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March 3, 2014 at 1:35 AM #771413March 3, 2014 at 5:11 AM #771414flyerParticipant
Extremely interesting, CAR, thank you.
In the final analysis, one, regardless of how gifted, does still have to go out into the world and find a place for his or her “giftedness,” regardless of what variety. It is in this “transference to real life,” if you will, that we have seen the greatest level of failure among many we have known.
To use an extreme example: After shooting under par on the links, the budding concert pianist who conceives of a new black hole theory between bars, then writes a screenplay during intermission, but never finds a “home” in which to place his or her talents, for all practical purposes, will, most likely, not live a happy, fulfilling or productive life.
The “gifted” walk a fine line in life, and that is why we have always taken great care to strike a balance concerning this issue. It hasn’t been easy, but, because we have tried to stay uber aware of the pitfalls, the “giftedness” has turned out to be a blessing, rather than a curse in our family.
March 3, 2014 at 6:15 AM #771415scaredyclassicParticipantI didn’t get 99th percentile SAT scores by studying …back then it was normal to walk into thectestvcold. It’s aptitude after all.
A quick and agile mind can take you a long way in a system that values glib superficial thinking.
Out in reality of course it may not mean crap.
March 3, 2014 at 6:17 AM #771416scaredyclassicParticipantSuccess means having to worry about every damn thing in the world except money. Johnny cash.
March 3, 2014 at 6:38 AM #771417scaredyclassicParticipant[quote=flyer]Extremely interesting, CAR, thank you.
In the final analysis, one, regardless of how gifted, does still have to go out into the world and find a place for his or her “giftedness,” regardless of what variety. It is in this “transference to real life,” if you will, that we have seen the greatest level of failure among many we have known.
To use an extreme example: After shooting under par on the links, the budding concert pianist who conceives of a new black hole theory between bars, then writes a screenplay during intermission, but never finds a “home” in which to place his or her talents, for all practical purposes, will, most likely, not live a happy, fulfilling or productive life.
The “gifted” walk a fine line in life, and that is why we have always taken great care to strike a balance concerning this issue. It hasn’t been easy, but, because we have tried to stay uber aware of the pitfalls, the “giftedness” has turned out to be a blessing, rather than a curse in our family.[/quote]
Sometimes it seems like the brightest or most diligent burn outvfastest.
March 3, 2014 at 9:00 AM #771421CoronitaParticipant[quote=scaredyclassic]Be the best in a crappy school![/quote]
true…March 3, 2014 at 10:56 AM #771429CluelessParticipantTo kill the bill at the Assembly, which is the most effective next step,, please Email, Call, or fax to the Assemblymember in your area:
(1). Brian Maienschein – District 77 (Carmel Valley, Poway, Rancho Bernardo, Rancho Penasquitos, Mirama, etc.): http://republican.assembly.ca.gov/member/AD77 (It worked for me ! His office replied my email in 2h)
(2). Rocky Chavez – District 76 (Carlsbad, Encinitas, Oceanside, etc.): http://republican.assembly.ca.gov/member/AD76/You can find your district by: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/California_State_Assembly_districts
CA Republic Assembly members: ttp://republican.assembly.ca.gov/?p=members&o=d#bottom
CA All Assembly members: http://assembly.ca.gov/assemblymembersFlu- I send you a message, please check it out.
March 3, 2014 at 10:59 AM #771430CluelessParticipant[quote=Clueless]To kill the bill at the Assembly, which is the most effective next step,, please Email, Call, or fax to the Assemblymember in your area:
(1). Brian Maienschein – District 77 (Carmel Valley, Poway, Rancho Bernardo, Rancho Penasquitos, Mirama, etc.): http://republican.assembly.ca.gov/member/AD77 (It worked for me ! His office replied my email in 2h)
(2). Rocky Chavez – District 76 (Carlsbad, Encinitas, Oceanside, etc.): http://republican.assembly.ca.gov/member/AD76/You can find your district by: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/California_State_Assembly_districts
CA Republic Assembly members: ttp://republican.assembly.ca.gov/?p=members&o=d#bottom
CA All Assembly members: http://assembly.ca.gov/assemblymembersFlu- I send you a message, please check it out.[/quote]
Just state: I am against SCA5, Please vote No to SCA5.
