[quote=moneymaker]Kev, not sure if this is good advice, but I can totally see Charlie Sheen’s character doing it this way. Let her catch you with someone else, then she will think the breakup is her idea. Just make sure she doesn’t have a conceal/carry permit first, or own a gun for that matter.[/quote]
This is also why I think people almost purposely cheat to get caught to force a breakup since most people won’t stick around to allow that…They almost WANT to be caught.
I really think that you really aren’t in the same place as her and she’s giving you these ultimatums pretty much to hint that she doesn’t want to waste anymore time on you.
You think you’re being clear, but like men complain that women need to be direct, you’ll doing the same thing because being direct (and I agree) is very very hard with an insane/upset/crazy/sad/sobbing g/f / anyone…
Bottom line is you don’t want what she wants NOW…that may change and you read about stories of people breaking up, getting back together, or regretting breaking up later and never getting back together, but that’s where things are now…