Whatgoesup – I don’t mean to sound condescending but you soung like you are young… Not young like kid young but young like maybe 20’s or something like that. Sounds like the former girlfriend is in the same boat or maybe younger. Many times people who want something or are behaving in certain manners become accusatory. Many a person who is cheating is the more insecure person in the relationship. Time heals all wounds but if you have the control over how you spend that time healing. Try to be strong over the next several weeks as those will most likely be the harder ones.