March 3, 2014 at 2:47 PM #771437AnonymousGuestBut who will speak for the dumb kids?
CAR to the rescue!
March 3, 2014 at 3:55 PM #771440CoronitaParticipant[quote=harvey]But who will speak for the dumb kids?
CAR to the rescue![/quote]
It isn’t about dumb kids… You know the sad part of this is… Most “genius” kids either flunk out because they never bother to try or they end up like Mark Z and Bill Gates and drop out on their own because they have a better use of their time. So this really isn’t about “smart kids”.
It’s really about folks who paid their dues, put in a lot of time and effort to further themselves….And simply being denied opportunity because of their ethnicity in the interest of filling quotas…
Put in another way, it would be like the NBA having a policy that says that since asians make up 13-14% of the California population, asians are disproportionately under-represented on the LA Lakers and LA Clippers…
As a result, there should be quotas that specifically recruit asians and fill 13% of the starters on the LA Lakers and LA Clippers.. As a result, there should be a law that restrict the number of african americans that are on the LA Lakers and LA Clippers so that the percentage of african americans on the LA Lakers and LA Clippers is similar to the % of population in CA that are african americans….. irrespective of how good they may be..Simply because they are african americans and there are “too many of them” on the NBA teams…it doesn’t matter if they have “talent” or achieved great athleticism through “hard work”….
Of course the if someone did propose such a ridiculous racist/discriminatory policy, of course all hell would break lose.
So, again…….Double standards anyone?????
It would be a pretty funny spoof on the daily show if we had an SCA-NBA bill…
March 3, 2014 at 4:04 PM #771442anParticipant[quote=flu][quote=harvey]But who will speak for the dumb kids?
CAR to the rescue![/quote]
It isn’t about dumb kids… You know the sad part of this is… Most “genius” kids either flunk out because they never bother to try or they end up like Mark Z and Bill Gates and drop out on their own because they have a better use of their time. So this really isn’t about “smart kids”.
It’s really about folks who paid their dues, put in a lot of time and effort to further themselves….And simply being denied opportunity because of their ethnicity in the interest of filling quotas…
Put in another way, it would be like the NBA having a policy that says that since asians make up 13-14% of the California population, asians are disproportionately under-represented on the LA Lakers and LA Clippers…
As a result, there should be quotas that specifically recruit asians and fill 13% of the starters on the LA Lakers and LA Clippers.. As a result, there should be a law that restrict the number of african americans that are on the LA Lakers and LA Clippers so that the percentage of african americans on the LA Lakers and LA Clippers is similar to the % of population in CA that are african americans….. irrespective of how good they may be..Simply because they are african americans and there are “too many of them” on the NBA teams…it doesn’t matter if they have “talent” or achieved great athleticism through “hard work”….
Of course the if someone did propose such a ridiculous racist/discriminatory policy, of course all hell would break lose.
So, again…….Double standards anyone?????
It would be a pretty funny spoof on the daily show if we had an SCA-NBA bill…[/quote]+1
March 3, 2014 at 5:05 PM #771443CA renterParticipant[quote=flyer]Extremely interesting, CAR, thank you.
In the final analysis, one, regardless of how gifted, does still have to go out into the world and find a place for his or her “giftedness,” regardless of what variety. It is in this “transference to real life,” if you will, that we have seen the greatest level of failure among many we have known.
To use an extreme example: After shooting under par on the links, the budding concert pianist who conceives of a new black hole theory between bars, then writes a screenplay during intermission, but never finds a “home” in which to place his or her talents, for all practical purposes, will, most likely, not live a happy, fulfilling or productive life.
