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November 17, 2008 at 5:52 PM #306539November 17, 2008 at 6:00 PM #306085
(former)FormerSanDiegan
ParticipantBut apparently the fact I have not chosen to procrate yet makes this all moot.
That was not what I intended by my post. WRT the poopy pants argument, I was simply reacting to the notion of … “So (insert daughters namer here), I have noticed that you seem troubled, is anything wrong?”
… totally elective surgery for the totally vain than address the point that some teenagers face death or atleast extream physical or emotional violence from the passage of prop 4.
As for vain elective surgeries that was just one example I could come up with. Please provide me a list of elective surgeries that minors should be able to receive without parental consent or notification in your ideal world.
There are plenty of teens who face violence in the household, regardless of Prop 4. Defeat of Prop 4 does not help them.
In fact by knowing that their abusive parents might be notified, that might be enough incentive to push these children to seek help.
November 17, 2008 at 6:00 PM #306451(former)FormerSanDiegan
ParticipantBut apparently the fact I have not chosen to procrate yet makes this all moot.
That was not what I intended by my post. WRT the poopy pants argument, I was simply reacting to the notion of … “So (insert daughters namer here), I have noticed that you seem troubled, is anything wrong?”
… totally elective surgery for the totally vain than address the point that some teenagers face death or atleast extream physical or emotional violence from the passage of prop 4.
As for vain elective surgeries that was just one example I could come up with. Please provide me a list of elective surgeries that minors should be able to receive without parental consent or notification in your ideal world.
There are plenty of teens who face violence in the household, regardless of Prop 4. Defeat of Prop 4 does not help them.
In fact by knowing that their abusive parents might be notified, that might be enough incentive to push these children to seek help.
November 17, 2008 at 6:00 PM #306465(former)FormerSanDiegan
ParticipantBut apparently the fact I have not chosen to procrate yet makes this all moot.
That was not what I intended by my post. WRT the poopy pants argument, I was simply reacting to the notion of … “So (insert daughters namer here), I have noticed that you seem troubled, is anything wrong?”
… totally elective surgery for the totally vain than address the point that some teenagers face death or atleast extream physical or emotional violence from the passage of prop 4.
As for vain elective surgeries that was just one example I could come up with. Please provide me a list of elective surgeries that minors should be able to receive without parental consent or notification in your ideal world.
There are plenty of teens who face violence in the household, regardless of Prop 4. Defeat of Prop 4 does not help them.
In fact by knowing that their abusive parents might be notified, that might be enough incentive to push these children to seek help.
November 17, 2008 at 6:00 PM #306484(former)FormerSanDiegan
ParticipantBut apparently the fact I have not chosen to procrate yet makes this all moot.
That was not what I intended by my post. WRT the poopy pants argument, I was simply reacting to the notion of … “So (insert daughters namer here), I have noticed that you seem troubled, is anything wrong?”
… totally elective surgery for the totally vain than address the point that some teenagers face death or atleast extream physical or emotional violence from the passage of prop 4.
As for vain elective surgeries that was just one example I could come up with. Please provide me a list of elective surgeries that minors should be able to receive without parental consent or notification in your ideal world.
There are plenty of teens who face violence in the household, regardless of Prop 4. Defeat of Prop 4 does not help them.
In fact by knowing that their abusive parents might be notified, that might be enough incentive to push these children to seek help.
November 17, 2008 at 6:00 PM #306544(former)FormerSanDiegan
ParticipantBut apparently the fact I have not chosen to procrate yet makes this all moot.
That was not what I intended by my post. WRT the poopy pants argument, I was simply reacting to the notion of … “So (insert daughters namer here), I have noticed that you seem troubled, is anything wrong?”
… totally elective surgery for the totally vain than address the point that some teenagers face death or atleast extream physical or emotional violence from the passage of prop 4.
As for vain elective surgeries that was just one example I could come up with. Please provide me a list of elective surgeries that minors should be able to receive without parental consent or notification in your ideal world.
There are plenty of teens who face violence in the household, regardless of Prop 4. Defeat of Prop 4 does not help them.
In fact by knowing that their abusive parents might be notified, that might be enough incentive to push these children to seek help.
November 17, 2008 at 6:11 PM #306090Enorah
ParticipantThe unfortunate truth is that we do not have a system in place that can effectively handle the needs of abused children.
Also, let me repeat, children who are abused have trust issues, huge ones, meaning they do not seek help because they do not trust adults
and I’ll make sure to mention that the next time I talk with someone who was abused as a child, mention that they should have sought help for themselves. We will see how well that goes over.
November 17, 2008 at 6:11 PM #306456Enorah
ParticipantThe unfortunate truth is that we do not have a system in place that can effectively handle the needs of abused children.
