[quote=spdrun]As long as he’s not acting like a complete arsehole, it’s frankly none of their damn business. They can be nervous on their own time and keep it to themselves.

(Along with other sexist/racist beliefs.) Anyway, he’s not self-invited; he was invited by a tenant, whose judgement you presumably trust enough to want to rent to her/him in the first place.

In short: as long as my tenant is paying, and no one in the apartment is doing anything illegal or destructive, I really don’t want to know who’s boinking whom.[/quote]

I did not think they my neighbors or I were out of line at all when it happened in my rental. I thanked them and apologized. If a person is supposed to come through the landlord, I don’t care if it is sexual or not , that’s not the point. The point is how was the occupancy negotiated? You want people you deal with to act in accordance with negotiations. right? What is racist or sexist about that?