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March 19, 2010 at 10:39 AM #528857March 19, 2010 at 10:50 AM #527946sdrealtorParticipant
Luck is defintely a HUGE part of it but saying all people are the same is a loser attitude and a cop out. All people are not the same. I know there are people smarter than me, better looking then me, more personable than me who are capable of things I am not. With that said, life is what you make out of it. You can’t hit that lucky home run if you never swing. Some people are content to be spectators and some are not. Some people swing and some people pretend they are playing the game but never take the bat off their shoulders. Some people are capable of hitting that home run when they swing and some people are only capable of generating a cool breeze when they swing. It still takes luck but luck only happens when preparation meets opportunity.
March 19, 2010 at 10:50 AM #528078sdrealtorParticipantLuck is defintely a HUGE part of it but saying all people are the same is a loser attitude and a cop out. All people are not the same. I know there are people smarter than me, better looking then me, more personable than me who are capable of things I am not. With that said, life is what you make out of it. You can’t hit that lucky home run if you never swing. Some people are content to be spectators and some are not. Some people swing and some people pretend they are playing the game but never take the bat off their shoulders. Some people are capable of hitting that home run when they swing and some people are only capable of generating a cool breeze when they swing. It still takes luck but luck only happens when preparation meets opportunity.
March 19, 2010 at 10:50 AM #528527sdrealtorParticipantLuck is defintely a HUGE part of it but saying all people are the same is a loser attitude and a cop out. All people are not the same. I know there are people smarter than me, better looking then me, more personable than me who are capable of things I am not. With that said, life is what you make out of it. You can’t hit that lucky home run if you never swing. Some people are content to be spectators and some are not. Some people swing and some people pretend they are playing the game but never take the bat off their shoulders. Some people are capable of hitting that home run when they swing and some people are only capable of generating a cool breeze when they swing. It still takes luck but luck only happens when preparation meets opportunity.
March 19, 2010 at 10:50 AM #528623sdrealtorParticipantLuck is defintely a HUGE part of it but saying all people are the same is a loser attitude and a cop out. All people are not the same. I know there are people smarter than me, better looking then me, more personable than me who are capable of things I am not. With that said, life is what you make out of it. You can’t hit that lucky home run if you never swing. Some people are content to be spectators and some are not. Some people swing and some people pretend they are playing the game but never take the bat off their shoulders. Some people are capable of hitting that home run when they swing and some people are only capable of generating a cool breeze when they swing. It still takes luck but luck only happens when preparation meets opportunity.
March 19, 2010 at 10:50 AM #528882sdrealtorParticipantLuck is defintely a HUGE part of it but saying all people are the same is a loser attitude and a cop out. All people are not the same. I know there are people smarter than me, better looking then me, more personable than me who are capable of things I am not. With that said, life is what you make out of it. You can’t hit that lucky home run if you never swing. Some people are content to be spectators and some are not. Some people swing and some people pretend they are playing the game but never take the bat off their shoulders. Some people are capable of hitting that home run when they swing and some people are only capable of generating a cool breeze when they swing. It still takes luck but luck only happens when preparation meets opportunity.
March 19, 2010 at 10:50 AM #527951SD RealtorParticipantThe degree of luck that involves our lives is a factor we all have. However we also have the ability within us to enhance that degree through our own personality, effort, ability, etc. To not say well, this decision I made which was basically stupid, was the result of external factors to me is simply not acceptable. There were plenty of people who were much better off, and much worse off, who simply did not buy a home. Period. So to claim to be a victim of external forces, or easy opportunity, or the entire industry pushed you into it, or whatever you want to choose, simply does not wash. It was a choice, nothing more, and nothing less. For some it worked out, for some it did not. The relativity of luck in your life shouldn’t be an enabler for poor decisions.
