going broke on 300K/year

[patientrenter]

[quote=CA renter]…
One is a necessity (assuming we want the human race to propagate), the other is just about desire….[/quote]

Survival of the human race is a bit abstract. I don’t think most women have kids out of a sense of duty to keep the human species from going extinct. (Not that there’s any danger of that. Which other large mammals number over 5 billion?) They do it because they want it, just as the man “does it” because he wants it. I don’t see either as being superior or selfless, although both have consequences that involve (different) personal sacrifices.

[scaredyclassic]

that sense that “family is important and everything else is trivial is probably biologically based. after all, the woman has invested reproductively in this one poor slob. genetically, the dude is thinking, goddamnit, I could go out and spread my seed all over the palce. so, no, there is nothing at our essential animal core that is particualrly noble about staying to raise the young ones. it’s just the way it is socially, big penalties for leaving. in general, i think women complain no matter what…if they stay home, if they work, whatever, i think msot guys would be happy to do anything and stay if women just would stop complaining. maybe that’s not possible, but if so, the divorce rate wills still remain high. culd be just my skewed view, but i think most guys eventually feel that whatever they do, they are doomed, so they might as well leave

[scaredyclassic]

that sense that “family is important and everything else is trivial is probably biologically based. after all, the woman has invested reproductively in this one poor slob. genetically, the dude is thinking, goddamnit, I could go out and spread my seed all over the palce. so, no, there is nothing at our essential animal core that is particualrly noble about staying to raise the young ones. it’s just the way it is socially, big penalties for leaving. in general, i think women complain no matter what…if they stay home, if they work, whatever, i think msot guys would be happy to do anything and stay if women just would stop complaining. maybe that’s not possible, but if so, the divorce rate wills still remain high. culd be just my skewed view, but i think most guys eventually feel that whatever they do, they are doomed, so they might as well leave

[scaredyclassic]

that sense that “family is important and everything else is trivial is probably biologically based. after all, the woman has invested reproductively in this one poor slob. genetically, the dude is thinking, goddamnit, I could go out and spread my seed all over the palce. so, no, there is nothing at our essential animal core that is particualrly noble about staying to raise the young ones. it’s just the way it is socially, big penalties for leaving. in general, i think women complain no matter what…if they stay home, if they work, whatever, i think msot guys would be happy to do anything and stay if women just would stop complaining. maybe that’s not possible, but if so, the divorce rate wills still remain high. culd be just my skewed view, but i think most guys eventually feel that whatever they do, they are doomed, so they might as well leave

[scaredyclassic]

that sense that “family is important and everything else is trivial is probably biologically based. after all, the woman has invested reproductively in this one poor slob. genetically, the dude is thinking, goddamnit, I could go out and spread my seed all over the palce. so, no, there is nothing at our essential animal core that is particualrly noble about staying to raise the young ones. it’s just the way it is socially, big penalties for leaving. in general, i think women complain no matter what…if they stay home, if they work, whatever, i think msot guys would be happy to do anything and stay if women just would stop complaining. maybe that’s not possible, but if so, the divorce rate wills still remain high. culd be just my skewed view, but i think most guys eventually feel that whatever they do, they are doomed, so they might as well leave

[scaredyclassic]

that sense that “family is important and everything else is trivial is probably biologically based. after all, the woman has invested reproductively in this one poor slob. genetically, the dude is thinking, goddamnit, I could go out and spread my seed all over the palce. so, no, there is nothing at our essential animal core that is particualrly noble about staying to raise the young ones. it’s just the way it is socially, big penalties for leaving. in general, i think women complain no matter what…if they stay home, if they work, whatever, i think msot guys would be happy to do anything and stay if women just would stop complaining. maybe that’s not possible, but if so, the divorce rate wills still remain high. culd be just my skewed view, but i think most guys eventually feel that whatever they do, they are doomed, so they might as well leave

[scaredyclassic]

that sense that “family is important and everything else is trivial is probably biologically based. after all, the woman has invested reproductively in this one poor slob. genetically, the dude is thinking, goddamnit, I could go out and spread my seed all over the palce. so, no, there is nothing at our essential animal core that is particualrly noble about staying to raise the young ones. it’s just the way it is socially, big penalties for leaving. in general, i think women complain no matter what…if they stay home, if they work, whatever, i think msot guys would be happy to do anything and stay if women just would stop complaining. maybe that’s not possible, but if so, the divorce rate wills still remain high. culd be just my skewed view, but i think most guys eventually feel that whatever they do, they are doomed, so they might as well leave

[scaredyclassic]

that sense that “family is important and everything else is trivial is probably biologically based. after all, the woman has invested reproductively in this one poor slob. genetically, the dude is thinking, goddamnit, I could go out and spread my seed all over the palce. so, no, there is nothing at our essential animal core that is particualrly noble about staying to raise the young ones. it’s just the way it is socially, big penalties for leaving. in general, i think women complain no matter what…if they stay home, if they work, whatever, i think msot guys would be happy to do anything and stay if women just would stop complaining. maybe that’s not possible, but if so, the divorce rate wills still remain high. culd be just my skewed view, but i think most guys eventually feel that whatever they do, they are doomed, so they might as well leave

