The new smart financial move is walking away

[scaredyclassic]

technically speaking, is it even possible to pull one’s self up by the bootstraps? Wouldn’t that be more like jumping than pulling up?

[scaredyclassic]

it doesn’t matter where you are in the world. you will still always act in your own self-perceived interest. Just because people are suffering horrifically elsewhere doesn’t mean that people with financial anxiety aren’t suffering.

[scaredyclassic]

it doesn’t matter where you are in the world. you will still always act in your own self-perceived interest. Just because people are suffering horrifically elsewhere doesn’t mean that people with financial anxiety aren’t suffering.

[scaredyclassic]

it doesn’t matter where you are in the world. you will still always act in your own self-perceived interest. Just because people are suffering horrifically elsewhere doesn’t mean that people with financial anxiety aren’t suffering.

[scaredyclassic]

it doesn’t matter where you are in the world. you will still always act in your own self-perceived interest. Just because people are suffering horrifically elsewhere doesn’t mean that people with financial anxiety aren’t suffering.

[scaredyclassic]

it doesn’t matter where you are in the world. you will still always act in your own self-perceived interest. Just because people are suffering horrifically elsewhere doesn’t mean that people with financial anxiety aren’t suffering.

[jpinpb]

[quote=scaredycat]you sound like my wife.

Let me put it to you this way.

Life would have been intolerable had i not had the 3rd kid.

[/quote]

I just have to say WOW. I must talk to these women who have such control over men. Some guy tells me no kids and I wanted kids, I moved on. That was the case for me many years ago in another lifetime when I did want kids. Now hindsight, I dodged a bullet I was willing to take (please – no offense to anyone who has kids – I bow to your sacrifices).

I just am amazed that guys still want to put it on women as if they had no choice in the matter. I honestly believe these are not the times where I find that valid. Maybe a generation or two ago I could buy that argument. It takes two. If you don’t want kids, then stick to your guns. It may mean the relationship. That is the ultimate decision and the choice to make. Relationship w/someone who wants kids or no kids and find someone who also doesn’t want kids. I have seen both out there, men who don’t want kids and men who do. Women who want kids and women who don’t.

[jpinpb]

[quote=scaredycat]you sound like my wife.

Let me put it to you this way.

Life would have been intolerable had i not had the 3rd kid.

[/quote]

I just have to say WOW. I must talk to these women who have such control over men. Some guy tells me no kids and I wanted kids, I moved on. That was the case for me many years ago in another lifetime when I did want kids. Now hindsight, I dodged a bullet I was willing to take (please – no offense to anyone who has kids – I bow to your sacrifices).

I just am amazed that guys still want to put it on women as if they had no choice in the matter. I honestly believe these are not the times where I find that valid. Maybe a generation or two ago I could buy that argument. It takes two. If you don’t want kids, then stick to your guns. It may mean the relationship. That is the ultimate decision and the choice to make. Relationship w/someone who wants kids or no kids and find someone who also doesn’t want kids. I have seen both out there, men who don’t want kids and men who do. Women who want kids and women who don’t.

[jpinpb]

[quote=scaredycat]you sound like my wife.

Let me put it to you this way.

Life would have been intolerable had i not had the 3rd kid.

[/quote]

I just have to say WOW. I must talk to these women who have such control over men. Some guy tells me no kids and I wanted kids, I moved on. That was the case for me many years ago in another lifetime when I did want kids. Now hindsight, I dodged a bullet I was willing to take (please – no offense to anyone who has kids – I bow to your sacrifices).

I just am amazed that guys still want to put it on women as if they had no choice in the matter. I honestly believe these are not the times where I find that valid. Maybe a generation or two ago I could buy that argument. It takes two. If you don’t want kids, then stick to your guns. It may mean the relationship. That is the ultimate decision and the choice to make. Relationship w/someone who wants kids or no kids and find someone who also doesn’t want kids. I have seen both out there, men who don’t want kids and men who do. Women who want kids and women who don’t.

[jpinpb]

[quote=scaredycat]you sound like my wife.

Let me put it to you this way.

Life would have been intolerable had i not had the 3rd kid.

[/quote]

I just have to say WOW. I must talk to these women who have such control over men. Some guy tells me no kids and I wanted kids, I moved on. That was the case for me many years ago in another lifetime when I did want kids. Now hindsight, I dodged a bullet I was willing to take (please – no offense to anyone who has kids – I bow to your sacrifices).

I just am amazed that guys still want to put it on women as if they had no choice in the matter. I honestly believe these are not the times where I find that valid. Maybe a generation or two ago I could buy that argument. It takes two. If you don’t want kids, then stick to your guns. It may mean the relationship. That is the ultimate decision and the choice to make. Relationship w/someone who wants kids or no kids and find someone who also doesn’t want kids. I have seen both out there, men who don’t want kids and men who do. Women who want kids and women who don’t.

[jpinpb]

[quote=scaredycat]you sound like my wife.

Let me put it to you this way.

Life would have been intolerable had i not had the 3rd kid.

[/quote]

I just have to say WOW. I must talk to these women who have such control over men. Some guy tells me no kids and I wanted kids, I moved on. That was the case for me many years ago in another lifetime when I did want kids. Now hindsight, I dodged a bullet I was willing to take (please – no offense to anyone who has kids – I bow to your sacrifices).

I just am amazed that guys still want to put it on women as if they had no choice in the matter. I honestly believe these are not the times where I find that valid. Maybe a generation or two ago I could buy that argument. It takes two. If you don’t want kids, then stick to your guns. It may mean the relationship. That is the ultimate decision and the choice to make. Relationship w/someone who wants kids or no kids and find someone who also doesn’t want kids. I have seen both out there, men who don’t want kids and men who do. Women who want kids and women who don’t.

[desmond]

[quote=SD Realtor]Desmond try not to change what you said. You wrote that the people who didn’t buy now are probably laughing. Nothing more and nothing less.

Let’s not retrofit your post okay? [/quote]

Retrofit a stupid post by myself? OK, I am laughing right now, I did not buy, so I am right! Let it go, it was poor humor at best.

[desmond]

[quote=SD Realtor]Desmond try not to change what you said. You wrote that the people who didn’t buy now are probably laughing. Nothing more and nothing less.

Let’s not retrofit your post okay? [/quote]

Retrofit a stupid post by myself? OK, I am laughing right now, I did not buy, so I am right! Let it go, it was poor humor at best.

[desmond]

[quote=SD Realtor]Desmond try not to change what you said. You wrote that the people who didn’t buy now are probably laughing. Nothing more and nothing less.

Let’s not retrofit your post okay? [/quote]

Retrofit a stupid post by myself? OK, I am laughing right now, I did not buy, so I am right! Let it go, it was poor humor at best.

[desmond]

[quote=SD Realtor]Desmond try not to change what you said. You wrote that the people who didn’t buy now are probably laughing. Nothing more and nothing less.

Let’s not retrofit your post okay? [/quote]

Retrofit a stupid post by myself? OK, I am laughing right now, I did not buy, so I am right! Let it go, it was poor humor at best.

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