There is a solution, it’s called a pre-nup. Unless of course you haven’t already had your kids, then I can’t help you. But avoiding romantic entanglements for fear of financial loss is no way to go about enjoying your limited time on this planet. Find a woman you enjoy being with, who treats you like a king, you are attracted to and who is grounded in a similar way to yourself, perfection is overrated. A woman with a great education, career, credit report and investment portfolio is just as likely if not more likely to leave you than a poor one with bad credit. She’s also probably more adept at skewering you when things go south. There are millions of loyal, sexy and loving women out there, unfortunately most men are chasing the same 10% of the female population who do not fall into that category for whatever singular attribute they have. Believe me, I’ve dated some seemingly perfect women, but try to look beyond the exterior and the pedigree.
Make sure she turns you on, will fulfill any fantasies you have or will have and when you see her in a crowded room, she’s the one you would want to take home. I have never been aroused by a balance sheet, in fact any woman that can be described as “perfect” is probably shit in bed. Be smart, but don’t be afraid of a little imperfection. There are plenty of good ones out there, especially the curvy ones (sorry, personal preference), don’t let your filters play tricks on you.
