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August 16, 2007 at 12:24 PM #9904August 16, 2007 at 12:41 PM #76445
lonestar2000
ParticipantDo what I do, only show your wife properties that have past your screening. Then she decides to buy the property she likes best from the ones you’re comfortable with buying.
Seriously, my wife is as concerned about finances as I am, so I guess I lucked out. We will not buy unless we’re both happy with the property. We certainly have no shortage of choices now and time is on our side. The longer we wait the better off we’ll be so we’re certainly not in a hurry.
August 16, 2007 at 12:41 PM #76591lonestar2000
ParticipantDo what I do, only show your wife properties that have past your screening. Then she decides to buy the property she likes best from the ones you’re comfortable with buying.
Seriously, my wife is as concerned about finances as I am, so I guess I lucked out. We will not buy unless we’re both happy with the property. We certainly have no shortage of choices now and time is on our side. The longer we wait the better off we’ll be so we’re certainly not in a hurry.
August 16, 2007 at 12:41 PM #76566lonestar2000
ParticipantDo what I do, only show your wife properties that have past your screening. Then she decides to buy the property she likes best from the ones you’re comfortable with buying.
Seriously, my wife is as concerned about finances as I am, so I guess I lucked out. We will not buy unless we’re both happy with the property. We certainly have no shortage of choices now and time is on our side. The longer we wait the better off we’ll be so we’re certainly not in a hurry.
August 16, 2007 at 12:45 PM #76578Nancy_s soothsayer
ParticipantYes, Perry, in my household universe, Nancy is the guiding ship of all things financial. Good thing I read and contribute to this blog while the mathematical-genius spouse sticks only to software engineering. Our net worth has only expanded so far guided by my trusty crystal ball. Nancy, a petite, Catherine Zeta-Jones Asian look-alike, is no reckless, bling-bling, wussy.
August 16, 2007 at 12:45 PM #76457Nancy_s soothsayer
ParticipantYes, Perry, in my household universe, Nancy is the guiding ship of all things financial. Good thing I read and contribute to this blog while the mathematical-genius spouse sticks only to software engineering. Our net worth has only expanded so far guided by my trusty crystal ball. Nancy, a petite, Catherine Zeta-Jones Asian look-alike, is no reckless, bling-bling, wussy.
August 16, 2007 at 12:45 PM #76604Nancy_s soothsayer
ParticipantYes, Perry, in my household universe, Nancy is the guiding ship of all things financial. Good thing I read and contribute to this blog while the mathematical-genius spouse sticks only to software engineering. Our net worth has only expanded so far guided by my trusty crystal ball. Nancy, a petite, Catherine Zeta-Jones Asian look-alike, is no reckless, bling-bling, wussy.
August 16, 2007 at 12:53 PM #76460JES
ParticipantDo a Myers Briggs personality test on your wife. If she comes back an STJ, narrow the choices down before getting her involved. She will want to look at what’s in front of her, be analytical about it and close her options quickly. If she comes back an NFP, let her be the one who hunts and finds all the possibilities. then when it comes time to decide, send her to the kitchen to bake cookies…
August 16, 2007 at 12:53 PM #76607JES
ParticipantDo a Myers Briggs personality test on your wife. If she comes back an STJ, narrow the choices down before getting her involved. She will want to look at what’s in front of her, be analytical about it and close her options quickly. If she comes back an NFP, let her be the one who hunts and finds all the possibilities. then when it comes time to decide, send her to the kitchen to bake cookies…
August 16, 2007 at 12:53 PM #76581JES
ParticipantDo a Myers Briggs personality test on your wife. If she comes back an STJ, narrow the choices down before getting her involved. She will want to look at what’s in front of her, be analytical about it and close her options quickly. If she comes back an NFP, let her be the one who hunts and finds all the possibilities. then when it comes time to decide, send her to the kitchen to bake cookies…
August 16, 2007 at 1:01 PM #76472kagster
ParticipantThe reason i let my wife make the all decision is because I don’t like arguing with her. Here is your budget and stick to it. And yet, she comes back and asks “Sweety, what do you think of this?” or tries to drag me along shopping with her.
When we first bought our first home, i wanted to divorce her because we argued about every little thing. It gets tiring after a while. I’m practical and she’s material. I like modern and she likes antique, especially “cherry” color. On and On.
If you’re not married yet make sure you ask your other half to be about buying a house and what to furnish with it. It will save you a lot of headaches.
August 16, 2007 at 1:01 PM #76619kagster
ParticipantThe reason i let my wife make the all decision is because I don’t like arguing with her. Here is your budget and stick to it. And yet, she comes back and asks “Sweety, what do you think of this?” or tries to drag me along shopping with her.
When we first bought our first home, i wanted to divorce her because we argued about every little thing. It gets tiring after a while. I’m practical and she’s material. I like modern and she likes antique, especially “cherry” color. On and On.
If you’re not married yet make sure you ask your other half to be about buying a house and what to furnish with it. It will save you a lot of headaches.
August 16, 2007 at 1:01 PM #76593kagster
ParticipantThe reason i let my wife make the all decision is because I don’t like arguing with her. Here is your budget and stick to it. And yet, she comes back and asks “Sweety, what do you think of this?” or tries to drag me along shopping with her.
When we first bought our first home, i wanted to divorce her because we argued about every little thing. It gets tiring after a while. I’m practical and she’s material. I like modern and she likes antique, especially “cherry” color. On and On.
If you’re not married yet make sure you ask your other half to be about buying a house and what to furnish with it. It will save you a lot of headaches.
August 16, 2007 at 1:20 PM #76493Critter
ParticipantBlame your lender, blame your agent for encouraging you to buy “as much house as you can afford,” blame your boss for not giving you a raise, and when all else fails… blame your wife for her “nesting urges” leading you to bankruptcy.
August 16, 2007 at 1:20 PM #76640Critter
ParticipantBlame your lender, blame your agent for encouraging you to buy “as much house as you can afford,” blame your boss for not giving you a raise, and when all else fails… blame your wife for her “nesting urges” leading you to bankruptcy.
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