It simply means I maybe biased toward China. For example, if you can’t get through China’s Great Firewall, then you are not as smart as you think. My cousin’s house in Shanghai have all TV channels including all Taiwan’s channels. I think Taiwan is part of China and I don’t buy self-determination crapola. Of course, if Taiwan beats China during the potential invasion, Taiwan can do whatever she wants but not before. Personally, I think Dalai Lama is closer to a terrorist than you think. Let me ask you who opened fire first before his exile (go look at CIA report). And there is nothing wrong to develop military technology. Heck, we are still building new nuclear warheads when we are trying to stop so called the axis of evils from building their first (you do know hypocrites go to one of lowest level of hell right).
As bussinessmen having mistreses, I went out with one of the richest man from Shenzhen according to my cousin, he refuses to go to hostess bars, and we spent whole night in a legit KTV place. My uncle manages 5 factories in Shanghai, he doesn’t have a mistress. Maybe your classmates are just unfaithful husbands. I think it speak more about them and your association with them. Btw, we did went to a hostess bar the next day, and several of the married men actually have their wives with them (and no we didn’t take the hostess out :)).
However, I am still very critical of Chinese policies as you can see from my post above, and I think you are the one need to get REAL.