[scaredyclassic]

that sense that “family is important and everything else is trivial is probably biologically based. after all, the woman has invested reproductively in this one poor slob. genetically, the dude is thinking, goddamnit, I could go out and spread my seed all over the palce. so, no, there is nothing at our essential animal core that is particualrly noble about staying to raise the young ones. it’s just the way it is socially, big penalties for leaving. in general, i think women complain no matter what…if they stay home, if they work, whatever, i think msot guys would be happy to do anything and stay if women just would stop complaining. maybe that’s not possible, but if so, the divorce rate wills still remain high. culd be just my skewed view, but i think most guys eventually feel that whatever they do, they are doomed, so they might as well leave

[scaredyclassic]

that sense that “family is important and everything else is trivial is probably biologically based. after all, the woman has invested reproductively in this one poor slob. genetically, the dude is thinking, goddamnit, I could go out and spread my seed all over the palce. so, no, there is nothing at our essential animal core that is particualrly noble about staying to raise the young ones. it’s just the way it is socially, big penalties for leaving. in general, i think women complain no matter what…if they stay home, if they work, whatever, i think msot guys would be happy to do anything and stay if women just would stop complaining. maybe that’s not possible, but if so, the divorce rate wills still remain high. culd be just my skewed view, but i think most guys eventually feel that whatever they do, they are doomed, so they might as well leave

[scaredyclassic]

that sense that “family is important and everything else is trivial is probably biologically based. after all, the woman has invested reproductively in this one poor slob. genetically, the dude is thinking, goddamnit, I could go out and spread my seed all over the palce. so, no, there is nothing at our essential animal core that is particualrly noble about staying to raise the young ones. it’s just the way it is socially, big penalties for leaving. in general, i think women complain no matter what…if they stay home, if they work, whatever, i think msot guys would be happy to do anything and stay if women just would stop complaining. maybe that’s not possible, but if so, the divorce rate wills still remain high. culd be just my skewed view, but i think most guys eventually feel that whatever they do, they are doomed, so they might as well leave

[patb]

[quote=PKMAN]
Earning $300K annually and broke is not acceptable in any city, even ones with higher cost-of-living than NYC (Tokyo, London, etc.). Things that she considers necessity are things that most of us can do without or can be trimmed down. It’s her choice to live in an affluent upper-class community. It’s her choice to have her kids feel the peer-pressure of much wealthier kids. It’s her choice to not want to leave a surrounding and lifestyle that she’s accustomed to.

No need to feel sorry for the choices she made and the predicament that she’s in right now. Most of us would gladly trade job (and pay) with her and would be able to find a much more cost-effective solution to carry on our lives without being broke.[/quote]

I make way less then her and I live a way better life.
our place is small but my girl and my cat fill the place with love.

[patb]

[quote=PKMAN]
Earning $300K annually and broke is not acceptable in any city, even ones with higher cost-of-living than NYC (Tokyo, London, etc.). Things that she considers necessity are things that most of us can do without or can be trimmed down. It’s her choice to live in an affluent upper-class community. It’s her choice to have her kids feel the peer-pressure of much wealthier kids. It’s her choice to not want to leave a surrounding and lifestyle that she’s accustomed to.

No need to feel sorry for the choices she made and the predicament that she’s in right now. Most of us would gladly trade job (and pay) with her and would be able to find a much more cost-effective solution to carry on our lives without being broke.[/quote]

I make way less then her and I live a way better life.
our place is small but my girl and my cat fill the place with love.

[patb]

[quote=PKMAN]
Earning $300K annually and broke is not acceptable in any city, even ones with higher cost-of-living than NYC (Tokyo, London, etc.). Things that she considers necessity are things that most of us can do without or can be trimmed down. It’s her choice to live in an affluent upper-class community. It’s her choice to have her kids feel the peer-pressure of much wealthier kids. It’s her choice to not want to leave a surrounding and lifestyle that she’s accustomed to.

No need to feel sorry for the choices she made and the predicament that she’s in right now. Most of us would gladly trade job (and pay) with her and would be able to find a much more cost-effective solution to carry on our lives without being broke.[/quote]

I make way less then her and I live a way better life.
our place is small but my girl and my cat fill the place with love.

[patb]

[quote=PKMAN]
Earning $300K annually and broke is not acceptable in any city, even ones with higher cost-of-living than NYC (Tokyo, London, etc.). Things that she considers necessity are things that most of us can do without or can be trimmed down. It’s her choice to live in an affluent upper-class community. It’s her choice to have her kids feel the peer-pressure of much wealthier kids. It’s her choice to not want to leave a surrounding and lifestyle that she’s accustomed to.

No need to feel sorry for the choices she made and the predicament that she’s in right now. Most of us would gladly trade job (and pay) with her and would be able to find a much more cost-effective solution to carry on our lives without being broke.[/quote]

I make way less then her and I live a way better life.
our place is small but my girl and my cat fill the place with love.

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