generativity, so when we’re in this stage we often fear inactivity and meaninglessness.

As our children leave home, or our relationships or goals change, we may be faced with major life changes—the mid-life crisis—and struggle with finding new meanings and purposes. If we don’t get through this stage successfully, we can become self-absorbed and stagnate.

Significant relationships are within the workplace, the community and the family.
http://www.learningplaceonline.com/stages/organize/Erikson.htm

The other thing that came to mind, and I am quite serious is: Pre-Menopause. Could be your hormones are all jacked up. For a holistic approach, recommend, per day:
1 capsule 1000 mg Vitamin C
1 capsule Phyto-Estrogen
Daily Tincture of Vitex, Elixir for Women

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Wow. Many years ago on a road trip back from LV I was thinking about how people crossed in covered wagons. They lived to get out west and died in childbirth, and sometimes due to weather conditions/food were left to die without burial. Each day was a fight for survival. They didn’t have time to worry about whether they were happy, had no future, directionless, etc.

Unfortunately, or fortunately for us, because our basic needs are met, we have the time and energy to contemplate this ideal of “happiness.” Maybe, we aren’t supposed to be happy? Maybe, just being “okay” is good enough? Would it help to adjust your expectations?

Sounds like you are here for Erikson’s Stages of Development:
7. Middle Adulthood: 35 to 55 or 65

Ego Development Outcome: Generativity vs. Self absorption or Stagnation

Basic Strengths: Production and Care

Now work is most crucial. Erikson observed that middle-age is when we tend to be occupied with creative and meaningful work and with issues surrounding our family. Also, middle adulthood is when we can expect to “be in charge,” the role we’ve longer envied.

The significant task is to perpetuate culture and transmit values of the culture through the family (taming the kids) and working to establish a stable environment. Strength comes through care of others and production of something that contributes to the betterment of society, which Erikson calls generativity, so when we’re in this stage we often fear inactivity and meaninglessness.

As our children leave home, or our relationships or goals change, we may be faced with major life changes—the mid-life crisis—and struggle with finding new meanings and purposes. If we don’t get through this stage successfully, we can become self-absorbed and stagnate.

Significant relationships are within the workplace, the community and the family.
http://www.learningplaceonline.com/stages/organize/Erikson.htm

The other thing that came to mind, and I am quite serious is: Pre-Menopause. Could be your hormones are all jacked up. For a holistic approach, recommend, per day:
1 capsule 1000 mg Vitamin C
1 capsule Phyto-Estrogen
Daily Tincture of Vitex, Elixir for Women

[Ricechex]

Wow. Many years ago on a road trip back from LV I was thinking about how people crossed in covered wagons. They lived to get out west and died in childbirth, and sometimes due to weather conditions/food were left to die without burial. Each day was a fight for survival. They didn’t have time to worry about whether they were happy, had no future, directionless, etc.

Unfortunately, or fortunately for us, because our basic needs are met, we have the time and energy to contemplate this ideal of “happiness.” Maybe, we aren’t supposed to be happy? Maybe, just being “okay” is good enough? Would it help to adjust your expectations?

Sounds like you are here for Erikson’s Stages of Development:
7. Middle Adulthood: 35 to 55 or 65

Ego Development Outcome: Generativity vs. Self absorption or Stagnation

Basic Strengths: Production and Care

Now work is most crucial. Erikson observed that middle-age is when we tend to be occupied with creative and meaningful work and with issues surrounding our family. Also, middle adulthood is when we can expect to “be in charge,” the role we’ve longer envied.

The significant task is to perpetuate culture and transmit values of the culture through the family (taming the kids) and working to establish a stable environment. Strength comes through care of others and production of something that contributes to the betterment of society, which Erikson calls generativity, so when we’re in this stage we often fear inactivity and meaninglessness.

As our children leave home, or our relationships or goals change, we may be faced with major life changes—the mid-life crisis—and struggle with finding new meanings and purposes. If we don’t get through this stage successfully, we can become self-absorbed and stagnate.

Significant relationships are within the workplace, the community and the family.
http://www.learningplaceonline.com/stages/organize/Erikson.htm

The other thing that came to mind, and I am quite serious is: Pre-Menopause. Could be your hormones are all jacked up. For a holistic approach, recommend, per day:
1 capsule 1000 mg Vitamin C
1 capsule Phyto-Estrogen
Daily Tincture of Vitex, Elixir for Women

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