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I have no idea why you’re offended by this comment. Do you disagree that some woman are insecure? I never said men weren’t insecure. I simply observed that a large number of woman I know are insecure and this seems to be a huge factor in cheating for the woman I KNOW. I never suggested its a good excuse. Your logic is way off, just because something applies to woman does not mean it applies or does not apply to men. This isn’t about how opposite women or men are. And your Hitler comment really has no basis in this conversation.

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I have no idea why you’re offended by this comment. Do you disagree that some woman are insecure? I never said men weren’t insecure. I simply observed that a large number of woman I know are insecure and this seems to be a huge factor in cheating for the woman I KNOW. I never suggested its a good excuse. Your logic is way off, just because something applies to woman does not mean it applies or does not apply to men. This isn’t about how opposite women or men are. And your Hitler comment really has no basis in this conversation.

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The law is not the same for debit cards. From the FTC. Again, it DEPENDS on how you report it and personally I do not want to be held to interpretation

http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/edu/pubs/consumer/credit/cre04.shtm

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The law is not the same for debit cards. From the FTC. Again, it DEPENDS on how you report it and personally I do not want to be held to interpretation

http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/edu/pubs/consumer/credit/cre04.shtm

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The law is not the same for debit cards. From the FTC. Again, it DEPENDS on how you report it and personally I do not want to be held to interpretation

http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/edu/pubs/consumer/credit/cre04.shtm

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The law is not the same for debit cards. From the FTC. Again, it DEPENDS on how you report it and personally I do not want to be held to interpretation

http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/edu/pubs/consumer/credit/cre04.shtm

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The law is not the same for debit cards. From the FTC. Again, it DEPENDS on how you report it and personally I do not want to be held to interpretation

http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/edu/pubs/consumer/credit/cre04.shtm

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Using your debit card is not like using your credit card. Debit card transactions are processed by Visa for instance, but its still not a credit transaction and therefore you are not protected under the federal credit card laws.

Like you just said, its up to the discretion of your bank to reimburse you. Very different than you not paying your credit card and disputing any fraudulent charges. I dont read the fine print on my bank account, do you? Some of the definitions around your liability are with how responsible you were with your debit card. Lets assume you left your bank debit card at a bar, and due to being drunk, you didn’t realize you left it until a day later. In the meantime, someone went out and bought thousands of dollars, cleaning out your bank account. Can you be held liable for this because technically you weren’t being responsible?

Numbers are often stolen while you are in possession of your card, compromised at big box stores, not to mention stolen directly by people who come in contact with your card. I personally do not want to discover that my checking account has been cleaned out with fraudulent “charges” that really aren’t charges but debit withdrawals.

I preach this to people who’ve had their debit card numbers stolen. I do not even have a Visa logo on my bank debit cards.

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Using your debit card is not like using your credit card. Debit card transactions are processed by Visa for instance, but its still not a credit transaction and therefore you are not protected under the federal credit card laws.

Like you just said, its up to the discretion of your bank to reimburse you. Very different than you not paying your credit card and disputing any fraudulent charges. I dont read the fine print on my bank account, do you? Some of the definitions around your liability are with how responsible you were with your debit card. Lets assume you left your bank debit card at a bar, and due to being drunk, you didn’t realize you left it until a day later. In the meantime, someone went out and bought thousands of dollars, cleaning out your bank account. Can you be held liable for this because technically you weren’t being responsible?

Numbers are often stolen while you are in possession of your card, compromised at big box stores, not to mention stolen directly by people who come in contact with your card. I personally do not want to discover that my checking account has been cleaned out with fraudulent “charges” that really aren’t charges but debit withdrawals.

I preach this to people who’ve had their debit card numbers stolen. I do not even have a Visa logo on my bank debit cards.

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Using your debit card is not like using your credit card. Debit card transactions are processed by Visa for instance, but its still not a credit transaction and therefore you are not protected under the federal credit card laws.

Like you just said, its up to the discretion of your bank to reimburse you. Very different than you not paying your credit card and disputing any fraudulent charges. I dont read the fine print on my bank account, do you? Some of the definitions around your liability are with how responsible you were with your debit card. Lets assume you left your bank debit card at a bar, and due to being drunk, you didn’t realize you left it until a day later. In the meantime, someone went out and bought thousands of dollars, cleaning out your bank account. Can you be held liable for this because technically you weren’t being responsible?

Numbers are often stolen while you are in possession of your card, compromised at big box stores, not to mention stolen directly by people who come in contact with your card. I personally do not want to discover that my checking account has been cleaned out with fraudulent “charges” that really aren’t charges but debit withdrawals.

I preach this to people who’ve had their debit card numbers stolen. I do not even have a Visa logo on my bank debit cards.

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Using your debit card is not like using your credit card. Debit card transactions are processed by Visa for instance, but its still not a credit transaction and therefore you are not protected under the federal credit card laws.

