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Participantsdr, I truly did not notice the dates. Maybe it might take YOU 30 mins to post but it only took ME 5 mins, tops. I’m a fast composer and typist 🙂
Participantsdr, I truly did not notice the dates. Maybe it might take YOU 30 mins to post but it only took ME 5 mins, tops. I’m a fast composer and typist 🙂
Participant[quote=afx114] . . . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pN253RLDdM8[/quote]
This old clip of Arnold just further reinforces my not-so-expert opinion that Arnold is an “N.”
Participant[quote=afx114] . . . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pN253RLDdM8[/quote]
This old clip of Arnold just further reinforces my not-so-expert opinion that Arnold is an “N.”
Participant[quote=afx114] . . . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pN253RLDdM8[/quote]
This old clip of Arnold just further reinforces my not-so-expert opinion that Arnold is an “N.”
Participant[quote=afx114] . . . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pN253RLDdM8[/quote]
This old clip of Arnold just further reinforces my not-so-expert opinion that Arnold is an “N.”
Participant[quote=afx114] . . . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pN253RLDdM8[/quote]
This old clip of Arnold just further reinforces my not-so-expert opinion that Arnold is an “N.”
Participant[quote=eavesdropper] . . . Added to that is the fact that the children of the two women were born less than a week apart. Ms. Shriver’s feelings of betrayal in these circumstances cannot be overestimated. Anyone can make a mistake, as Mr. Schwarzenegger certainly did in engaging in an extramarital affair with a married member of his personal household staff. But to compound it to this degree, in my eyes, is not only incredibly arrogant on his part, but unthinkably cruel and heartless . . .[/quote]
A very astute observation, eavesdropper. As I stated earlier, In my non-expert opinion, Arnold showed several tell-tale signs of suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), even prior to the leak of his “love-child” revelation.
http://piggington.com/ot_holy_crap_schwarzenegger_and_shriver_splitting_up
As you may be aware, there is no cure for this “affliction.” For successful long-term mental and emotional survival, repeated “victims” of a person so afflicted are encouraged in all the literature on the subject to cut off contact with the NPD or “N” and never look back (to maintain their own sense of self and self-image). Obviously, many “victims,” such as Maria here, have family with the “N.” In that case, communication with the “N” should get straight to the point having to do with the mutual family member only, to prevent getting “sucked back into” the (often charismatic) “N’s” web (preferably in writing).
see: http://www.medicinenet.com/narcissistic_personality_disorder/article.htm
The study of NPD is indeed fascinating.
Participant[quote=eavesdropper] . . . Added to that is the fact that the children of the two women were born less than a week apart. Ms. Shriver’s feelings of betrayal in these circumstances cannot be overestimated. Anyone can make a mistake, as Mr. Schwarzenegger certainly did in engaging in an extramarital affair with a married member of his personal household staff. But to compound it to this degree, in my eyes, is not only incredibly arrogant on his part, but unthinkably cruel and heartless . . .[/quote]
A very astute observation, eavesdropper. As I stated earlier, In my non-expert opinion, Arnold showed several tell-tale signs of suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), even prior to the leak of his “love-child” revelation.
http://piggington.com/ot_holy_crap_schwarzenegger_and_shriver_splitting_up
As you may be aware, there is no cure for this “affliction.” For successful long-term mental and emotional survival, repeated “victims” of a person so afflicted are encouraged in all the literature on the subject to cut off contact with the NPD or “N” and never look back (to maintain their own sense of self and self-image). Obviously, many “victims,” such as Maria here, have family with the “N.” In that case, communication with the “N” should get straight to the point having to do with the mutual family member only, to prevent getting “sucked back into” the (often charismatic) “N’s” web (preferably in writing).
see: http://www.medicinenet.com/narcissistic_personality_disorder/article.htm
The study of NPD is indeed fascinating.
Participant[quote=eavesdropper] . . . Added to that is the fact that the children of the two women were born less than a week apart. Ms. Shriver’s feelings of betrayal in these circumstances cannot be overestimated. Anyone can make a mistake, as Mr. Schwarzenegger certainly did in engaging in an extramarital affair with a married member of his personal household staff. But to compound it to this degree, in my eyes, is not only incredibly arrogant on his part, but unthinkably cruel and heartless . . .[/quote]
A very astute observation, eavesdropper. As I stated earlier, In my non-expert opinion, Arnold showed several tell-tale signs of suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), even prior to the leak of his “love-child” revelation.
http://piggington.com/ot_holy_crap_schwarzenegger_and_shriver_splitting_up
As you may be aware, there is no cure for this “affliction.” For successful long-term mental and emotional survival, repeated “victims” of a person so afflicted are encouraged in all the literature on the subject to cut off contact with the NPD or “N” and never look back (to maintain their own sense of self and self-image). Obviously, many “victims,” such as Maria here, have family with the “N.” In that case, communication with the “N” should get straight to the point having to do with the mutual family member only, to prevent getting “sucked back into” the (often charismatic) “N’s” web (preferably in writing).
see: http://www.medicinenet.com/narcissistic_personality_disorder/article.htm
The study of NPD is indeed fascinating.