Also, let me repeat, children who are abused have trust issues, huge ones, meaning they do not seek help because they do not trust adults
and I’ll make sure to mention that the next time I talk with someone who was abused as a child, mention that they should have sought help for themselves. We will see how well that goes over.
November 17, 2008 at 6:11 PM #306470Enorah
ParticipantThe unfortunate truth is that we do not have a system in place that can effectively handle the needs of abused children.
Also, let me repeat, children who are abused have trust issues, huge ones, meaning they do not seek help because they do not trust adults
and I’ll make sure to mention that the next time I talk with someone who was abused as a child, mention that they should have sought help for themselves. We will see how well that goes over.
November 17, 2008 at 6:11 PM #306489Enorah
ParticipantThe unfortunate truth is that we do not have a system in place that can effectively handle the needs of abused children.
Also, let me repeat, children who are abused have trust issues, huge ones, meaning they do not seek help because they do not trust adults
and I’ll make sure to mention that the next time I talk with someone who was abused as a child, mention that they should have sought help for themselves. We will see how well that goes over.
November 17, 2008 at 6:11 PM #306548Enorah
ParticipantThe unfortunate truth is that we do not have a system in place that can effectively handle the needs of abused children.
Also, let me repeat, children who are abused have trust issues, huge ones, meaning they do not seek help because they do not trust adults
and I’ll make sure to mention that the next time I talk with someone who was abused as a child, mention that they should have sought help for themselves. We will see how well that goes over.
November 17, 2008 at 6:21 PM #306100(former)FormerSanDiegan
ParticipantEnorah. I agree with you 100% that we do not have a system in place to handle the needs of abused children. Nobody can deny that child abuse and neglect is a horrific problem in our society. That is exactly why it was used as a red herring to get people to defeat prop 4.
But, what makes you think that lack of parental notification improves the lives of those who are abused ?
I contend that defeat of prop 4 does nothing to protect our youth from abuse. I also contend that passage of prop 4 also would do nothing to protect our youth from abuse.
Parental notification will not turn a non-abusive household into an abusive one.
Abusive and violent people DO NOT NEED AN EXCUSE to be violent or abusive. An abusive person abuses their victim regardless.
Presuming that parental notification gives abusers an excuse to abuse their child is naive.
November 17, 2008 at 6:21 PM #306466(former)FormerSanDiegan
ParticipantEnorah. I agree with you 100% that we do not have a system in place to handle the needs of abused children. Nobody can deny that child abuse and neglect is a horrific problem in our society. That is exactly why it was used as a red herring to get people to defeat prop 4.
But, what makes you think that lack of parental notification improves the lives of those who are abused ?
I contend that defeat of prop 4 does nothing to protect our youth from abuse. I also contend that passage of prop 4 also would do nothing to protect our youth from abuse.
Parental notification will not turn a non-abusive household into an abusive one.
Abusive and violent people DO NOT NEED AN EXCUSE to be violent or abusive. An abusive person abuses their victim regardless.
Presuming that parental notification gives abusers an excuse to abuse their child is naive.
November 17, 2008 at 6:21 PM #306480(former)FormerSanDiegan
ParticipantEnorah. I agree with you 100% that we do not have a system in place to handle the needs of abused children. Nobody can deny that child abuse and neglect is a horrific problem in our society. That is exactly why it was used as a red herring to get people to defeat prop 4.
But, what makes you think that lack of parental notification improves the lives of those who are abused ?
I contend that defeat of prop 4 does nothing to protect our youth from abuse. I also contend that passage of prop 4 also would do nothing to protect our youth from abuse.
Parental notification will not turn a non-abusive household into an abusive one.
Abusive and violent people DO NOT NEED AN EXCUSE to be violent or abusive. An abusive person abuses their victim regardless.
Presuming that parental notification gives abusers an excuse to abuse their child is naive.
November 17, 2008 at 6:21 PM #306498(former)FormerSanDiegan
ParticipantEnorah. I agree with you 100% that we do not have a system in place to handle the needs of abused children. Nobody can deny that child abuse and neglect is a horrific problem in our society. That is exactly why it was used as a red herring to get people to defeat prop 4.
But, what makes you think that lack of parental notification improves the lives of those who are abused ?
I contend that defeat of prop 4 does nothing to protect our youth from abuse. I also contend that passage of prop 4 also would do nothing to protect our youth from abuse.
Parental notification will not turn a non-abusive household into an abusive one.
Abusive and violent people DO NOT NEED AN EXCUSE to be violent or abusive. An abusive person abuses their victim regardless.
Presuming that parental notification gives abusers an excuse to abuse their child is naive.
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