[quote=The-Shoveler]Not trying to be sexist, but it is fairly unusual for a woman to marry down.
But times are changing, Going to get harder and harder for a Woman to marry up.
Maybe that’s a good thing[/quote]
Actually, not true. For Chinese from China, there’s plenty of cases that the woman wears the pants of the household. That’s one good thing that Communist China killed.
It quite common that the man has to go work comes home and cooks and takes care of the kids. The wife goes to work as a Director and sucks at taking care of the kids.
But what I would consider is at the bare minimum marriage of equal economics AND/OR equal spending habits. People don’t think it’s a big deal but it is…People get into fights all the time over money for the stupidest reason, and the best way to avoid it is both people share the same view and have similar spending habits.
Then it becomes a merger of equal assets versus a hostile takeover where one party is simply resting and vesting until he/she puts in his/her time and then quits after fully vested (7 years)….ha ha..