Participant[quote=eavesdropper] . . . Added to that is the fact that the children of the two women were born less than a week apart. Ms. Shriver’s feelings of betrayal in these circumstances cannot be overestimated. Anyone can make a mistake, as Mr. Schwarzenegger certainly did in engaging in an extramarital affair with a married member of his personal household staff. But to compound it to this degree, in my eyes, is not only incredibly arrogant on his part, but unthinkably cruel and heartless . . .[/quote]
A very astute observation, eavesdropper. As I stated earlier, In my non-expert opinion, Arnold showed several tell-tale signs of suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), even prior to the leak of his “love-child” revelation.
http://piggington.com/ot_holy_crap_schwarzenegger_and_shriver_splitting_up
As you may be aware, there is no cure for this “affliction.” For successful long-term mental and emotional survival, repeated “victims” of a person so afflicted are encouraged in all the literature on the subject to cut off contact with the NPD or “N” and never look back (to maintain their own sense of self and self-image). Obviously, many “victims,” such as Maria here, have family with the “N.” In that case, communication with the “N” should get straight to the point having to do with the mutual family member only, to prevent getting “sucked back into” the (often charismatic) “N’s” web (preferably in writing).
see: http://www.medicinenet.com/narcissistic_personality_disorder/article.htm
The study of NPD is indeed fascinating.
Participant[quote=eavesdropper] . . . Added to that is the fact that the children of the two women were born less than a week apart. Ms. Shriver’s feelings of betrayal in these circumstances cannot be overestimated. Anyone can make a mistake, as Mr. Schwarzenegger certainly did in engaging in an extramarital affair with a married member of his personal household staff. But to compound it to this degree, in my eyes, is not only incredibly arrogant on his part, but unthinkably cruel and heartless . . .[/quote]
A very astute observation, eavesdropper. As I stated earlier, In my non-expert opinion, Arnold showed several tell-tale signs of suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), even prior to the leak of his “love-child” revelation.
http://piggington.com/ot_holy_crap_schwarzenegger_and_shriver_splitting_up
As you may be aware, there is no cure for this “affliction.” For successful long-term mental and emotional survival, repeated “victims” of a person so afflicted are encouraged in all the literature on the subject to cut off contact with the NPD or “N” and never look back (to maintain their own sense of self and self-image). Obviously, many “victims,” such as Maria here, have family with the “N.” In that case, communication with the “N” should get straight to the point having to do with the mutual family member only, to prevent getting “sucked back into” the (often charismatic) “N’s” web (preferably in writing).
see: http://www.medicinenet.com/narcissistic_personality_disorder/article.htm
The study of NPD is indeed fascinating.
Participantnybuyer, do you have your heart set on new construction? Would you consider construction +/- 20 years old up to five miles inland (coastal/semi-coastal zone) which has been gutted and remodeled and is “like new.” By limiting yourself to “new” and “near-new” construction, you are, much more often than not, limiting yourself to properties encumbered by HOAs and Mello-Roos and situated in inferior areas to the more well-established areas. The first Community Facilities Districts (CFD’s) in SD County were formed 24 years ago. Since then, as more and more as time went by, it became “mandatory” for developers to assist in the formation of or join into an existing CFD when they sought to subdivide raw land for development within the county. This was/is generally the case unless the land was/is “infill,” that is, it has already been developed all around it or is replacing previous demolished residential or commercial construction at the site. In these instances, the public services for the development were already in place.
The area where you grew up (South Bay area of LA County) is very well-established, where, in general, the rights of its SFR property owners remain intact. When you purchase an HOA encumbered property, you lose part of those rights and must adhere to CC&R’s, another layer of government/bureaucracy.
SD County has MANY well-maintained public golf courses where you could regularly play for a FRACTION of what it would cost you than if the course belonged to your HOA.
You are correct in that MR in general is not tax-deductible and in the areas encumbered by exhorbitant MR ($3500+ annually), signing up for it is akin to taking out a large second mortgage (sans the mortgage-interest deduction)!
Participantnybuyer, do you have your heart set on new construction? Would you consider construction +/- 20 years old up to five miles inland (coastal/semi-coastal zone) which has been gutted and remodeled and is “like new.” By limiting yourself to “new” and “near-new” construction, you are, much more often than not, limiting yourself to properties encumbered by HOAs and Mello-Roos and situated in inferior areas to the more well-established areas. The first Community Facilities Districts (CFD’s) in SD County were formed 24 years ago. Since then, as more and more as time went by, it became “mandatory” for developers to assist in the formation of or join into an existing CFD when they sought to subdivide raw land for development within the county. This was/is generally the case unless the land was/is “infill,” that is, it has already been developed all around it or is replacing previous demolished residential or commercial construction at the site. In these instances, the public services for the development were already in place.
The area where you grew up (South Bay area of LA County) is very well-established, where, in general, the rights of its SFR property owners remain intact. When you purchase an HOA encumbered property, you lose part of those rights and must adhere to CC&R’s, another layer of government/bureaucracy.
SD County has MANY well-maintained public golf courses where you could regularly play for a FRACTION of what it would cost you than if the course belonged to your HOA.
You are correct in that MR in general is not tax-deductible and in the areas encumbered by exhorbitant MR ($3500+ annually), signing up for it is akin to taking out a large second mortgage (sans the mortgage-interest deduction)!
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