LA_Renter, You’re the problem, not those who go for it. This is the land of opportunity. You have the same ability to get anything you want as those who have what you want. You just need to quit blaming others for having what you want. Only then, can get on with your life and figure out how to get you want. Keep in mind, you can only get what you want if you deserve to get it.
“You ca have anything you want if you just help enough people get what they want.” Zig Zigglar
Quit making excuses, get off your butt and quit your whinning. You deserve what you have if it’s what you went for.