Simply amazing. Marion asks for advice regarding one of the guys she is dating. Asks if she is being unreasonable. Then provides a confusing, conflicting story/rationale.
Many people take the time to give their well thought out response to her query. The vast majority of comments explain that she is in fact being unreasonable. Her flawed analysis of the situation is exposed, her contradictions explained to her. Her response is to personally attack a few individuals, and completely ignore the substance of the majority of the posts. Then backpedals and claims she was somehow misunderstood. In a nutshell, she does not want any advice from anyone unless it is to let her know she is right. In a further attempt to take attention away from her irrational posts she concentrates on trading recipes.
I would love to hear her ex-husbands side of the story. That would probably clear a few things up about her and her stubborn refusal to acknowledge when she is wrong and inability to accept any critical advice.
Marion: What advice have your girlfriends given when you asked them this same question? Or any of your friends for that matter?
By the way, it only makes sense to avoid commingling one’s funds when getting married to someone that is a financial liability. Why is that a problem for you? Why so insistent on maintaining a joint account and putting your husbands finances in jeopardy? It’s not a trust issue, it’s just plain selfish and shortsighted to demand a potential financial disaster.
Diego: As a boy my pastor called me “Pablo”. When I mentioned that to a friend awhile back, he called me Pablo Escobar. I had no idea who that was until he told me. I don’t have any sympathies for major drug kingpins or their like, but thought the name sounded cool. Especially when it is a play on words. The “Q” is because I practice law. Someday when I’m done practicing I’ll do it for real. Just like on t.v.