March 19, 2010 at 10:50 AM #528083SD RealtorParticipantThe degree of luck that involves our lives is a factor we all have. However we also have the ability within us to enhance that degree through our own personality, effort, ability, etc. To not say well, this decision I made which was basically stupid, was the result of external factors to me is simply not acceptable. There were plenty of people who were much better off, and much worse off, who simply did not buy a home. Period. So to claim to be a victim of external forces, or easy opportunity, or the entire industry pushed you into it, or whatever you want to choose, simply does not wash. It was a choice, nothing more, and nothing less. For some it worked out, for some it did not. The relativity of luck in your life shouldn’t be an enabler for poor decisions.
March 19, 2010 at 10:50 AM #528532SD RealtorParticipantThe degree of luck that involves our lives is a factor we all have. However we also have the ability within us to enhance that degree through our own personality, effort, ability, etc. To not say well, this decision I made which was basically stupid, was the result of external factors to me is simply not acceptable. There were plenty of people who were much better off, and much worse off, who simply did not buy a home. Period. So to claim to be a victim of external forces, or easy opportunity, or the entire industry pushed you into it, or whatever you want to choose, simply does not wash. It was a choice, nothing more, and nothing less. For some it worked out, for some it did not. The relativity of luck in your life shouldn’t be an enabler for poor decisions.
March 19, 2010 at 10:50 AM #528628SD RealtorParticipantThe degree of luck that involves our lives is a factor we all have. However we also have the ability within us to enhance that degree through our own personality, effort, ability, etc. To not say well, this decision I made which was basically stupid, was the result of external factors to me is simply not acceptable. There were plenty of people who were much better off, and much worse off, who simply did not buy a home. Period. So to claim to be a victim of external forces, or easy opportunity, or the entire industry pushed you into it, or whatever you want to choose, simply does not wash. It was a choice, nothing more, and nothing less. For some it worked out, for some it did not. The relativity of luck in your life shouldn’t be an enabler for poor decisions.
March 19, 2010 at 10:50 AM #528887SD RealtorParticipantThe degree of luck that involves our lives is a factor we all have. However we also have the ability within us to enhance that degree through our own personality, effort, ability, etc. To not say well, this decision I made which was basically stupid, was the result of external factors to me is simply not acceptable. There were plenty of people who were much better off, and much worse off, who simply did not buy a home. Period. So to claim to be a victim of external forces, or easy opportunity, or the entire industry pushed you into it, or whatever you want to choose, simply does not wash. It was a choice, nothing more, and nothing less. For some it worked out, for some it did not. The relativity of luck in your life shouldn’t be an enabler for poor decisions.
March 19, 2010 at 10:56 AM #527956anParticipantdavelj, I think you miss understood my point. I’m not disregarding luck/fate. That’s also a big factor. But luck alone won’t get you anywhere unless you’re willing (choose) to take advantage of it. It’s also not black and white, luck vs no luck, prepared vs unprepared. It’s a big combination both luck/fate and the choice to take advantage of that luck (you can’t win if you don’t play).
March 19, 2010 at 10:56 AM #528088anParticipantdavelj, I think you miss understood my point. I’m not disregarding luck/fate. That’s also a big factor. But luck alone won’t get you anywhere unless you’re willing (choose) to take advantage of it. It’s also not black and white, luck vs no luck, prepared vs unprepared. It’s a big combination both luck/fate and the choice to take advantage of that luck (you can’t win if you don’t play).
March 19, 2010 at 10:56 AM #528537anParticipantdavelj, I think you miss understood my point. I’m not disregarding luck/fate. That’s also a big factor. But luck alone won’t get you anywhere unless you’re willing (choose) to take advantage of it. It’s also not black and white, luck vs no luck, prepared vs unprepared. It’s a big combination both luck/fate and the choice to take advantage of that luck (you can’t win if you don’t play).
March 19, 2010 at 10:56 AM #528633anParticipantdavelj, I think you miss understood my point. I’m not disregarding luck/fate. That’s also a big factor. But luck alone won’t get you anywhere unless you’re willing (choose) to take advantage of it. It’s also not black and white, luck vs no luck, prepared vs unprepared. It’s a big combination both luck/fate and the choice to take advantage of that luck (you can’t win if you don’t play).
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