Like you just said, its up to the discretion of your bank to reimburse you. Very different than you not paying your credit card and disputing any fraudulent charges. I dont read the fine print on my bank account, do you? Some of the definitions around your liability are with how responsible you were with your debit card. Lets assume you left your bank debit card at a bar, and due to being drunk, you didn’t realize you left it until a day later. In the meantime, someone went out and bought thousands of dollars, cleaning out your bank account. Can you be held liable for this because technically you weren’t being responsible?

Numbers are often stolen while you are in possession of your card, compromised at big box stores, not to mention stolen directly by people who come in contact with your card. I personally do not want to discover that my checking account has been cleaned out with fraudulent “charges” that really aren’t charges but debit withdrawals.

I preach this to people who’ve had their debit card numbers stolen. I do not even have a Visa logo on my bank debit cards.

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Using your debit card is not like using your credit card. Debit card transactions are processed by Visa for instance, but its still not a credit transaction and therefore you are not protected under the federal credit card laws.

Like you just said, its up to the discretion of your bank to reimburse you. Very different than you not paying your credit card and disputing any fraudulent charges. I dont read the fine print on my bank account, do you? Some of the definitions around your liability are with how responsible you were with your debit card. Lets assume you left your bank debit card at a bar, and due to being drunk, you didn’t realize you left it until a day later. In the meantime, someone went out and bought thousands of dollars, cleaning out your bank account. Can you be held liable for this because technically you weren’t being responsible?

Numbers are often stolen while you are in possession of your card, compromised at big box stores, not to mention stolen directly by people who come in contact with your card. I personally do not want to discover that my checking account has been cleaned out with fraudulent “charges” that really aren’t charges but debit withdrawals.

I preach this to people who’ve had their debit card numbers stolen. I do not even have a Visa logo on my bank debit cards.

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I have to agree that I believe most people cheat, period. I have seen too much inappropriate behavior amongst men and woman, married or in a long term committed relationship. Cheating is to me a broader definition that includes messing around with someone without doing the deed. In other words, I don’t use the Bill Clinton dictionary.

I also have to agree that its often the ones that appear the least likely to cheat are probably cheating but GREAT about hiding it.

I have friends who everyone thinks they have such the perfect family, that the husband is amazing, and guess what, he cheats. He doesn’t carry on affairs nor a regular fling, but when he sees a piece of cake that he wants, he eats it. As one man described it to me, just because your favorite food is lasagna doesn’t mean you want to eat it EVERY day, every meal. You might actually want spaghetti, or mexican or chinese.

A LARGE number of woman I know are insecure, I would say the majority of all woman I’ve ever known. They can be smart, beautiful, have a great husband or boyfriend, and yet they still feel insecure. So they cheat because they NEED male attention.

I think most people are completely oblivious to the dynamics between other couples. How can you really know what happens between 2 people? There is a lot of cheating going on that none of us ever hear about nor see.

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I have to agree that I believe most people cheat, period. I have seen too much inappropriate behavior amongst men and woman, married or in a long term committed relationship. Cheating is to me a broader definition that includes messing around with someone without doing the deed. In other words, I don’t use the Bill Clinton dictionary.

I also have to agree that its often the ones that appear the least likely to cheat are probably cheating but GREAT about hiding it.

I have friends who everyone thinks they have such the perfect family, that the husband is amazing, and guess what, he cheats. He doesn’t carry on affairs nor a regular fling, but when he sees a piece of cake that he wants, he eats it. As one man described it to me, just because your favorite food is lasagna doesn’t mean you want to eat it EVERY day, every meal. You might actually want spaghetti, or mexican or chinese.

A LARGE number of woman I know are insecure, I would say the majority of all woman I’ve ever known. They can be smart, beautiful, have a great husband or boyfriend, and yet they still feel insecure. So they cheat because they NEED male attention.

I think most people are completely oblivious to the dynamics between other couples. How can you really know what happens between 2 people? There is a lot of cheating going on that none of us ever hear about nor see.

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I have to agree that I believe most people cheat, period. I have seen too much inappropriate behavior amongst men and woman, married or in a long term committed relationship. Cheating is to me a broader definition that includes messing around with someone without doing the deed. In other words, I don’t use the Bill Clinton dictionary.

I also have to agree that its often the ones that appear the least likely to cheat are probably cheating but GREAT about hiding it.

I have friends who everyone thinks they have such the perfect family, that the husband is amazing, and guess what, he cheats. He doesn’t carry on affairs nor a regular fling, but when he sees a piece of cake that he wants, he eats it. As one man described it to me, just because your favorite food is lasagna doesn’t mean you want to eat it EVERY day, every meal. You might actually want spaghetti, or mexican or chinese.

A LARGE number of woman I know are insecure, I would say the majority of all woman I’ve ever known. They can be smart, beautiful, have a great husband or boyfriend, and yet they still feel insecure. So they cheat because they NEED male attention.

I think most people are completely oblivious to the dynamics between other couples. How can you really know what happens between 2 people? There is a lot of cheating going on that none of us ever hear about nor see.

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