Affairs of the heart…

[patientrenter]

My last reference to you was tongue-in-cheek, Marion. My only point is that if I exercised the same financial prudence in considering marriage as most Piggingtons do buying a home, then I’d need to double my assets first, unless someone’s discovered a truly sure way to keep separate assets separate.

Patient renter in OC

[VoZangre]

Uy!

Cantankerous, eh?

Would I PREFER joint accounts and such? Yes.

Is it wise considering she’s so much in the red? No.

It’s not a point I am proud of. It simply is a fact.

I am not exposing her financially. I won’t allow myself to be exposed either. It is not my fault nor responsibility that she was fiscally unwise or naive.

The situation as it is makes me a little sad, truth be told.

[VoZangre]

Uy!

Cantankerous, eh?

Would I PREFER joint accounts and such? Yes.

Is it wise considering she’s so much in the red? No.

It’s not a point I am proud of. It simply is a fact.

I am not exposing her financially. I won’t allow myself to be exposed either. It is not my fault nor responsibility that she was fiscally unwise or naive.

The situation as it is makes me a little sad, truth be told.

[VoZangre]

Uy!

Cantankerous, eh?

Would I PREFER joint accounts and such? Yes.

Is it wise considering she’s so much in the red? No.

It’s not a point I am proud of. It simply is a fact.

I am not exposing her financially. I won’t allow myself to be exposed either. It is not my fault nor responsibility that she was fiscally unwise or naive.

The situation as it is makes me a little sad, truth be told.

[VoZangre]

Uy!

Cantankerous, eh?

Would I PREFER joint accounts and such? Yes.

Is it wise considering she’s so much in the red? No.

It’s not a point I am proud of. It simply is a fact.

I am not exposing her financially. I won’t allow myself to be exposed either. It is not my fault nor responsibility that she was fiscally unwise or naive.

The situation as it is makes me a little sad, truth be told.

[VoZangre]

Uy!

Cantankerous, eh?

Would I PREFER joint accounts and such? Yes.

Is it wise considering she’s so much in the red? No.

It’s not a point I am proud of. It simply is a fact.

I am not exposing her financially. I won’t allow myself to be exposed either. It is not my fault nor responsibility that she was fiscally unwise or naive.

The situation as it is makes me a little sad, truth be told.

[drunkle]

this thread has me alternately disgusted, amused, horrified and jaded.

if the mention of a pre nup @ 4 dates hasn’t turned you off, if your suggestion of a nice date hasn’t turned him off, what’s the problem? keep marching, soldier, the war aint won yet.

[drunkle]

this thread has me alternately disgusted, amused, horrified and jaded.

if the mention of a pre nup @ 4 dates hasn’t turned you off, if your suggestion of a nice date hasn’t turned him off, what’s the problem? keep marching, soldier, the war aint won yet.

[drunkle]

this thread has me alternately disgusted, amused, horrified and jaded.

if the mention of a pre nup @ 4 dates hasn’t turned you off, if your suggestion of a nice date hasn’t turned him off, what’s the problem? keep marching, soldier, the war aint won yet.

[drunkle]

this thread has me alternately disgusted, amused, horrified and jaded.

if the mention of a pre nup @ 4 dates hasn’t turned you off, if your suggestion of a nice date hasn’t turned him off, what’s the problem? keep marching, soldier, the war aint won yet.

[drunkle]

this thread has me alternately disgusted, amused, horrified and jaded.

if the mention of a pre nup @ 4 dates hasn’t turned you off, if your suggestion of a nice date hasn’t turned him off, what’s the problem? keep marching, soldier, the war aint won yet.

[patientrenter]

I’ve had a similar experience, VoZangre. She had horrible credit, liens from the IRS, the works. I wanted to take care of her nevertheless, and I did for a long time. I just couldn’t allow my own financial future to depend on her financial judgment. Selfish? Perhaps, but how can she turn to you for security if you allow her to destroy that security, inadvertently or otherwise?

Patient renter in OC

[patientrenter]

I’ve had a similar experience, VoZangre. She had horrible credit, liens from the IRS, the works. I wanted to take care of her nevertheless, and I did for a long time. I just couldn’t allow my own financial future to depend on her financial judgment. Selfish? Perhaps, but how can she turn to you for security if you allow her to destroy that security, inadvertently or otherwise?

Patient renter in OC

[patientrenter]

I’ve had a similar experience, VoZangre. She had horrible credit, liens from the IRS, the works. I wanted to take care of her nevertheless, and I did for a long time. I just couldn’t allow my own financial future to depend on her financial judgment. Selfish? Perhaps, but how can she turn to you for security if you allow her to destroy that security, inadvertently or otherwise?

Patient renter in OC

[patientrenter]

I’ve had a similar experience, VoZangre. She had horrible credit, liens from the IRS, the works. I wanted to take care of her nevertheless, and I did for a long time. I just couldn’t allow my own financial future to depend on her financial judgment. Selfish? Perhaps, but how can she turn to you for security if you allow her to destroy that security, inadvertently or otherwise?

Patient renter in OC

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