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Thanks flu. My husband and kids will always come first, always. I would never do something like this without 100% agreement from my husband. We have discussed this in depth and reached this compromise. I think paying a minor bill might be a good idea too. I was just thinking to have him save every penny to get him on his feet ASAP.

Thanks surferdp. It will be tough for me to stick to my rules I’ll admit that right now. But I will do it and luckily I KNOW my husband will do it if I waffled even slightly!

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I realize if you don’t have the details and the history on the situation, that my conditions may seem harsh. Trust me, there is a reason for every one of them. Don’t talk in metaphors though, just come out and say it. I’m a big girl and can take what I dish out.

And I agree he probably needs healing. And I know I cannot force anyone to do anything.

The easiest thing in the world would be for me to throw money at him and this has been done several times only to end up in the same situation. My form of help this time is teaching him to fish.

lbjames, thanks for your comments. It will make ALL the difference in the world if I see progress. The time frame is a compromise between my husband and I. I would go longer but I put my husband and kids first and I do everything with my husband through compromise. I do not trust this person to babysit my kids though that would be a nice advantage. And if my house were larger and he was doing great in school/work/life, I would let him rent a room cheap after the time frame. We just do not have the room which is why this is a sacrifice.

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I realize if you don’t have the details and the history on the situation, that my conditions may seem harsh. Trust me, there is a reason for every one of them. Don’t talk in metaphors though, just come out and say it. I’m a big girl and can take what I dish out.

And I agree he probably needs healing. And I know I cannot force anyone to do anything.

The easiest thing in the world would be for me to throw money at him and this has been done several times only to end up in the same situation. My form of help this time is teaching him to fish.

lbjames, thanks for your comments. It will make ALL the difference in the world if I see progress. The time frame is a compromise between my husband and I. I would go longer but I put my husband and kids first and I do everything with my husband through compromise. I do not trust this person to babysit my kids though that would be a nice advantage. And if my house were larger and he was doing great in school/work/life, I would let him rent a room cheap after the time frame. We just do not have the room which is why this is a sacrifice.

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I realize if you don’t have the details and the history on the situation, that my conditions may seem harsh. Trust me, there is a reason for every one of them. Don’t talk in metaphors though, just come out and say it. I’m a big girl and can take what I dish out.

And I agree he probably needs healing. And I know I cannot force anyone to do anything.

The easiest thing in the world would be for me to throw money at him and this has been done several times only to end up in the same situation. My form of help this time is teaching him to fish.

lbjames, thanks for your comments. It will make ALL the difference in the world if I see progress. The time frame is a compromise between my husband and I. I would go longer but I put my husband and kids first and I do everything with my husband through compromise. I do not trust this person to babysit my kids though that would be a nice advantage. And if my house were larger and he was doing great in school/work/life, I would let him rent a room cheap after the time frame. We just do not have the room which is why this is a sacrifice.

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I realize if you don’t have the details and the history on the situation, that my conditions may seem harsh. Trust me, there is a reason for every one of them. Don’t talk in metaphors though, just come out and say it. I’m a big girl and can take what I dish out.

And I agree he probably needs healing. And I know I cannot force anyone to do anything.

The easiest thing in the world would be for me to throw money at him and this has been done several times only to end up in the same situation. My form of help this time is teaching him to fish.

lbjames, thanks for your comments. It will make ALL the difference in the world if I see progress. The time frame is a compromise between my husband and I. I would go longer but I put my husband and kids first and I do everything with my husband through compromise. I do not trust this person to babysit my kids though that would be a nice advantage. And if my house were larger and he was doing great in school/work/life, I would let him rent a room cheap after the time frame. We just do not have the room which is why this is a sacrifice.

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I realize if you don’t have the details and the history on the situation, that my conditions may seem harsh. Trust me, there is a reason for every one of them. Don’t talk in metaphors though, just come out and say it. I’m a big girl and can take what I dish out.

And I agree he probably needs healing. And I know I cannot force anyone to do anything.

The easiest thing in the world would be for me to throw money at him and this has been done several times only to end up in the same situation. My form of help this time is teaching him to fish.

lbjames, thanks for your comments. It will make ALL the difference in the world if I see progress. The time frame is a compromise between my husband and I. I would go longer but I put my husband and kids first and I do everything with my husband through compromise. I do not trust this person to babysit my kids though that would be a nice advantage. And if my house were larger and he was doing great in school/work/life, I would let him rent a room cheap after the time frame. We just do not have the room which is why this is a sacrifice.

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To give you a comparison, we are a family of 5 (2 adults, 3 kids) and SDGE is in the 60’s-70’s until we turn on the heat and it can jump up to around $120 as a high. But we have either 1 or none of the things you listed, we can fit 3 of our houses into yours, and live where we don’t need AC.

Personally, I find the overhead recessed lighting to be inefficient. It seems to me like you need more of them to create the same light compared to just your basic overhead light.

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To give you a comparison, we are a family of 5 (2 adults, 3 kids) and SDGE is in the 60’s-70’s until we turn on the heat and it can jump up to around $120 as a high. But we have either 1 or none of the things you listed, we can fit 3 of our houses into yours, and live where we don’t need AC.

Personally, I find the overhead recessed lighting to be inefficient. It seems to me like you need more of them to create the same light compared to just your basic overhead light.

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To give you a comparison, we are a family of 5 (2 adults, 3 kids) and SDGE is in the 60’s-70’s until we turn on the heat and it can jump up to around $120 as a high. But we have either 1 or none of the things you listed, we can fit 3 of our houses into yours, and live where we don’t need AC.

Personally, I find the overhead recessed lighting to be inefficient. It seems to me like you need more of them to create the same light compared to just your basic overhead light.

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To give you a comparison, we are a family of 5 (2 adults, 3 kids) and SDGE is in the 60’s-70’s until we turn on the heat and it can jump up to around $120 as a high. But we have either 1 or none of the things you listed, we can fit 3 of our houses into yours, and live where we don’t need AC.

Personally, I find the overhead recessed lighting to be inefficient. It seems to me like you need more of them to create the same light compared to just your basic overhead light.

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To give you a comparison, we are a family of 5 (2 adults, 3 kids) and SDGE is in the 60’s-70’s until we turn on the heat and it can jump up to around $120 as a high. But we have either 1 or none of the things you listed, we can fit 3 of our houses into yours, and live where we don’t need AC.

Personally, I find the overhead recessed lighting to be inefficient. It seems to me like you need more of them to create the same light compared to just your basic overhead light.

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Just a bump to say that Norah is truly a gifted and loving individual and I think many Piggs would enjoy the event if they kept an open mind. Plus it was great to meet another Pigg regardless of why. 😉

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Just a bump to say that Norah is truly a gifted and loving individual and I think many Piggs would enjoy the event if they kept an open mind. Plus it was great to meet another Pigg regardless of why. 😉

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Just a bump to say that Norah is truly a gifted and loving individual and I think many Piggs would enjoy the event if they kept an open mind. Plus it was great to meet another Pigg regardless of why. 😉

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Just a bump to say that Norah is truly a gifted and loving individual and I think many Piggs would enjoy the event if they kept an open mind. Plus it was great to meet another Pigg regardless of why. 😉

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