The new smart financial move is walking away

[briansd1]

[quote=AN]
If the guy don’t want to have the kid, then I highly doubt he’ll care if some other guy raises “his” kids. If he didn’t want the kid, then why would he have strong feelings toward his progeny? [/quote]

I agree with you here. That’s why there are plenty of divorces even with children involved.

It’s not what the guy will do.

When the wife does something, it is because she believes it (explicitly or subliminally). It’s not actually what might be true.

I’m sure that having kids is a deterrent to many men from divorcing. I strongly believe that without kids, the divorce rate would be greater than 50%.

Without houses owned in common, the divorce rate would also be even greater. Women like to joke about sending their husbands packing to an apartment in the hood as deterrent.

I think that scaredycat is right in that relationships are about power dynamics. It’s like that in the animal kingdom. Humans are animals.

[an]

[quote=briansd1]
I think that scaredycat is right in that relationships are about power dynamics. It’s like that in the animal kingdom. Humans are animals.[/quote]
Yep, and in the animal kingdom, you have Alpha males but there’s no such thing as Alpha females. Unless you’re a block widow, then you’d be eaten after you mate if you’re a male :-).

[an]

[quote=briansd1]
I think that scaredycat is right in that relationships are about power dynamics. It’s like that in the animal kingdom. Humans are animals.[/quote]
Yep, and in the animal kingdom, you have Alpha males but there’s no such thing as Alpha females. Unless you’re a block widow, then you’d be eaten after you mate if you’re a male :-).

[an]

[quote=briansd1]
I think that scaredycat is right in that relationships are about power dynamics. It’s like that in the animal kingdom. Humans are animals.[/quote]
Yep, and in the animal kingdom, you have Alpha males but there’s no such thing as Alpha females. Unless you’re a block widow, then you’d be eaten after you mate if you’re a male :-).

[an]

[quote=briansd1]
I think that scaredycat is right in that relationships are about power dynamics. It’s like that in the animal kingdom. Humans are animals.[/quote]
Yep, and in the animal kingdom, you have Alpha males but there’s no such thing as Alpha females. Unless you’re a block widow, then you’d be eaten after you mate if you’re a male :-).

[an]

[quote=briansd1]
I think that scaredycat is right in that relationships are about power dynamics. It’s like that in the animal kingdom. Humans are animals.[/quote]
Yep, and in the animal kingdom, you have Alpha males but there’s no such thing as Alpha females. Unless you’re a block widow, then you’d be eaten after you mate if you’re a male :-).

[jpinpb]

Okay. Back to the topic at hand after the hijack.

Some people don’t want to walk away and mar their credit. Some try the loan modification route. So check this out:

Credit scores can drop after getting loan help

They really do want you to just walk.

[jpinpb]

Okay. Back to the topic at hand after the hijack.

Some people don’t want to walk away and mar their credit. Some try the loan modification route. So check this out:

Credit scores can drop after getting loan help

They really do want you to just walk.

[jpinpb]

Okay. Back to the topic at hand after the hijack.

Some people don’t want to walk away and mar their credit. Some try the loan modification route. So check this out:

Credit scores can drop after getting loan help

They really do want you to just walk.

[jpinpb]

Okay. Back to the topic at hand after the hijack.

Some people don’t want to walk away and mar their credit. Some try the loan modification route. So check this out:

Credit scores can drop after getting loan help

They really do want you to just walk.

[jpinpb]

Okay. Back to the topic at hand after the hijack.

Some people don’t want to walk away and mar their credit. Some try the loan modification route. So check this out:

Credit scores can drop after getting loan help

They really do want you to just walk.

[briansd1]

There are competing interests in the banking industry.

If a bank only services a loan in question, they want the management fees they can charge investors. The bank couldn’t care less if the homeowner walks because they can bill the investor for the foreclosure work.

If you are the VP of the servicing division of the bank, you want to maximize your division’s revenue. If that means more foreclosures, then so be it.

[briansd1]

There are competing interests in the banking industry.

If a bank only services a loan in question, they want the management fees they can charge investors. The bank couldn’t care less if the homeowner walks because they can bill the investor for the foreclosure work.

If you are the VP of the servicing division of the bank, you want to maximize your division’s revenue. If that means more foreclosures, then so be it.

[briansd1]

There are competing interests in the banking industry.

If a bank only services a loan in question, they want the management fees they can charge investors. The bank couldn’t care less if the homeowner walks because they can bill the investor for the foreclosure work.

If you are the VP of the servicing division of the bank, you want to maximize your division’s revenue. If that means more foreclosures, then so be it.

[briansd1]

There are competing interests in the banking industry.

If a bank only services a loan in question, they want the management fees they can charge investors. The bank couldn’t care less if the homeowner walks because they can bill the investor for the foreclosure work.

If you are the VP of the servicing division of the bank, you want to maximize your division’s revenue. If that means more foreclosures, then so be it.

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