The “gifted” walk a fine line in life, and that is why we have always taken great care to strike a balance concerning this issue. It hasn’t been easy, but, because we have tried to stay uber aware of the pitfalls, the “giftedness” has turned out to be a blessing, rather than a curse in our family.[/quote]
Absolutely, flyer, high IQ can be a curse as much as it is a blessing. There is also a correlation between high IQs and mental illness.
http://psychcentral.com/lib/intelligence-linked-to-bipolar-disorder/0005518
http://www.livescience.com/36259-anxiety-linked-high-iq.html
http://www.davidsongifted.org/db/Articles_id_10086.aspx
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Like your story, some friends of my parents had a son with a 160+ IQ. He attended an Ivy League university and law school, and eventually opened his own practice in NY. Within a few years, he started acting irrationally…had to leave the business and moved back into his parents house where he remained indefinitely (last time I heard of him, he was still living there, decades later), walking around in his robe and reading lots and lots of voluminous, intellectually challenging books.
There are many stories just like this out there, as I’m sure you know. It’s why I think we ought to give equal(?) consideration to non-academic accomplishments when choosing between college applicants. I’d personally like to see more students who are more focused on ways to make the world a better place, as opposed to those who are simply focused on improving their own lot. That’s what colleges try to do when they look at essays, interviews, extracurricular activities and accomplishments, which I think is a good thing.
And just to be clear, I’m opposed to racial quotas, too. Just wanted to toss around the idea that, no matter what the deciding factors are, college entrance requirements are discriminatory by their very nature. Oftentimes, what they are discriminating for (or against) are things that people are born with…like skin color, physical ability (in the case of athletic scholarships, etc.) or intelligence. How can we really determine what is “fair”?
March 3, 2014 at 5:13 PM #771445AnonymousGuest[quote=flu]It isn’t about dumb kids… [/quote]
Yes, I know that.
The bill sounds like something out of Atlas Shrugged.
Hard to believe it is not fiction.
March 3, 2014 at 5:45 PM #771446ocrenterParticipant[quote=AN]
I think in honor of this bill, I’ll change my kid’s last name to Hernandez, just to make a mockery of this ridiculous “law”….Please sign the petition, and get your significant other and all of your family members and relatives to sign… I wonder if on the application, you check the Hispanic box. Would they be able to tell? Maybe that’s one way around it. You can very well have a Chinese dad and a Mexican mom and you just happen to identify yourself more with your Hispanic heritage. That way, you don’t have to go through the hassle of changing your name :-).[/quote]
Hey, there’s a little known community of Cantonese immigrants in Mexicali, these immigrants to the US are considered “Hispanics.” I have had some encounters with them throughout the years, to see these guys speaking Spanish and needing Spanish translators is a real trip.
I think my daughter just became one of these Hispanic Cantonese from Mexicali… hehe
March 3, 2014 at 5:49 PM #771447ocrenterParticipant[quote=cahunter]I have learned this bill for some time and have emailed and called my state assembly representative to vote NO on this bill.
Ed Hernandez sponsored similar bill, SB 185, in 2011. It was passed in both state senate and assembly but vetoed by Governor Jerry Brown. This time around, he is hope that with the 2/3 majority power of democrats, this bill can be presented to California voters to decide in November election.
This is a bill of race discrimination to me. Its ridiculousness is best illustrated by a comment I read here: http://capoliticalnews.com/2014/02/02/most-racist-bill-in-california-history-sca-5-by-democrat-senator-hernandez-forces-racism-as-criteria-to-entrance-to-uc-schools-limit-womens-enrollment-as-well/#IDComment796169378
I am very sad by this proposal. I am Korean adopted by a Hispanic family. Looks like all my siblings will get a better chance to get to college but me
. How stupid this is! I love my adoption family but this makes me sick to stomach.[/quote]“Hispanic” is a culture, not a race.
Because you were raised by a Hispanic family, you are culturally a Hispanic.
Nothing wrong with checking that Hispanic box with pride. 🙂
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