I'm actually more curious in what jobs marion is seeking in that she keeps getting turned down. Are you getting turned down pre-interview (like getting rejection letters even before setting foot in the office), or are you getting turned down after on site interviews? Just asking, because the first one is very easy to correct. Second one harder to figure out, but nevertheless can be figured out in retrospect.
BTW: you seem pretty bright, so I probably don't need to tell you. Never volunteer information in an interview about your personal life. EVAR…Employers SHOULD NEVER ask you anything about your personal life to begin with, so there's no need to talk about. If someone does ask you, dance around it.
Post your resume up here with your address and personal information removed, and let us critique it if that's the problem.