[quote=scaredyclassic][quote=FlyerInHi]I can understand baggage, but don’t want it my own life. Marriage is supposed to make life more enjoyable. If not, then why do it?
Would you marry an alcoholic or drug addict?
Culture, ethnicity, economics are not baggage. But family full of drama and invective is baggage.
Oh, never marry a dirty person. My observations show that dirty people are of weak character and make bad partners.[/quote]
You don’t get married to enjoy life. You get married to experience The Full Catastrophe, as zorba the Greek calls it.[/quote]
Alexis Zorba: Am I not a man? And is a man not stupid? I’m a man, so I married. Wife, children, house,everything. The full catastrophe.
there is a lo ot of wisdom in that zorba book. and movie