[quote=justme]My comment essentially said “insecurity as a validation or excuse for bad behavior is allowed only for women”, and pointing out the inequity of the situation.
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I certainly am not validating or excusing insecurity as a basis for cheating and I NEVER said its only allowed for woman, nor am I saying its the reason why cheating occurs. Simply that I see a correlation. Umm, I think you are mad libbing here because those things were never stated.
You and I might as well be on different planets because your analogy makes no sense.
[quote=zzz]
I certainly am not validating or excusing insecurity as a basis for cheating and I NEVER said its only allowed for woman, nor am I saying its the reason why cheating occurs. Simply that I see a correlation. Umm, I think you are mad libbing here because those things were never stated.
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That’s great, but you seem not to understand that none of my comments before this one ARE ABOUT YOU! I was talking about a concept (the “insecurity defense”) that happened to be highlighted by something you said.
I repeat, this time, and only this time, the posting IS about you, and what I am saying is IT WAS NOT ABOUT YOU!
[quote=zzz]
I certainly am not validating or excusing insecurity as a basis for cheating and I NEVER said its only allowed for woman, nor am I saying its the reason why cheating occurs. Simply that I see a correlation. Umm, I think you are mad libbing here because those things were never stated.
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That’s great, but you seem not to understand that none of my comments before this one ARE ABOUT YOU! I was talking about a concept (the “insecurity defense”) that happened to be highlighted by something you said.
I repeat, this time, and only this time, the posting IS about you, and what I am saying is IT WAS NOT ABOUT YOU!
[quote=zzz]
I certainly am not validating or excusing insecurity as a basis for cheating and I NEVER said its only allowed for woman, nor am I saying its the reason why cheating occurs. Simply that I see a correlation. Umm, I think you are mad libbing here because those things were never stated.
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That’s great, but you seem not to understand that none of my comments before this one ARE ABOUT YOU! I was talking about a concept (the “insecurity defense”) that happened to be highlighted by something you said.
I repeat, this time, and only this time, the posting IS about you, and what I am saying is IT WAS NOT ABOUT YOU!
[quote=zzz]
I certainly am not validating or excusing insecurity as a basis for cheating and I NEVER said its only allowed for woman, nor am I saying its the reason why cheating occurs. Simply that I see a correlation. Umm, I think you are mad libbing here because those things were never stated.
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That’s great, but you seem not to understand that none of my comments before this one ARE ABOUT YOU! I was talking about a concept (the “insecurity defense”) that happened to be highlighted by something you said.
I repeat, this time, and only this time, the posting IS about you, and what I am saying is IT WAS NOT ABOUT YOU!
[quote=zzz]
I certainly am not validating or excusing insecurity as a basis for cheating and I NEVER said its only allowed for woman, nor am I saying its the reason why cheating occurs. Simply that I see a correlation. Umm, I think you are mad libbing here because those things were never stated.
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That’s great, but you seem not to understand that none of my comments before this one ARE ABOUT YOU! I was talking about a concept (the “insecurity defense”) that happened to be highlighted by something you said.
I repeat, this time, and only this time, the posting IS about you, and what I am saying is IT WAS NOT ABOUT YOU!
